Need help, but is this the place to get this answer...?

[FriskySeaDevil]

Ok ... I have thought of this & looked in all the relavent forums I could think to search in ... but I still have no good answer ...

Here is my question ... How does one begin to introduce one's partner into the delightfully interesting world of D/s?

Here is a little of the background to this question ... I was in a relationship a few years ago that started me down the highly erotic path of a true sub ... lasted for nearly 2 years ... & I lost Him to another ... I married a man that is a wonderful gentleman, but no matter how much we play, it's never enough. So I went & found the perfect man online for fun of all online & virtual styles... & we were talking one day about our likes & I mentioned that I thought he would make the best Dom (although he likes to switch to sub as well). But he's still too new to it all & I sooooooo miss being dominated by the right man. I have started to get him in the mindset to not ask for things, but to tell me to do ... as it is "His wish" for me... is there more I need to do or is that the best way to start him on his way to becoming a true Master?


Plez ... any insight would be MOST appreciated

Thanx in advance

 

[Missingmeds]

You might want to try this one on the BDSM board. They would have a better idea of how to answer you.

 

[FriskySeaDevil]

Thanx you dear

 

[VSE]

From a non BDSM scene perspective I'm going to have be boring and just suggest that you talk to him.

On my own, its not something that has ever really interested me, but then it's not really a solo activity.

A guy I worked with was into the whole "scene" and took it presumably in the spirit it was intended and was more than happy to incorporate his lifestyle into his daily anecdotes.

From that I came to the conclusion that whilst it is not a scenario that I would initiate, it is something I would entertain "giving a try" if I knew (ie was given a hint) that my partner was into that sort of thing.