Need KNOWLEDGE!!! LOL

[MisterWolf26]

My particular kink seems to be pushing boundaries.

I absolutely love a partner who doesn't seem to have any, BUT it gets extra hot when I know she's doing something mostly for me, and not for herself.

I was just curious if any of you more knowledgeable folk knew the term for this?

Or what benefits there are in being able to name your kinks?

 

[AnnieLit]

Or what benefits there are in being able to name your kinks?

There are a ton!

The main one being that if you can name what you like, you can also name what you are neutral about and what you absolutely hate. The last part is the most important one as you will be much better off if you figure out that one of your your hard limits is your potential partner's must have or vice versa.

As for not having any boundaries - they are either lying or are an idiot with zero imagination. Because EVERYONE has boundaries!

 

[lifeis2short2b]

My particular kink seems to be pushing boundaries.

I absolutely love a partner who doesn't seem to have any, BUT it gets extra hot when I know she's doing something mostly for me, and not for herself.

If she wants to do something for me randomly yes it's hot. But I'm not enjoying myself if she is uncomfortable doing anything.