Most surprising sexual talents and interests

[Dante64]

The Internet and dating apps have made it much easier to find partners that advertise specific interest and desires. Even though that definitely helps find like-minded people I’ve always enjoyed being pleasantly surprised by the sexual talents, interests, and kinks of people that I met casually. The surprise itself is fun, as is the chance to reflect on how their sexuality fits in with everything else that I know about them.

What been the moments in which a partner surprised you with a particular skill or interest? I recently went out with a woman I had casually met through work and we ended up hitting it off. At the end of the night she came back to my place and it turned out she was into intense spanking. Not just light taps or teasing: full CMNF scenarios. She wanted me to take pictures of the marks that I left across her ass so she could look at them while stroking me. In most of my prior interactions she had been a confident but generally reserved therapist that worked in the same behavioral health clinic I do, and it’s amazing to think of her across my lap begging for my hand.

Anyone else encounter surprises like this?

 

[What_Motivates_a_Man]

I love to hear these types of trysts. It's always fun to see someone so well reserved turn into little freaks with the right person.

Once had a girl ask me to put a cigarette out on her chest. That was hot.

 

[Dante64]

The rough physical preferences are some of the most surprising. I’ve never encountered anything as dramatic as wanting to be burned with a cigarette but I once hooked up with a nurse who asked me to pour wax across her chest, back, and ass. We had flirted at work for a while (and even got a little touchy at times) but that was during our first night together. I think she loved the feeling of being naked and posed waiting for the wax as much as she got into the physical sensation.

 

[Belegon]

The rough physical preferences are some of the most surprising. I’ve never encountered anything as dramatic as wanting to be burned with a cigarette but I once hooked up with a nurse who asked me to pour wax across her chest, back, and ass. We had flirted at work for a while (and even got a little touchy at times) but that was during our first night together. I think she loved the feeling of being naked and posed waiting for the wax as much as she got into the physical sensation.

I've certainly never done the cigarette thing and honestly wonder if I could, even knowing it was desired by the partner. I know that I am unable to talk myself into some acts that are far more common (such as choking a partner during the act. It's been requested of me and I just couldn't do it.) I have done the wax thing and I believe my partner found it far more exciting than painful. She certainly showed no distress the next day or during the rest of the trip in which it occurred .