new at having sex.

[nikurma]

I've been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half now. things are great we have oral every now and then but its starting to get old and sex has been an idea in my mind but i'm not sure how i should bring up the idea... any help would be great

 

[_Virginia_]

Ask her if she wants to have sex? If you're not comfortable talking to her about possibly having sex, I can't imagine that you'd be comfortable or ready to actually have sex with her.

 

[Adrraiya]

I've been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half now. things are great we have oral every now and then but its starting to get old and sex has been an idea in my mind but i'm not sure how i should bring up the idea... any help would be great

How bout just telling her? I mean you can either state it directly... such as "I am so ready to take our sex-life to the next level".... or you can ask her what she thinks "I have been thinking about our relationship and our sex-life and have thought that perhaps we are ready for intercourse, what do you think?"

COMMUNICATION... it is very important for a couple to communicate

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

I've been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half now. things are great we have oral every now and then but its starting to get old and sex has been an idea in my mind but i'm not sure how i should bring up the idea... any help would be great

If you have been having oral sex with her, bringing up the possibility of intercourse is not a big stretch. How did you bring up the subject of oral? Just ask her what she thinks about having intercourse.

 

[Vixandra]

Are either of you waiting for sex for any particular reason? As long as you're both legal adults (18 in the US), I don't think it should be a problem.

For that first time- I recommend you get her off orally first with some fingering before starting the act. If she's not naturally really wet, make sure you have some lube on hand- Astro glide is a decent one along with condoms.

Communication is the key factor here. If you don't tell her, she can't possibly know. Maybe she's been thinking about it too.

 

[subwannabe]

You don't really tell us much, especially your age. You know her better than us. It sounds like you are youngsters who have just been doing oral all this time and now after a year and a half you are thinking about more. You just have to talk to her. My guess is that her age and family issues have some play in the matter. If that is the case you need to tread a little carefully and respect her wishes. If that's not good enough it may be time to move on.