need advice from the ladies

[redfunguy]

evening ladies
I need a little advice
My wife has started showing an interest in getting a toy or two to spice things up a little bit. Any suggestions? She is a little apprehensive about it but said she would try it out just to test the waters. I guess what I need is some advice on what to get for a person who has never used a toy at all. I have skimmed through a few sites and catalogs that still get mailed to the people that lived in our house before us 5 years ago, and I have seen a few that say "perfect for new users". I would rather have advice from a lady or ladies who know and have been there rather than some guy sitting there writing something in a catalog.

Thanks in advance ladies!
love you all

 

[fille]

I think you want to start with something non-threatening. Something that's not too big, and in an ordinary color. A woman who has never had a sex toy does not need a giant, day glo orange dildo, if she is the least bit apprehensive about it. Also, remember that most women have the easiest and most satisfying climaxes from clitoral stimulation. So while you may be turned on by the idea of a giant dildo, something that vibrates her clit is the best bet.

 

[wicked woman]

This question was just asked a day or two ago...why don't you look over the threads on the first couple of pages...I'm sure it's there.

 

[redfunguy]

will do thx

 

[redfunguy]

sorry but i cant find the thread that you are talking about

anyone else have some advice for me??

 

[midwestyankee]

Fille gave you excellent advice. Find a small vibrator that is intended primarily for clitoral stimulation. She can easily experiment with it as part of masturbation. If you select one that is small and easy to handle, she could even enjoy using it on herself while sitting astride you without losing focus.

Enjoy.

 

[wicked woman]

Here is the thread I was talking about.

 

[handlebars69]

Fille gave you excellent advice. Find a small vibrator that is intended primarily for clitoral stimulation. She can easily experiment with it as part of masturbation. If you select one that is small and easy to handle, she could even enjoy using it on herself while sitting astride you without losing focus.

Enjoy.

example: a bullet

 

[redfunguy]

thx everyone

wish us luck