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I enjoy your outlook, and I agree outlook masters life. But it's hard to feel 'tippy' at times and I am not sure, for me useful. In grieving, in facing our own mortality, in defeat for example it's sometimes useful to accept one's position in the scheme of life,learn the lesson and move on. At times I have found stubbornness and anger a powerful motivator for life, and had I felt too accepting my outcome might have been less positive, now I am in a phase where such motivation is simply not as requisite. Relinquishing those is appropriate. I too feel pity or sadness for people, but not from a position of 'top' but a position of compassion I think
Ultimately I think many paths lead to fulfilment and that what works for some is terrible for others! At my yoga chanting group we always start my a chant to the gods and prophets....Buddhist, Hindu Christian a few others
A good point very well made ma'am. As I mentioned, I'm very new to this line of thinking and of course haven't had the chance to test it on many different things. Just... seems to be working very well for now.
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SurrealSal
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Greetings E/everyone
A newbie to this forum but have been exploring the D/s life for over 15 years. Being a Dom comes naturally to me and the sub in me has been known to be drawn out but by that ethereal and deeply cerebral mind so I guess that qualifies me as a S/switch. Though roles for me are but an extension of the dynamic I share with another.
I'm fascinated by the human brain and human sexuality and the intersection of the two. Would love to connect with someone that carrys the quality of merging the two especially a Domme as it is the part of me that I wish to delve into deeper. Though I'd be intrigued by a sub with similar qualities as well.
Have been feeling a void lately and hoping to connect with genuine like minds. Glad to be here amidst all of you
Cheers
A newbie to this forum but have been exploring the D/s life for over 15 years. Being a Dom comes naturally to me and the sub in me has been known to be drawn out but by that ethereal and deeply cerebral mind so I guess that qualifies me as a S/switch. Though roles for me are but an extension of the dynamic I share with another.
I'm fascinated by the human brain and human sexuality and the intersection of the two. Would love to connect with someone that carrys the quality of merging the two especially a Domme as it is the part of me that I wish to delve into deeper. Though I'd be intrigued by a sub with similar qualities as well.
Have been feeling a void lately and hoping to connect with genuine like minds. Glad to be here amidst all of you
Cheers
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LeinadVirgo
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Late teens and early 20s I did mostly online play with a Mistress, though we did meet occasionally. I really learned so many of my kinks, but I haven't explored my sub side in the past 5 or more years (I have been the master in my past 3 relationships). I just miss being a sub and want to focus on that part of me for a while. So in short, hi
Apple_of_Eden
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Sending welcomes to all of the new Litsters. There is something here for everyone and for some, there is more than one option. 
Apparently, that will work for the last few of you who posted.
Enjoy and welcome. Look around and join in on the threads. Let people get to know you as you will them. You'll find some truly wonderful people here. Have fun.
Apparently, that will work for the last few of you who posted. Enjoy and welcome. Look around and join in on the threads. Let people get to know you as you will them. You'll find some truly wonderful people here. Have fun.
BlondeSub20
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Sort of new
Hey! I've been in one d/s relationship before. I'm definitely a submissive but sometimes I feel the need to dom. I'm really just interested in reconnecting with my submissive side, since everyone I've talked to since that relationship have only been into vanilla stuff. So I guess Hi! From someone who is excited to be back.
Hey! I've been in one d/s relationship before. I'm definitely a submissive but sometimes I feel the need to dom. I'm really just interested in reconnecting with my submissive side, since everyone I've talked to since that relationship have only been into vanilla stuff. So I guess Hi! From someone who is excited to be back.
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I know that feeling, sub looking for a master. Welcome back and good luck
Thanks, and I guess I don't even know if I want another Master yet. I guess I plan on exploring more this time.
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Thanks, and I guess I don't even know if I want another Master yet. I guess I plan on exploring more this time.
More power to you. If you ever want to chat about anything, send me a PM
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New couple here, a little lost.
Hello all
About a yr ago my husband of 13yrs wanted to start trying new things. He wanted to try things that I was willing to do (he would never force me) but things that my very traditional background did not allow. I have found I like being a sub and I have found a few others to talk to about it to help me along the way. The problem is it feels very one sided... When I ask him to be the dom I feel like I need he says that it feels unatural...so do the things he likes from my side but I love to see his pleasure. We have not argued about it but it is a concern for me. I do not know how to help him grow as a dom without telling him exactly what to do, which feels very not sub like haha He does not have ppl that he knows that are doms an I do not want to puah him into this if it is not something he wants. He says he want it but then he does not act like the dom I feel i need...All I know is that even if he does not become the dom I feel I need I do not think I can stop doing the things I know he likes... I do not think I could stop being his sub.... but that is so draining when it is one sided... I do not know how to help him... Please PM me if You genuinely feel You can help. For the record (mostly cause I am new qnd just want to be clear) We are happy together haha just the two of us haha I just feel like we need help with direction moving into this new lifstyle Thank You
Abastia
Hello all
About a yr ago my husband of 13yrs wanted to start trying new things. He wanted to try things that I was willing to do (he would never force me) but things that my very traditional background did not allow. I have found I like being a sub
and I have found a few others to talk to about it to help me along the way. The problem is it feels very one sided... When I ask him to be the dom I feel like I need he says that it feels unatural...so do the things he likes from my side but I love to see his pleasure. We have not argued about it but it is a concern for me. I do not know how to help him grow as a dom without telling him exactly what to do, which feels very not sub like haha He does not have ppl that he knows that are doms an I do not want to puah him into this if it is not something he wants. He says he want it but then he does not act like the dom I feel i need...All I know is that even if he does not become the dom I feel I need I do not think I can stop doing the things I know he likes... I do not think I could stop being his sub.... but that is so draining when it is one sided... I do not know how to help him... Please PM me if You genuinely feel You can help. For the record (mostly cause I am new qnd just want to be clear) We are happy together haha just the two of us haha I just feel like we need help with direction moving into this new lifstyle Thank You Abastia
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New couple here, a little lost.
