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[peekingone]

well done those pictures are a pick me upper for sure as well as other things lol

 

[frdrcnjohn]

I believe that underneath that good looking body that there is a heart that is withering away because it can no longer give to the person she gave that gift to earlier in life,oh what a prize to earn such a priceless gift given freely, it can only be honestly earned with mutual respect and honor and oh what joy shall be ahead.

 

[smallgirl]

well done those pictures are a pick me upper for sure as well as other things lol

im glad i helped.

 

[frdrcnjohn]

How many days are in a life with out love? too danm many H ow many day and nights are there with love? never enough

 

[timidbloke]

after those pics how can you ever be down,certainly picked me up. keep posting.XXXXXXX

 

[sensyngman]

Hang in there SG You're beautiful I especially love this one

xxx
Tyler

 

[lastson42]

smallgirl, I always get a huge "pick me up" when I get to view your beautiful body keep your chin up babe

 

[guyoncebitten]

Love the last set

 

[Spamasutra]

Well I certainly appreciate your unique ways. Thanks for sharing - you are a wonderful sight to behold

everyone has been so nice, and so helpful on one my rare days when im down. this is my way of showing thanks. enjoy.

 

[nectar_seeker]

everyone has been so nice, and so helpful on one my rare days when im down. this is my way of showing thanks. enjoy.

http://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=962406&d=1255461854 is just mouth-watering!! You have an amazing body! Hope you have a good day tomorrow!

 

[mr.mm]

...........

 

[sport_scout]

No one can steal my joy!

Smallgirl,

I hate that you are going thru this mess. I have often found myself in exactly the same situation for exactly the same reasons. I too search for peace and quiet. (I don't like when people respond to a story with "I know how you feel." They normally do not have a clue. In your situation, I know how you feel.

I heard a sermon in church last week that hit me hard and has stayed with me thus far. Stating it simply, the focus of the sermon was to 'Not let anyone steal your joy' (Similar to what Ace said earlier).

You have to be allowed to be who you are or you will not be happy. You can not allow anyone to make you be something you are not. It is not even fair to ask this of someone.

There is give and take in any/every relationship. But for one to be the only giver and the other to be a complete taker spells unhappiness. (I know he has great qualities and that you are trying to figure out if the good out weighs the bad.) You can give up the internet, hide who you are, what makes you happy, but this will not lead to a happy healthy relationship. The giver grows more and more unhappy and ultimately resents the taker for this unhappiness.

I am not saying to walk away. I respect that you want to make it work if possible. But please remember, it must work for both of you. People change. People grow. There are no do-overs, but there are restarts! You are young, beautiful and intelligent. You have a lot to offer.

Damn....if I could only be man enough to take my own advice.....


Get away and get your head clear. Take a few days to visit family D), take a night or two to get away from the family. Have dinner with a stranger () and vent, talk, dream. You will be able to go back refreshed and may have more motivation to work hard to make things work out the way you desire them to be.

A smile, a flower & a kiss for you. I hope things move towards the better side!

 

[OneHD]

Hi, smallgirl. I just wanted to add my support to the others who have shared theirs with you. We are about the same "vintage" and I too am married. The fact that my husband is fully supportive of my (really our) experience on lit makes me appreciate it even more when I read of your conflicts over it. I must say it raises my hackles a little to think that he would hold you responsible for his happiness and take none for yours. Anyway, I for one think you're terrific, and even if you don't post any more pictures, I hope you will stay connected with this community. There really are a bunch of great people here and I think you would find a bit of sustenance from them. I wish you the very best, whatever you decide.

Sue

Hi smallgirl and I have to agree with Silkcrow ..have posted I think in your thread . but if not have lurked there at times ... Your signature line says it all .. You are a Human Being ...and not there to be controlled by emotions, a leash .. just treated as an equal in all part of your relationship .. Men "being one myself" at times tend to forget about our partners in life and their needs .. Your Husband I think is a very negelectful fool and very self centered ... You have your life and needs that need to fullfilled as well .. I wish you all the luck that the I can and do hope that You can find a resolution that allows You to live your life and enjoy it

 

[engagemind]

Peace -- Huggs

Small I wish we could take away your pain, but all of us experience pain/down times in our lives.
In reference to : "i noticed that...i have very very few days when im down. this was the worse, by far, ive had in a good long while. nice to know im wanted somewhere at least.." rest assured you are wanted, but more importantly that we care and want you and your family to be happier.

Why am I here, after all I am older (but told I look younger) have four kids and a wonderful wife, but the sexual passion has left, and I find myself here, just looking for some online excitement. I would never want to hurt or upset my wife, and wish I could be content, ahhh the human frailty. If you ever care/need to chat, just for reassurance or someone to listen (I would never try to change your life situation) please feel free to contact me.
Hang in there, huggs

 

[Fflow]

Oh my goodness!

I wish I were there to hold your hips as my lips kissed down that lovely back.

