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Hello. I'm 22M, relatively submissive. I'd love to chat with a dominant woman, but only once we've talked some terms first. Still very new to being a sub. I guess what I'm curious to ask is, am I still considered a sub if my only real kinks are being tied up and smothered? Those are kinda the only aspects of femdom that appeal to me.
 
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Hey all, I'm new!

38M, lurked for a little while. My wife is on Lit, and I decided to finally jump in on the fun. I'm looking to learn, and explore. I'm definitely a switch and want to explore that more. Hope to meet some nice people along the way 🙂
 
DVS said:
I'm also a Lit antique and it is nice to know something about those who post here. So, I thought this should be one of the recently closed threads that should continue.

From the original thread, started by RisiaSkye...
I'm noticing a lot of new posters around these parts, and it's getting difficult to keep up. We've been a small and kinda insular little community for so long, it is both thrilling and a little overwhelming to realize that we have so many people joining us with their own questions, experiences, and ideas.

So, on behalf of antiques like me, I ask for a favor:
Please, stop in and introduce yourself. Give us a chance to see you, get to know a bit about you, and we'll likely be more readily able to answer your questions or join a conversation with you. Let us know that you aren't a troll, and you'll jump way up the priority list all in one shot. At least, for me.

Welcome, new faces!

Now, who's next?
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I was on here a few years ago and had some fun then, so why not ?
Grandprix1041
 
grandprix1041 said:
Love mature women, they are the hottest lovers ! Saliva is the best lubricant !
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yep, when I turned 60, I just decided that I'll like get things off my chest.
it actually wasn't a conscious decision - I'd long ago given up on traditional bf.
I had a fwb for some years, that ended.
I found that 35 - like 42 yo guys were just perfect. they liked me too.
 
the_single_gal_unconfidential said:
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yep, when I turned 60, I just decided that I'll like get things off my chest.
it actually wasn't a conscious decision - I'd long ago given up on traditional bf.
I had a fwb for some years, that ended.
I found that 35 - like 42 yo guys were just perfect. they liked me too.
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I had a 72 yo neighbor that was the hottest I ever had.
 
Hi, I am new to this. What are things to be wary of when talking on here. I am looking for a dom submissive relationship and want it to be healthy and safe for me.
 
Been on Lit off and on for years. Recently started a relationship with a woman who is into being a submissive. I’ve never really been into BDSM (nor has she) but really am excited by the prospect of being her Dom.

I would love some advice from the veterans out there. We are 53(M) and 46 (F).

She has expressed interest in crops, floggers and being tied up, candle wax…

I want to thank anyone who takes the time to help us vetted started on this new adventure.
 
IMALOVA said:
Been on Lit off and on for years. Recently started a relationship with a woman who is into being a submissive. I’ve never really been into BDSM (nor has she) but really am excited by the prospect of being her Dom.

I would love some advice from the veterans out there. We are 53(M) and 46 (F).

She has expressed interest in crops, floggers and being tied up, candle wax…

I want to thank anyone who takes the time to help us vetted started on this new adventure.
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Communication a safe word and take it slow
 
Relatively new here had thought of asking for help with understanding bdsm from a female viewpoint if any one wants to help me understand be very kind of you.
 
IMALOVA said:
Been on Lit off and on for years. Recently started a relationship with a woman who is into being a submissive. I’ve never really been into BDSM (nor has she) but really am excited by the prospect of being her Dom.

I would love some advice from the veterans out there. We are 53(M) and 46 (F).

She has expressed interest in crops, floggers and being tied up, candle wax…

I want to thank anyone who takes the time to help us vetted started on this new adventure.
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Research, research, and more research. Take your time, communicate well and often, and establish your limits.
 
Hi i am pete and am new to all this on lit or just erotic sites like these. i am starting to explore my kinks if anyone wants to chat about something or anything of that ilk you can PM me and stuff cheers.
 
Hi! I'm falcao_89, I'm from Brazil, and I love reading stories about BDSM. I appreciate "Light Femdom" situations and discussions. It will be a pleasure to share views and experiences.
Greetings for all
 
Hi everyone! I'm Rachel, or as the profile name says 'Bleachbunny'. 28year old submissive black girl.

For full transparency and honesty, as embarrassing as it is to admit I have a major fetish for dominant white men and I think women too. I'd say I would prefer a man but I also have some very personal interests and fetishes that I am curious and interested what it would be like to explore with a woman, but I won't talk about those now. I admit that I'm unfortunately relatively inexperienced in healthy BDSM relationships, I sadly have experience from former male exes that was much more abusive than actually nurturing, encouraging, or supportive of my submissiveness. So my history is more of what not to do rather than what to do in a BDSM relationship.

I'm a major introvert (Type INFJ) and use writing (and sometimes roleplay) as a coping method, escape, and an outlet for my overactive imagination. The same goes with my submission. I have to be 'on' all day with work, and working as an EMT is even more stressful sometimes, so ideally I would be able to find a healthy trusting relationship where after my long work days I could just come home and 'turn off' as far as not needing to be 'in control' or a 'leader' any more! Just switch off and.....submit or obey!!

There are sooooooo many things that I want to try!!! Oh my gosh!

I enjoy listening more than talking!!! Trying my best to show that the stereotype of the 'loud angry black woman' is NOT always true! Because of that I love meeting new people learning about them and their history.
 
Hi , haven't been to the site in a few years. Mainly into erotic audios/femdom/mistress stuff.

Just browsing for now!
 
IMALOVA said:
Been on Lit off and on for years. Recently started a relationship with a woman who is into being a submissive. I’ve never really been into BDSM (nor has she) but really am excited by the prospect of being her Dom.

I would love some advice from the veterans out there. We are 53(M) and 46 (F).

She has expressed interest in crops, floggers and being tied up, candle wax…

I want to thank anyone who takes the time to help us vetted started on this new adventure.
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If I might suggest a few readings for you.
1 SM101
2 Screw the roses give me the thorns
3 look up online the name Jay Wiseman
Jay Wiseman has a lot of bdsm topics he discusses. He gets pretty in depth.
I’d suggest being new. Take things at your pace. Keep open communication with the submissive before during and after playing. Give your submissive after care. After you play with your sub give it few days and sit and talk about how it was.
I can go on and on. But don’t want to take up to much here.
 
Hello from a newb to the site. Just joined yesterday.
53 year old male. 6’5 220 lbs with box beard below my chest.
 
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