Hello all
About a yr ago my husband of 13yrs wanted to start trying new things. He wanted to try things that I was willing to do (he would never force me) but things that my very traditional background did not allow. I have found I like being a sub and I have found a few others to talk to about it to help me along the way. The problem is it feels very one sided... When I ask him to be the dom I feel like I need he says that it feels unatural...so do the things he likes from my side but I love to see his pleasure. We have not argued about it but it is a concern for me. I do not know how to help him grow as a dom without telling him exactly what to do, which feels very not sub like haha He does not have ppl that he knows that are doms an I do not want to puah him into this if it is not something he wants. He says he want it but then he does not act like the dom I feel i need...All I know is that even if he does not become the dom I feel I need I do not think I can stop doing the things I know he likes... I do not think I could stop being his sub.... but that is so draining when it is one sided... I do not know how to help him... Please PM me if You genuinely feel You can help. For the record (mostly cause I am new qnd just want to be clear) We are happy together haha just the two of us haha I just feel like we need help with direction moving into this new lifstyle Thank You
Abastia
Hello all
About a yr ago my husband of 13yrs wanted to start trying new things. He wanted to try things that I was willing to do (he would never force me) but things that my very traditional background did not allow. I have found I like being a sub
and I have found a few others to talk to about it to help me along the way. The problem is it feels very one sided... When I ask him to be the dom I feel like I need he says that it feels unatural...so do the things he likes from my side but I love to see his pleasure. We have not argued about it but it is a concern for me. I do not know how to help him grow as a dom without telling him exactly what to do, which feels very not sub like haha He does not have ppl that he knows that are doms an I do not want to puah him into this if it is not something he wants. He says he want it but then he does not act like the dom I feel i need...All I know is that even if he does not become the dom I feel I need I do not think I can stop doing the things I know he likes... I do not think I could stop being his sub.... but that is so draining when it is one sided... I do not know how to help him... Please PM me if You genuinely feel You can help. For the record (mostly cause I am new qnd just want to be clear) We are happy together haha just the two of us haha I just feel like we need help with direction moving into this new lifstyle Thank You Abastia
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Dominant transgender cougar from USA
I'm new, so I've stopped by to say hello. I am Mistress Ari, A Dominant who enjoys realtime play with dress-up dollie boy submissives. I am quite experienced in bdsm and bondage, and seek new avenues to explore and find playmates in my area. a cougar because I prefer them a bit younger than myself, as long as they aren't minors.
I'm new, so I've stopped by to say hello. I am Mistress Ari, A Dominant who enjoys realtime play with dress-up dollie boy submissives. I am quite experienced in bdsm and bondage, and seek new avenues to explore and find playmates in my area. a cougar because I prefer them a bit younger than myself, as long as they aren't minors.
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New. Hello.
Hello. Found these forums through a Reddit and goodreads rabbit hole. Lover of books and surfing the crevices of the internet. I am a Southern guy from USA. Some trivia for today I am currently wearing cowboy boots.
Hello. Found these forums through a Reddit and goodreads rabbit hole. Lover of books and surfing the crevices of the internet. I am a Southern guy from USA. Some trivia for today I am currently wearing cowboy boots.
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Hi, i. 40 and brand new to this. Anyone want to show me around?
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Hey, I'm Alice!
Hi! I'm new to this site, less so to kink - I've identified as a submissive for three years, and tried lots of wonderful things. I'm looking for online friends, mostly, and maybe to work up the courage to narrate a fantasy or two of my own sometime.
Hi! I'm new to this site, less so to kink - I've identified as a submissive for three years, and tried lots of wonderful things. I'm looking for online friends, mostly, and maybe to work up the courage to narrate a fantasy or two of my own sometime.
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Hi
Just discovering the discussion board. Usually hang around in chat.
Hi
Just discovering the discussion board. Usually hang around in chat.
Hello
Names Joe KinkyJoe that is. i live in the south i have many kinks But Being Dom is my main i am here to meet new people and friends hand out a bit and read a lil i am open to most conversations. I do not judge or shock and extreamly open minded so if you wanna chat bs or just have a laugh hit me up have a good one y'all
Names Joe KinkyJoe that is. i live in the south i have many kinks But Being Dom is my main i am here to meet new people and friends hand out a bit and read a lil i am open to most conversations. I do not judge or shock and extreamly open minded so if you wanna chat bs or just have a laugh hit me up have a good one y'all
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Greetings
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I suspose I should add a little. I'm Nimkii. I tend to be old and crusty and set in my ways. I'm very opinionated would be an understatement. too much c.b.c. radio as a child.
Want to say hello feel free too. i don't bit much.
Want to say hello feel free too. i don't bit much.
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Hiya, I'm a newbie. I'm lesbian and I've never tried the whole sub/Dom routine
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Hi everyone! I'm Emily, and I'm still figuring out this entire submissive thing with the help of my boyfriend. Anyhow, I'm here to meet new people, so if you want to talk, feel free to shoot me a message!
