New faces, come say hello....

[AlphaSID]

Ideas?

Hi, newish to BDSM, my other half is fairly dominant and enjoys using restraints on me but has mostly steered clear because of my hesitancy, we have done some milder stuff which I have enjoyed, but I am now looking for a bit of inspiration to spice thing ups - I'd really like to surprise him one day and am looking for something that bridges the milder slap and tickle stuff we have tried and the scarier hardcore stuff that scares the bejesus out of me...

We have found that a flogger can be a good one. Most people think a flogger as something that hurts, but that does not have to be. Your partner can drag it along your naked body. They can lightly hit you with a very light thud. Its something that is all in the person delivering it, and be very gradual.

Not sure if you have tried the rope bondage and the blindfold. That can be intense as well.

 

[Johanna57]

We have a cat o nine tails thing, not sure if same as a flogger... Very gentle,but mostly stored in the toy box as I was so hesitant at first, am really keen to try again so for the last few nights have left on my bedside table but he has either not noticed or ignored! I may have to be more explicit.

He has also got some rope in there, but again I backed off so if he wants to restrain other than with his hands, it's the furry lined cuffs or sometimes a neck tie or bathrobe cord. He didn't help matters with the rope though as I know he likes some of the extreme looking Japanese rope bondage - frankly no chance, at least not until I've worked my way up to it and if I'm honest that probably won't happen...

Not too bothered about a blind fold but I do like a good gag, if not gagged I always have to find something to bite down on

 

[Yogakay]

Greetings

Hello.
My name is Amanda. Last year after my husband retired from the military, I decided to begin writing again. I was rusty. So, I looked for a website that you could both post stories and recieve feedback. I found literotica. Always a fan of the sexual, it seemed a perfect fit. So, I posted my first story, Waiting For College. Despite my terrible editing job the response was both plentiful and positive. Big ego boost!
I love writing here. I love the fan emails I recieve and I love the friends I have made.....

Good to meet you

 

[Runningshoes09]

So my husband and I have been trying new things which has brought us here. Funny thing is that this started with porn, which is something we both agreed to keep out of our marriage. I caught him watching porn and it was damaging our sex life
After a long week of discussing everything I finally got him to open up bout his fetishes and fantasies. Which perfectly aligned with mine. I spent two days doing research.
After talking we learned that we both ha e fantasies about domination and submission. We both like pain play, he likes to receive and surprisingly I like to give. Restraint of with of us is a huge turn on as well.
So two nights ago we had pur first experience which went 100x better than either of us expected causing my husband to repeatedly say it was the best night of his life.
I tied him down, blingfold, and we had fun haha. We have even discussed roll play and him being my slave for a weekend before the end result. He is still waiting anxiously for me to bring more pain into the mix.
Just last week we were fully vanilla. I mean I wouldn't even take my shirt off for sex. Now our bedroom has become a whole new world it seems.
We are looking around for bondage items and such and I'm really excited to go to a sex shop and go shopping. I already have a ton of questions so I created this account to hopefully get advice for getting started.
So hello! And I hope you are well!

 

[SweetDommeSam]

Based on my user name I know it says I'm a Domme, however over the last two years I've realized I'm a switch. I like switching things up and exploring new things. I still love being a Domme and it's exciting to me. I just missed being dominated. I look forward to seeing you among the boards!

 

[heatseekher2]

Male here from the UK. As the world of bdsm is so broad and holds a different meaning for many i guess i'd best be described as a sensual pleasurer with an edge. Not into blood, severe pain but enjoy using all manner of tools for sensation based fun, restraints, blindfolds, rope/chain, floggers et all.
Built a sex bench for restraint play and enjoy lengthy play sessions - especially involving forced orgasms.

I wander the world of Kink online to learn new tips/tricks and to share experiences.

 

[Monisha1]

Hiiii.. Everyone.. I need a domm!! But online!

