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You could also try reporting her to Only Fans; I have no idea what their policies are, but I'm pretty sure they'd clamp down on this and it's probably a BIG violation of their Terms of Service.

She could lose her OF account for this.
They aren’t interested at the moment until things go fowards on the cease and desist order
 
Only a few people on here know what I’m about to share with you…

I have an ex girlfriend (Yes I’m bisexual) we broke up around a year ago and she has been trying to force me to front the money for something we were going to buy when we were together

Long story short we broke up because she was mentally draining, always accusing me of everting you can think of and gaslighting me if I stood up for myself against her bullying and bullshit… needless to say she didn’t take me dumping her well

Anyway, unless I come up with the £2500 she is threatening to post intimate videos to social media I sent her when we were together. Some are graphic and some are mushy, eyes only stuff between lovers ya know…

*REVENGE PORN ALERT! 🚨 *

Yes I’m the victim of revenge porn and she’s promised that my friends, coworkers and even my little sister will see it all.

I’ve spent the last week trying to come up with the money and failed. She has subsequently told me she will carry through with her threat and she’s a nasty enough piece of work that she will do it as she only thinks about herself and not the consequences of her actions.

The threats have been made via WhatsApp

The problem with social media is I don’t know where or when she will deploy what she has on me all I know is it will be soon, if it hasn’t happened already…

I’ve started emailing all the main social media outlets but LinkedIn and Twitter support emails no longer seem to be working

No jokes please, I need serious advice and I need to shut her down as she’s out to ruin me

This is real and not a sex game
Put some of the pics out yourself. She loses power. Explain to friends you went public due to blackmail. Next week ir will be old news.
 
I am also late to the party, so consider this just moral support. She sounds like an incredibly toxic and deranged individual, I hope this entire ordeal has a good outcome for you.

Revenge porn has been a crime for a while now, the police are obliged to take this seriously.

Sending you good energy.
 
I am also late to the party, so consider this just moral support. She sounds like an incredibly toxic and deranged individual, I hope this entire ordeal has a good outcome for you.

Revenge porn has been a crime for a while now, the police are obliged to take this seriously.

Sending you good energy.
Thank you, it’s ongoing but I’ve got the ball rolling
 
Quick shout out to all the people who gave me love and support as it means so much to me.

Apologies that I haven't replied to all the outstanding messages but I’m desperately trying to come up with £1000 before 6pm

You are all such beautiful people 😘 love to all ❤️
 
Only a few people on here know what I’m about to share with you…

I have an ex girlfriend (Yes I’m bisexual) we broke up around a year ago and she has been trying to force me to front the money for something we were going to buy when we were together

Long story short we broke up because she was mentally draining, always accusing me of everting you can think of and gaslighting me if I stood up for myself against her bullying and bullshit… needless to say she didn’t take me dumping her well

Anyway, unless I come up with the £2500 she is threatening to post intimate videos to social media I sent her when we were together. Some are graphic and some are mushy, eyes only stuff between lovers ya know…

*REVENGE PORN ALERT! 🚨 *

Yes I’m the victim of revenge porn and she’s promised that my friends, coworkers and even my little sister will see it all.

I’ve spent the last week trying to come up with the money and failed. She has subsequently told me she will carry through with her threat and she’s a nasty enough piece of work that she will do it as she only thinks about herself and not the consequences of her actions.

The threats have been made via WhatsApp

The problem with social media is I don’t know where or when she will deploy what she has on me all I know is it will be soon, if it hasn’t happened already…

I’ve started emailing all the main social media outlets but LinkedIn and Twitter support emails no longer seem to be working

No jokes please, I need serious advice and I need to shut her down as she’s out to ruin me

This is real and not a sex game
That sounds like a bad bit of luck and she's willing to turn the knife on you. My advice... and it's gonna sound crazy but... let her post them. I'm truth you can do NOTHING to stop her. Embarrassing yes, but you were proud enough to make and send them, be resilient enough to know if she pays them or not YOUR fault. And then SUE the shit out of her for all she has or will have!!!
 
That sounds like a bad bit of luck and she's willing to turn the knife on you. My advice... and it's gonna sound crazy but... let her post them. I'm truth you can do NOTHING to stop her. Embarrassing yes, but you were proud enough to make and send them, be resilient enough to know if she pays them or not YOUR fault. And then SUE the shit out of her for all she has or will have!!!
Funny guys suggest that… no ulterior motive I’m sure! 😈 Bit late to the party but I appreciate the interest and the advice Babe
 
Funny guys suggest that… no ulterior motive I’m sure! 😈 Bit late to the party but I appreciate the interest and the advice Babe
"Funny guys suggest that".. not sure of your implication so let's move on.
"No ulterior motive I'm sure"... No. None. I don't know you, I don't know her, I don't even live in your country, based on the type of money you used in your message.
I simply read you post, have knowledge of this type of event as I work for a school system and am aware of your only recourse to a spitful, vindictive, extortionist like you are describing. You pay once and now you are on the hook to continue to pay as long as the other person has the incriminating images of your private event.
Alternatively you hire an attorney and file both an injuction on her releasing the items and a writ demanding their return. But a spiteful, vindictive person might make copies and release them under a fake account to shift suspicion from themselves.
Best of luck.
 
I have to share this as I find it hilarious but she is now texting me suggesting we meet up and just fuck

I think she’s worried about the fact i’m gonna take this legal action as far as I can
I am not sure If I should laugh, cry, or just beat the shit out of someone. Proud of you lady!
 
I have to share this as I find it hilarious but she is now texting me suggesting we meet up and just fuck

I think she’s worried about the fact i’m gonna take this legal action as far as I can
I'm sorry, what?! Not a chance in hell, lady.
 
I'm sorry, what?! Not a chance in hell, lady.
I think she’s trying to downplay what she’s done and claim we are a couple

Sent me texts telling me I belong to her, I’m told by my legal advice that she’s only giving me more ammunition
 
I think she’s trying to downplay what she’s done and claim we are a couple

Sent me texts telling me I belong to her, I’m told by my legal advice that she’s only giving me more ammunition
so you're watching her try to dig her way out of the pit that she created, not knowing it just gives you more dirt to throw down on her head?
 
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You could also try reporting her to Only Fans; I have no idea what their policies are, but I'm pretty sure they'd clamp down on this and it's probably a BIG violation of their Terms of Service.

She could lose her OF account for this.
I did report her to only fans but they said a personal dispute between two performers was a police matter
 
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