YDB95
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Well said. Sometimes the left really does go too far, but BoBo pretends we all do that all the time. It's like saying all conservatives are, well, like him.Okay well there's a lot to unpack here, so I'll actually respond to this fairly.
There is the germ of a seed of a fair point here, so maybe I'll try and analyze it: I went to a school were liberal, as in VERY liberal to even EXTREME liberal, values were prevalent. Often times more left wing than this Reagan-era middle class semi-conservative (by mid 80's standards anyway) kid always felt comfortable with. They preached at us the idea of being open to, and tolerant of, people whose cultural and racial backgrounds were different from ours, and overall, preached the idea of being respectful, and of overcoming not only hate, but unconscious racial and gender bias. They called this "political correctness." Today people take this same idea and call it "Woke" but I tend to bristle at that term, for reasons I'll get to in a minute. I learned that I myself did have some bigoted tendancies. I did not like gays- yes I was a homophobic bigot back then in a way that would make LessOHmo proud.
But I worked on overcoming that because in the long run, the idea of being respected and to be respectful was drilled in my head and once I met and really got to know people with different sexual orientations- my own bigotry evaporated.
But yes, I also saw where things sometimes went way overboard. At a sociology class, some people wanted us to believe that those of us who were white males should share some of the guilt for things like slavery or other atrocities, simply because we were white males and because our ancestors did these things. I did not agree with that, and still do not. I had never lynched anyone nor disrespected anyone because of their race, and never will. I also saw things where talent contests were held where the non-white participants were allowed to win despite not being the best- because they felt that it was simply better that way. It was, in a way, reverse discrimination. I suspect that's what you are on about here. Yes, reverse discrimination is in itself, wrong. So I wrote an essay called "Guilty of being white." In it, I tried to thoughtfully explore the idea that I was being held accountable for wrongs that I had no part of, and that even my ancestors (who were Italian immigrants that never owned slaves) were not part of.
But at the same time I acknowledged, in my essay, that discrimination and hate did exist, and still do. There just needs to be a fair and reasonable way to address it. Denying it exists, or actively engaging in discrimination, is counter productive. But, so is blaming people for it who are not, in fact racist or who have no such intent.
This is getting to be too wall of textish so I'll try to be brief: I don't like the term "Woke" because I see it applied merely to teaching about injustice and/or teaching that bigotry is wrong. They sell it like it's a bad thing, but being sensitive to, and understanding the experience of others from different cultures, backgrounds, should be a matter of respect, than a negative. But of course, there are extreme examples where people go to unreasonable lengths to find hateful intent where there is none. Tearing down statues of Thomas Jefferson because he owned slaves for example.
In summary, let's just be fair and reasonable here- dont' hate but dont be overzealous in your attempts to find hate where it isn't there.