NEED ADVICE: am I being ghosted?

[savethebeebees]

: D maybe he just has no money?

What do you mean?

 

[TarnishedPenny]

Forgive me, hon, but I don’t think it’s a question of whether or not you are being ghosted. You already know the answer to that one. The question is what are you going to do about it now?

 

[ClariceRose]

I think he is slowly starting to ghost you. Many people are non confrontational and instead of hurting someone's feelings by saying " I'm not really into you anymore" or "I found someone else that is my focus".. they slowly try to fade away from you.

Of course, he is not going to admit that he is ghosting you, he doesn't want to hurt your feelings...so if this pattern continues, it's going to hurt but you need to move on.

 

[savethebeebees]

I think he is slowly starting to ghost you. Many people are non confrontational and instead of hurting someone's feelings by saying " I'm not really into you anymore" or "I found someone else that is my focus".. they slowly try to fade away from you.

I'd much rather him just being straight with me. People who can't communicate and instead avoid confrontation irritate me. I understand why people like to avoid it, but if he's so concerned about my feelings he should just tell me.

I've been thinking the same thing as you, that that's what's happening. I hope not, but I'm trying to be realistic. He's been messaging me like once a day, but he doesn't say much. :/

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[Knoturnal]

I'd much rather him just being straight with me. People who can't communicate and instead avoid confrontation irritate me. I understand why people like to avoid it, but if he's so concerned about my feelings he should just tell me.

I've been thinking the same thing as you, that that's what's happening. I hope not, but I'm trying to be realistic. He's been messaging me like once a day, but he doesn't say much. :/

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Asking until he tells you is the quickest and easiest way to find out.