need a bit of help with fisting

[Down_UnderKid]

hey all
me and the girlfriend have tried me fisting her (pussy) a number of times and have had no luck. we use plenty of lube, take it slow, try after she has cum, before she has cum. but each time we seem to get to a point and cant get any further.
i can get my hand up to my knuckles but get no further. i try to put my thumb into my palm and it just wont go in.
i have read the blank manual many times and it seems ive tried everything on there.
my gf has a bit of trouble relaxing and tenses up sometimes, but she does enjoy it and wants it to happen lol.

is there anymore advice that people can give?

 

[trojan_man_co]

is there anymore advice that people can give?

well to be honest i will advise you that it will be FAR FAR FAR more difficult than you imagine and painful as well. It IS possible but at what cost. The reason i say this is that in most common fisting porn n what not imagery you see its typically a female hand doing the fisting which is SIGNIFICANTLY smaller. That being said i am a big guy over 6'4 and i have done it BUT she was sore for a week and if i hadnt been careful easily could have torn something or done alot of damage.

You have to approach it almost as though shes going to be giving birth. Cus with a good size hand thats almost exactly what will happen. This being the case there is alot of prep work to do, stretching it out. Making sure its oiled up and the skin is soft and limber. the quality of the lube is a VERY big thing. (ask your local sex shop for one as the products can change from location to location) Just like anal you need to work your way up to it getting bigger and bigger on what she can take and handle usually through multiple sessions. (which is why it can be bad cus she can become super stretched out, and it will be difficult for her pussy to contract and reset itself with out some major work, not to mention the danger of tearing something internally)

finally when you feel she is getting there use the same strategy you might do when trying to fit your whole hand in your mouth. you dont want to start with a closed fist, but rather your hand scrunched together and usually left that way or if she can take it, once its in THEN you can curl your fingers to make a fist but never pull it out that way or you can again rip the opening which is very bad. ALSO clip your finger nails and file them till they wont scratch her.. learned that one the hard way...

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Sometimes it's just not possible.

Yeah, I know, you can have a baby.. but when you're giving birth, your body is going through a whole series of changes to make it happen, that naturally enough don't occur during a fisting.

I've never been able to manage it. Have tried many times. Mr has pretty much decided I'm not suited.

So make sure she's highly aroused (don't go after she's cum) maybe use a glove for more slipperiness.. if you think you have enough lube, pour on some more and slowly twist your hand in, double check that she's emotionally ready, but be willing to accept defeat if necessary.

 

[kittyn_]

This may sound slightly counter-productive, but since I never even tried this until after giving birth this is what happened when we first suceeded:
Lots of lube, both in me and on his hand.
He'd have to stop and just keep some pressure going without actually trying to get in further, just to keep where he'd gotten to.
And at some point, my body kicked into 'push' mode like when I'd had the baby. Which for some screwed up, illogical reason, worked. I'm guessing that the act of bearing down like when giving birth actually encourages the area to stretch out in an attempt to get it out, but that it works for getting it in also.

But since I have no idea why that works for me, I can't say it'll work for her. Just something that you could try next time around. You do need to realize that your hand doesn't have as much give in it as a baby does though, and it may just be impossible for her, despite the fact that it seems like it should work.

 

[kredo]

hello

Thanks for information...