 

[smallgirl]

Smallgirl,

I hate that you are going thru this mess. I have often found myself in exactly the same situation for exactly the same reasons. I too search for peace and quiet. (I don't like when people respond to a story with "I know how you feel." They normally do not have a clue. In your situation, I know how you feel.

I heard a sermon in church last week that hit me hard and has stayed with me thus far. Stating it simply, the focus of the sermon was to 'Not let anyone steal your joy' (Similar to what Ace said earlier).

You have to be allowed to be who you are or you will not be happy. You can not allow anyone to make you be something you are not. It is not even fair to ask this of someone.

There is give and take in any/every relationship. But for one to be the only giver and the other to be a complete taker spells unhappiness. (I know he has great qualities and that you are trying to figure out if the good out weighs the bad.) You can give up the internet, hide who you are, what makes you happy, but this will not lead to a happy healthy relationship. The giver grows more and more unhappy and ultimately resents the taker for this unhappiness.

I am not saying to walk away. I respect that you want to make it work if possible. But please remember, it must work for both of you. People change. People grow. There are no do-overs, but there are restarts! You are young, beautiful and intelligent. You have a lot to offer.

Damn....if I could only be man enough to take my own advice.....


Get away and get your head clear. Take a few days to visit family D), take a night or two to get away from the family. Have dinner with a stranger () and vent, talk, dream. You will be able to go back refreshed and may have more motivation to work hard to make things work out the way you desire them to be.

A smile, a flower & a kiss for you. I hope things move towards the better side!

i know all this is true. i think i would rather raise 10 teenage girls than try to make a marriage work. its a whole lot easier.

we've both agreed we've grown too far apart, and its never going to work. we just dont know the next step...finances, kids,etc. its just going to take time to figure out.

 

[TallMan60]

i know all this is true. i think i would rather raise 10 teenage girls than try to make a marriage work. its a whole lot easier.

we've both agreed we've grown too far apart, and its never going to work. we just dont know the next step...finances, kids,etc. its just going to take time to figure out.

(((hugs))) Though I'm very happy to see this, it means that things will get better for you both eventually, and that you are communicating and trying to work out what's next for you both.

 

[helicopter_us]

Sweetie I dont post very often, been through my own trouble with lit and family. I hope that whatever the outcome is that you are happy in the end. It is never easy to stay together or to split. The pain will be there no matter which way you go but in the end it does diminsh. Good luck

 

[smallgirl]

(((hugs))) Though I'm very happy to see this, it means that things will get better for you both eventually, and that you are communicating and trying to work out what's next for you both.

whats got me puzzled about the whole thing, this whole time...he has every mans fantasy wife...as far as sex...and he just doesnt get it. or appreciate it.

 

[coffeelover5]

i know all this is true. i think i would rather raise 10 teenage girls than try to make a marriage work. its a whole lot easier.

we've both agreed we've grown too far apart, and its never going to work. we just dont know the next step...finances, kids,etc. its just going to take time to figure out.

whats got me puzzled about the whole thing, this whole time...he has every mans fantasy wife...as far as sex...and he just doesnt get it. or appreciate it.

As a man that has lived thru one divorce and has often considered a second I really feel for you both. There is nothing happy about it. The end of a marriage is bankrupting for all emotionaly but if at the end you are in a better place then it is all worth it.

It seems that all too often instead of open commnication the oppoiste is true, people talk without listening all too often. That is the sad reality of it in my opinion at least.

Hang in there and keep positive thoughts about yourself and move forward as often as possible.

 

[tcwild100]

As a man that has lived thru one divorce and has often considered a second I really feel for you both. There is nothing happy about it. The end of a marriage is bankrupting for all emotionaly but if at the end you are in a better place then it is all worth it.

It seems that all too often instead of open commnication the oppoiste is true, people talk without listening all too often. That is the sad reality of it in my opinion at least.

Hang in there and keep positive thoughts about yourself and move forward as often as possible.

Good words, and the same experience I've had (one divorce and almost another).

You have significant value as a person, SmallGirl. Don't ever forget that, and never let another person put you down and keep you there.

You're beautiful, and deserve the happiness that you must pursue.

 

[frdrcnjohn]

some times people do not know what they had until it is lost, hang in there smallgirl you have many options and do feel that you are a strong woman

 

[eatinpussy]

just wanted to let you know that you are a simply amazing woman!!!!!

 

[jeanbleu]

small body

i hate to lower the tone n am sure u r as petite as u appear to be but yon ass needs spanked !!! its lovely but useless xxx

 

[KnightlySeducer]

i've come to this conversation late, Dear Lady, and have nothing to add but that while you may not be everyman's dream wife, you certainly understand us well enough, and you are more than sensuous, more than simply beautiful. I hear your heart and know you carry a deep capacity for love, and obviously have a wonderful capacity and interest in sexuality. Those will carry you far, whatever you decide. I wish you peace in your journey to find out what is right for you. Thank you for sharing yourself, not just your pictures, with us.
KS