 

[marissaonknees]

Totally new here

 

[Witchybug]

Hello Everyone, Time to stop lurking and introduce myself I am a happily married bi woman in my mid 40's...My husband is my Master and we play 24/7, live the lifestyle....and living in this remote place we have a LOT of freedom to do so, it's great! 1990 was my first year of getting into playing and from then I was a hard core dom.....then I met my husband a few years ago and finally met the man who was powerful enough in himself & his energy to dominate me completely...and now I am his happy, devoted slave.....but one gets hungry for conversation and community, and since the folding of castlerealm I haven't been online much for connecting with folks.....So it's good to be here Cheers

 

[MIPhotographer]

I'm an older newbie male. I'm artistic and use photography and painting as my main creative outlets. I'm nearly 50. I love to write but haven't done it enough. I am happily married even though we are completely sexually incompatible. I love sex, and she has no interest in it. Sadly it has been that way since we got married 25+ yrs ago. So I'm in here to learn, to practice my writing, to break off the scales on my mind and to stimulate it sexually also. Hopefully meet a few people online while here too.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[KMWill]

Hello everyone! I am new to the forum. If you have any tips or pointer I will be glad to listen to what you say. I will be posting soon. Have a good one.

 

[RawHumor]

Hiiii.. Everyone.. I need a domm!! But online!

Need is a strong word.

Hello everyone! I am new to the forum. If you have any tips or pointer I will be glad to listen to what you say. I will be posting soon. Have a good one.

Get to know the Quote button, so people know who you're replying to in a thread.

Also: there are sharks in the General Board, lots of cotton candy in the Playground, and in Amateur Pics you'll find, um, well, pics.

 

[clistenovena]

Hello, all. A friend suggested I visit here. After reading around a bit, I do believe I will offer her my thanks.

 

[searchme1]

Well...I write quiet a bit so I enjoy seeing others work (which is why I came here in the first place), though I don't know if I'll post anything of my own!

Lurking around I can see a lot of helpful personalities frequenting this forum, so I hope to join in if only for advice and like minded friends. And I figured posting here is a good way to get out of that 'comfort zone' behind the keyboard. Hopefully I don't stop there!

 

[Nurse_Athena]

Hello everyone!

My name is Lizzy, I am 25 years old. Born on the west coast but deep down I'm a southern lady at heart. I enjoy being with family, being outdoors, hiking, traveling, being spontaneous here and there to avoid a boring daily routine.

I am a recovering drug addict and a still healing domestic violence victim. I have worked very hard to clean my life up, and to focus on the present so the path to my future is an easier and smoother journey.

I enjoy posting pictures on lit because I enjoy stepping outside my modest comfort zone and it really excites me that i found a site that allows you to express your inner kinky freaky side.

Everyone has been so welcome and sweet, helpful as well and I am excited to keep coming back and posting more pictures of me.

Thanks!

 

[Raingirl85]

new here..

Hello, not new to literotica, but new to the forums. 30/f. Have been into kink and submissive play for years, had the occasional Dominant partner, but am only just now in an official D/s relationship for the first time. Hoping to ask questions here as needed.

 

[TantricTrev]

Hello, not new to literotica, but new to the forums. 30/f. Have been into kink and submissive play for years, had the occasional Dominant partner, but am only just now in an official D/s relationship for the first time. Hoping to ask questions here as needed.

Welcome raingirl,im fairly new here myself it seems there's lots of fun to be had

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Welcome to all the new peeps!
Enjoy your stay and buckle up

 

[Nanasawa]

Hello DD

HI there! My name is Sammi and I'm pretty new to BDSM and just want to learn more and talk to people who share an interest. I'm 23 and I'm very excited to talk to you all!

 

[pensivepoet]

HI there! My name is Sammi and I'm pretty new to BDSM and just want to learn more and talk to people who share an interest. I'm 23 and I'm very excited to talk to you all!

Nice to meet you, Sammi.
Don't be afraid to ask questions or jump into a thread.
It's mostly a friendly, helpful bunch here.

 

[EbonySexxKitten]

hi hi, so i'm here and a frequent lurker of the site for years but finally made an account recently. I'm an owned baby girl submissive and decided to say hi...... hola

 

[yummyyum1]

Hi bb

 

[yummyyum1]

Let's play

 

[troubledone]

Let's play

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