Need "Something."

OMG @ my join date

You know that it is possible to join this site for other reasons and NOT participate in the forums, right? Is it your first goddamn day, too?

I put a profile picture up today, but it isn't showing yet. However, since I'm here as a married woman trying to figure out some way to get something interesting going on in my life, forgive me for not splattering my picture everywhere.

... and NO I don't have a trampoline!
 
I've never liked Peyton very much because of his attitude, and his tendency to choke in the playoffs, but he is really good as a regular season QB, you have to admit. But you're right about the Super Bowl. It was very evenly matched. One big play right at the end was the difference.

I'm so with you. He totally has playoff-itis.

When he lived here in Indy, he was just such a pompous ass.
 
OMG @ my join date

You know that it is possible to join this site for other reasons and NOT participate in the forums, right? Is it your first goddamn day, too?

I put a profile picture up today, but it isn't showing yet. However, since I'm here as a married woman trying to figure out some way to get something interesting going on in my life, forgive me for not splattering my picture everywhere.

... and NO I don't have a trampoline!

Just send them to me then. I can splatter all over them for you.

:)
 
I'm so with you. He totally has playoff-itis.

When he lived here in Indy, he was just such a pompous ass.

Yeah. I hear nothing but good things about Andrew. But I gotta go now, jeninifer. Later.
 
Just send them to me then. I can splatter all over them for you.

:)


Nice.

I'm just super not comfortable doing that at this point. I think you can understand that.

Otherwise, I'm happy to ignore you with the rest of the cunts that railed my ass as soon as I got here.

... AND NOT IN A GOOD WAY!
 
Nice.

I'm just super not comfortable doing that at this point. I think you can understand that.

Otherwise, I'm happy to ignore you with the rest of the cunts that railed my ass as soon as I got here.

... AND NOT IN A GOOD WAY!

You seem decent. Have fun.
 
I'm with Jennifer on Peyton Manning. I think he's in love with himself! I'm a Pats fan from Mass. We beat the Colts and Andrew Luck but they are gonna be a SB contender soon!
 
While somewhat cliche, my favorite by Rumi is

“The minute I heard my first love story, I started looking for you, not knowing
how blind that was. Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along.”


I used it in my speech when my best friend got married. It lasted less than a year. Total waste of a great speech!

When you light some candles and incense on a windy winter night while the wind chimes openly sing a love song to the stary night and you read rumi alone...pm me.
 
When you light some candles and incense on a windy winter night while the wind chimes openly sing a love song to the stary night and you read rumi alone...pm me.

Those moments are few and far between for me. My time to read is so limited. I miss it. Do you know Neruda? Another favorite to read.

... but we'd probably end up talking about our NRA memberships.
 
Those moments are few and far between for me. My time to read is so limited. I miss it. Do you know Neruda? Another favorite to read.

... but we'd probably end up talking about our NRA memberships.

I know neruda now...but I am not a nra member....I don't support political groups
 
"It is not death that a man should fear, but he should fear never beginning to live."

-Marcus Aurelius
 
I know neruda now...but I am not a nra member....I don't support political groups

I'm surprised, given your obvious stance on our 2nd amendment. I don't think of it as a political group, but I guess it could be.

My carry weapon of choice is my Ruger LC9. I sometimes swap that for my Springfield XD Sub Compact, but the XD has a larger print and is a few ounces heavier.
 
i know exactly what you are talking about

with the old chat rooms on yahoo. I also used yahoo games (mostly pool) to talk to people when the chat rooms were dead. Although I am not an NRA member or a Colts fan, I do think we have a lot in common. Sent you a pm as well.

Hope you find what you are looking for and yes, ignore the haters.
 
I'm not sure, but I think I remember your tits from AOL.




Hey ya'll.

I posted some stories about a million years ago, but I've never really participated in the forum. I have had some really nice emails about what I wrote all of those years ago. :)

I just turned 39 and I'm in a snooze of a marriage. I love my husband so much, but we've never been sexual equals. For years, we haven't been sexual anythings.

