need to get my boy off...

[thegreenfairy]

hey all,

i'm in a relationship with a great guy, fabulous sex life (nice & kinky), but there's a problem. he can only come by masturbating. he's been with lots of girls, and he agrees with me that it may be psychological thing. his doctor was no help, and i really want to do somehting about this. he says he enjoys sex, and seems to have a really good time, but he always has to get himself off. any advise?

peace
the green fairy

 

[BlueElf]

Input

Here are some suggestions, although I think overall the psychology thing may be the #1 angle. After all, we know he can get it up - just only by hand.

1. Give him a hand job - ease into touching with another and cumming

2. Does he like oral sex? Sometimes that helps me when I start getting nervous about getting hard.

3. There's always playing with the prostate too. If he's comfortable with you doing that, that may give him a stiffy really quick that you can do something with

BlueElf

Hope you two have fun!

 

[Ms_Lilith]

She didn't say he had trouble getting hard, she said he had trouble cumming.

I dated a guy like that for a year and a half. After a while, he finally loosened up enough to be able to cum from first sex, and then oral sex. It took a lot of foreplay to get him to be able to cum, so I would begin with hand jobs, and then to blowjobs, and then fuck his brains out. Sometimes it worked, other times it didn't. *shrug* Some guys just have that difficulty.

 

[HoldenMcCrank]

Just a suggestion

Have him refrain from touching himself for one week. No masturbating no sex no scrubbing in a little too much in the shower, NADA! Then Fuck him silly he will cum and cum alot.

Good luck and let us know how it goes>
Holden

 

[BlueElf]

Oops!

She didn't say he had trouble getting hard, she said he had trouble cumming.

I dated a guy like that for a year and a half. After a while, he finally loosened up enough to be able to cum from first sex, and then oral sex. It took a lot of foreplay to get him to be able to cum, so I would begin with hand jobs, and then to blowjobs, and then fuck his brains out. Sometimes it worked, other times it didn't. *shrug* Some guys just have that difficulty.

*smacks forehead*

Well I think some of those suggestions still apply. I used to have the same problem as your guy and was told to take Ginkgo Biloba. I don't know if that will work but from experience I can tell you that it is very tough to have a hardon and not be able to cum - especially with your lover!!!

BlueElf