Negging

[fulvius]

"Negging", wherein a man subtly tears down a woman's self esteem in order to get laid by presumably appearing more strong and confident.

Is it really the negging that gets you laid, or is it the confidence you exude? Cant a man be sexy and confident while building a woman's self-esteem up?

 

[Smoothshavendad]

"Negging", wherein a man subtly tears down a woman's self esteem in order to get laid by presumably appearing more strong and confident.

Is it really the negging that gets you laid, or is it the confidence you exude? Cant a man be sexy and confident while building a woman's self-esteem up?

Building oneself up at the expense of others is never attractive.

 

[nowisthetime]

"Negging", wherein a man subtly tears down a woman's self esteem in order to get laid by presumably appearing more strong and confident.

Is it really the negging that gets you laid, or is it the confidence you exude? Cant a man be sexy and confident while building a woman's self-esteem up?

Most of the neggers are ugly and insecure. Only a chick with the self esteem of dust would settle for a negger

 

[Amoebah]

Easy way to
get pussy tho.

Everyone wants to be liked. Everyone wants approval. No one wants to be ignored. The same holds true for beautiful women – even more so. Their whole reality is based on having power and having acceptance and adoration through their good looks. Take that away and their whole reality crumbles and they’ll do anything to get it back.

We see it
here every day
women seeking
attention
about their looks.

 

[silver gurl]

Easy way to
get pussy tho.




We see it
here every day
women seeking
attention
about their looks.

Same goes with some men.

 

[MNGuy]

Whenever someone talks about negging, I remember a skit on some comedy show spoofing The Pickup Artist. The whole premise of the show was this pickup artist, Mystery, would coach guys on how to pick up women. So the guys would be talking to a woman, and Mystery would give the advice through an earpiece.

So in the skit, Mystery, instructs the guy it is time to use negging on the woman. So the guy screams, 'YOU'RE A FAT WHORE!'

The SO and I still laugh when we talk about it.

 

[Queefer]

Nagging

"Nagging", wherein a woman subtly tears down a man's self esteem in order to get laid by presumably appearing more strong and confident.

Is it really the nagging that gets you laid, or is it the confidence you exude? Cant a woman be sexy and confident while building a man's self-esteem up?

 

[IrezumiKiss]

Most of the neggers are ugly and insecure. Only a chick with the self esteem of dust would settle for a negger

Even more pathetic is that the majority of neggers usually settle for someone possessing the very physical features they previously mocked and derided because at the end of the night, they're that desperate to get any ass at all.

I say "settle for" because it still doesn't guarantee they're getting laid by that person, they just think they will.

 

[Amoebah]

Idiots.

Negging is used
on the extra
pretty ones

theyre drawn
by you not fawning
over them

and it works

 

[BobaFetaCheese]

Just use the tried and true method of asking every girl if she wants to fuck. One is gonna say yes. Saves time and energy. Plus it's unlikely you'll ever see her again since anyone who says yes to a guy just asking if they wanna fuck isn't prone to sticking around long.

 

[pointless]

man, i miss cracked.

How To Know If A Girl Is DTF (Down To F*ck)

How To Know If A Girl Is REALLY DTF (Down To F*ck)

 

[lovecraft68]

"Negging", wherein a man subtly tears down a woman's self esteem in order to get laid by presumably appearing more strong and confident.

Is it really the negging that gets you laid, or is it the confidence you exude? Cant a man be sexy and confident while building a woman's self-esteem up?

A MAN can be confident with a woman who is confident, the people you describe as basically saying "Hey look, you're heavy, kind of average, not a great body, but hey, I like you anyway" is as far from a man as you can get.

More like a male member of this forum.

 

[Tryharder62]

Just be nice!

 

[Saint_Ann]

Confidence is just a dick hair away from arrogance.

 

[Que]

"Negging", wherein a man subtly tears down a woman's self esteem in order to get laid by presumably appearing more strong and confident.

Is it really the negging that gets you laid, or is it the confidence you exude? Cant a man be sexy and confident while building a woman's self-esteem up?

You missed the compliment part of negative compliment it has nothing to do with tearing down anyone self-esteem. If you do cause hurt feelings, you're doing it wrong

It consists of friendly teasing. All it is is being the opposite of a suck-up.

You read and misunderstood some pickup artist nonsense, maybe half-heartedly tried it out (or merely thought about trying it out.)

The neg wouldn't be used if it wasn't effective. It's effective because it's fun and playful. If what you're doing is not fun and playful you're doing it wrong.

 

[Que]

A MAN can be confident with a woman who is confident, the people you describe as basically saying "Hey look, you're heavy, kind of average, not a great body, but hey, I like you anyway" is as far from a man as you can get.

More like a male member of this forum.

None of you people seem to understand the idea at all. In your example of a more zoftig girl it would be, "you know you got some decent curves for a skinny girl.!" let's say we're talking about a slender girl you would say "you're pretty skinny for a fat girl!"

It's the Art and Science of paying a deft compliment without being a needy suck up.

The reality is you're intruding on anyone's personal space when you make any comment about their appearence or their body. There is no socially acceptable way to actually tell a stranger with nice legs hey you have nice legs without being creepy. On the other hand saying something ambiguous like looks like those legs get you places is ok. What does that even mean? The ambiguity makes it playful and acceptable.

 

[lovetoread]

man, i miss cracked.

i still go there, but its not the same

 

[Sean]

You missed the compliment part of negative compliment it has nothing to do with tearing down anyone self-esteem. If you do cause hurt feelings, you're doing it wrong

It consists of friendly teasing. All it is is being the opposite of a suck-up.

You read and misunderstood some pickup artist nonsense, maybe half-heartedly tried it out (or merely thought about trying it out.)

The neg wouldn't be used if it wasn't effective. It's effective because it's fun and playful. If what you're doing is not fun and playful you're doing it wrong.

Wow. You're a moron.

 

[Saint Peter]

There are so very many.

 

[Que]

Wow. You're a moron.

There. You see? Now you hurt my feelings so you're obviously doing it wrong.

 

[Queefer]

The queefy guide to staying single.

 

[fulvius]

Ha haa okay... well I understand it much better now. Here's the thing: this technique does work, and it's not exclusively assholes and morons who use it. I don't know that from personal experience, but the anecdotal evidence is overwhelming. Now that I realize that it's actually a subtle way of complimenting someone (but in such a way as to acknowledge their own self-image which is likely to be a mix of good and bad)... it makes sense.

I might try it out but I would want to make sure that the powerful position it could put me in as an attractive, non-desperate, good looking man is one that does actually do the lady honor.

 

[nowisthetime]

You will notice that it is mainly right-leaning males, of any race or age, who behave in this manner.

Again, it all comes down to extreme insecurity in one's status in life.

Some men can be very cruel to women in terms of looks, they feel entitled to a beautiful woman when the same guy brings nothing to the table. And they enjoy tearing down self-assured women. I've always said that men are nastier than women when it comes to attacks on a woman's looks.

 

[lovetoread]

Here's the thing: this technique does work, and it's not exclusively assholes and morons who use it.

no you are wrong

its only assholes and morons that use it

 

[Charmolypi]

Not long ago, a man struck up a conversation, bought me a shot and then insulted me. Just out of the blue. I dismissed it as an unfortunate run-in with a crazy man and just turned away from him and went back to sipping my drink. I had no idea what provoked it. Maybe it was negging? I’d say a better name for it is pathetic. I wonder if he runs around telling people “it works!” too? Lol