Multiple troubles

[temp256]

Multiple orgasms are relatively new to me, and they've been giving me trouble. The first one is normal, but after that I have to "work" very hard for the next.

Only through straining my legs can I get a second, and this is exhausting. And lately I've had to strain more and more to achieve the second orgasm. I'm sure this is bad for my knees as well.

After the first, I lose most sensation, having it return shortly before the second orgasm.

Can anyone help? I've been using a hitachi magic wand. The multiples are soooo much better than one, and I don't want to lose this ability! It's rather rare in men. (Or rather penis-bearers. I'm slowly becoming a girl.)

 

[ShinigamiSama]

because of the vibrations you could've over stimulated yourself
try backing off with the wand for a week or two then try again

 

[temp256]

I only use it once maybe twice a week to begin with. As far as I can tell, I've always had to strain like this.

 

[ShinigamiSama]

I only use it once maybe twice a week to begin with. As far as I can tell, I've always had to strain like this.

hmm
well then
I'm not really sure

 

[temp256]

*Bump*

Anyone else?

 

[M's girl]

Yes....

I think you are not multiple orgasmic. I think you want to be and if you really, really try very hard, sometimes you get there a second time. But in fact you are more probably someone who can only have one at a time. So, why try so hard the second time if it is not all the "fun" it should be?

 

[naughtygirl69s]

I'm confused

but, with regards to multiples

The true definition is not having an orgasm and then working hard for the 2nd.

It's never having the large peak and staying in that orgasmic state over and over again

instead of having a huge crest like a normal orgasm, multiples are staying on the crest and not actually going over..

 

[M's girl]

The true definition is .......

It's never having the large peak and staying in that orgasmic state over and over again

instead of having a huge crest like a normal orgasm, multiples are staying on the crest and not actually going over..

I don't agree. An orgasm is an orgasm and multiple means more than one. There are plenty of women who never seem to reach orgasm but do get aroused to the point where they almost orgasm, yet never "finish".

Are you now saying that instead of them not being able to get over that certain point, they are multiple orgasmic? I don't think so!

 

[naughtygirl69s]

I don't agree. An orgasm is an orgasm and multiple means more than one. There are plenty of women who never seem to reach orgasm but do get aroused to the point where they almost orgasm, yet never "finish".

Are you now saying that instead of them not being able to get over that certain point, they are multiple orgasmic? I don't think so!

not exactly

i didn't explain it right

I agreed with what you said earlier.

 

[cat_and_bear]

Ummm forgive me if I’m wrong but I’m pretty sure there should be a few definitions for "multiple". (Try as many definitions as there are people)

Cat is able to have many in one session, some where in the region of between 3 and 7 in a period any where from 15 minutes to an hour. Each one is separated by a lull, its like sitting on the ocean on a surf board, each wave rises up, peaks then she comes back down again just to do it all over a gain soon enough.

however there are times where for her the peek just keeps rising and rising and it takes her a couple of minutes to come back down (normally like ~3minutes, but some times quite a bit more). As well as it rising there are little "spikes" along the way, each like a mini-orgasm just without the relief and the come down after it.

So what is really a multiple? I say both, they are just different types.


Personally I can get to a point that when I orgasm I don’t ejaculate, I get all the sensation but no relief and I stay hard. After that I can do it over and over again (like every minute or so), it gets to a point that it becomes too much to handle and I have to concentrate to ejaculate or just give up because it’s too intense.

This happened to me more often when I was single and had time to explore my body. but it has happened a few times while making love with cat, we have never worked at this, its just been a plesent surprise for me a couple of times.

Other then that I quite often can ejaculate during my first orgasm for the session but I will stay hard and be able to keep going. I don’t know if that’s a multiple, it think that’s just linked to my energy levels for the day and my current level of excitement.

Finally I have the good old way where after one I go soft then wait 15 minutes and if I’m not too worn out then cat can normaly get me hard again.

~Bear

 

[Reba67]

Why on earth would you strain to the point of pain to achieve and orgasm?

How close together are you trying to make these?

 

[VeniVici]

Multiples

If I knew how you get to be multiple orgasmic I’d have made myself a fortune long ago, and the kits would be on sale in all the shops world wide.

It is something that just started to happen to me in my late twenties. I was so concerned at first, I even went to see my Doc to ask if I had some nasty problem.

Orgasming without ejaculating was quite scary at first, but the girls loved it, and it was always nice to be asked back for second helpings.

Not all the orgasms are earth shattering ones. Just like a woman’s, some are just small little trembling shocks, but rather like the waves on the sea shore, every seventh one is really big and it crashes you down to almost destruction.

From these, you have to fight your way back up slowly but luckily you never lose the plot nor ever want to stop. It is only the final orgasm that stops you dead and you are totally spent.
Fucked to a standstill, so to speak, as you liberate all that pent up seed.

With a practised woman partner who is also multi orgasmic, you can average normally twenty or thirty orgasms together in a single session, each triggering off the other. Not all mind blowing ones as I said, but all lovely to share and the final one is worth every minute of the wait for both of you.