Sometimes I miss the old 90's era chat rooms where you could talk with a group of people - connect, laugh, and then maybe branch out on a personal level.

Internet contact is so much less anonymous now. I miss the days of being able to talk without the pressure of video chatting or the privacy of just chatting online. Everything so so much more "out there?"

I mean, who remembers good ol' phone sex?

I'm not even sure what I'm looking for, but I guess I know where I'll find it!

XOXO
 
A woman looking for anything sexual on the side will find it. Be it chat, phone, emails, or a physical affair. That part isn't hard. You have a snatch. There will be at least one man willing to fill it.

The question remains, though, would that give you what you want? How long have you and your husband been in a sexless marriage? And why? What have you done to reignite that aspect of your relationship? A fundamental component to a marriage is sex, the physical and emotional intimacy that strengthens the bond between two people. Why do you remain married when that pillar is broken?
 
A bit of ribbing and skepticism and everyone gets thrown on Iggy? Lot of fun you are. :rolleyes:

Perhaps time should be spent working on your unhappy, sexless marriage or finding a good divorce lawyer.
 
A bit of ribbing and skepticism and everyone gets thrown on Iggy? Lot of fun you are. :rolleyes:

Perhaps time should be spent working on your unhappy, sexless marriage or finding a good divorce lawyer.

I can handle ribbing.

I'm not going to be accused of being something or someone I'm not. That's why I ignored people. I didn't ignore them right away, but the continual bullshit wasn't worth my time.

If you aren't interested in being kind or helpful, why are you commenting?
 
I can handle ribbing.

I'm not going to be accused of being something or someone I'm not. That's why I ignored people. I didn't ignore them right away, but the continual bullshit wasn't worth my time.

If you aren't interested in being kind or helpful, why are you commenting?

That is helpful, though maybe not kind or what you want to hear. You are unhappy in your marriage. Do you honestly think an extramarital affair is the answer?
 
A woman looking for anything sexual on the side will find it. Be it chat, phone, emails, or a physical affair. That part isn't hard. You have a snatch. There will be at least one man willing to fill it.

The question remains, though, would that give you what you want? How long have you and your husband been in a sexless marriage? And why? What have you done to reignite that aspect of your relationship? A fundamental component to a marriage is sex, the physical and emotional intimacy that strengthens the bond between two people. Why do you remain married when that pillar is broken?

Hi! Thanks for the nice response.

I'm really not sure what I'm looking for! That's the thing. Everyone assumes I'm here to secure a local hook up, but I'm pretty sure I haven't expressed that. I'm just kind of looking for an outlet right now and like-minded people and not just sexually like-minded.

My husband and I have never really clicked sexually. I mean, we have had good sex, but not GREAT sex. Everything else though is spot on. Seriously, which is why I'm still here because everything else is perfect.

We've been married for 13 years and he's never had a voracious sex drive. I know that this very thing was the cause of his first marriage dissolving. I've just lived with it. When I press the issue it just causes conflict, so I stopped pressing the issue. I've totally checked out of the sexual aspect of my marriage.

Why do I stay? Everything else is truly wonderful. We laugh so much. We love to travel to the same places. We are foodies and love to break bread with our strong network of friends. We have a good life and are successful in many ways. We both did not want kids, so we are childless and love the freedoms that affords us.

Truthfully, I don't really want to leave.
 
Hey ya'll.

I posted some stories about a million years ago, but I've never really participated in the forum. I have had some really nice emails about what I wrote all of those years ago. :)

I just turned 39 and I'm in a snooze of a marriage. I love my husband so much, but we've never been sexual equals. For years, we haven't been sexual anythings.

Sometimes I miss the old 90's era chat rooms where you could talk with a group of people - connect, laugh, and then maybe branch out on a personal level.

Internet contact is so much less anonymous now. I miss the days of being able to talk without the pressure of video chatting or the privacy of just chatting online. Everything so so much more "out there?"

I mean, who remembers good ol' phone sex?

I'm not even sure what I'm looking for, but I guess I know where I'll find it!

XOXO

Phone sex?
 
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