New faces, come say hello....

[LWulf]

Who am I kidding... I'm not *new*. But, I have never really done a proper introduction thread...

Was going to say "yeah, 210 posts, you're not 'new'" but then I saw "join date 2006"

2006?!? WT... Good gravy gree, girl! What have you been waiting for?

harrumph

Welcome.
I'm not going to say anything about the teacher thing. I have one teacher already that I have unfinished business with. Doubt anything will happen with her because it's been too many years since I saw her last, but that's me.

Bringing this back to you, you might want to try the BDSM personals here, but not being a noobie, you should already know that.

2006?!?

 

[coatcheckgirl]

I know, right shocking that I've been around that long and only have 200-some odd posts to show for it. I am aiming to remedy that situation and make myself a more respectable forum contributor. A girl's gotta have goals, right?

Yes, 2006. Told you I wasn't NEW.

 

[domolder]

Just found forums

I have enjoyed reading Lit stories for about a year, but just found the forums.

Lots of fun, here!

 

[zoelikesjam]

waves
*Hi*
Just poking my head in x

 

[CuriousGirl008]

.....

 

[Twinkely]

Been around here for about a month now, 21 yr old bi girl ^^ I love sex (read about bdsm cuz its hot) and gaming. Only looking to talk with other girls and occasionally post

 

[HamTree1990]

Hi from Ham & Tree

Hi all! ,

We are a couple madly in love who found each other by pure chance (in a hopeless place).
We've been exploring the world of naughty & nice since day one, and both love it! : )

Somehow both of us are willing to explore each others ideas and fantasies no matter what they are, the communication is so wonderfully open.
However, both of us keep butting up against societies prudish boundaries and feel a little frustration at it!

I guess we are here to explore a community of more open people, get some advice from everyone on how to connect with people, other humans, that, well i would say aren't freaks, but in this case, ARE freaks, but nice ones : ) The kind of people who engage with each other, and talk, rather than the normal testosterone fuelled false eroticisim that pervades most of our world *sadface*

So, be gentle on us, and perhaps we may just let you not be gentle on us : D

 

[MySlave]

New

Hi, yes I am new to this, and it is overwhelming and strange. But comforting in a way too.

 

[shyafrochic]

Hello,

I've been on Lit for a very long time, but this site has always been wonderful for quietly exploring my sexuality. I've found myself reading more BDSM stories and I'm just once again looking to explore.

 

[dagnyrearden]

hiya

We're a couple. Although we are new here, we have been kinky for some time. Hi!

 

[Sarahduk]

Hi all! ,

We are a couple madly in love who found each other by pure chance (in a hopeless place).
We've been exploring the world of naughty & nice since day one, and both love it! : )

Somehow both of us are willing to explore each others ideas and fantasies no matter what they are, the communication is so wonderfully open.
However, both of us keep butting up against societies prudish boundaries and feel a little frustration at it!

I guess we are here to explore a community of more open people, get some advice from everyone on how to connect with people, other humans, that, well i would say aren't freaks, but in this case, ARE freaks, but nice ones : ) The kind of people who engage with each other, and talk, rather than the normal testosterone fuelled false eroticisim that pervades most of our world *sadface*

So, be gentle on us, and perhaps we may just let you not be gentle on us : D

You are so lucky to have found each other, willing to explore each other's fantasies, sadly I'm not in that situation so fantasy has to remain fantasy xx

 

[shykitteh]

Hello, everyone I'm new here (truly new) at the forums but I've been reading on Literotica for quite a while now. I'm only just barely 19 now, but if you ask anyone who talks to me at all, they'll tell you that you would never know until somebody told you. I'm bisexual and I'm primarily a submissive, but I've also been known to switch on occasion.... I like a variety of other subjects and I love to chatter, especially once I get to know you, so don't be afraid to say hi ^.^ I have a passion for music, and for musical theatre and I always have.... I learn quickly, so given a little information about a topic, I can talk about just about anything
Looking forward to meeting more of you......

~kitteh~

 

[SweetMarie2323]

New sub

Hi everyone,
I'm not entirely new to Literotica but I am very new to the forums. My first story submission is pending approval for now but once posted I would love to receive as many comments as possible. I've always been a closeted writer but have now decided to put it out there for feedback.
I am very inexperienced with BDSM but I know that I am a sexual submissive. Aside from that, I'm 23 years old studying accounting and finance. I enjoy reading fiction and non fiction, cooking cuisines from around the world, and music (playing, listening, learning, it doesn't matter). I feel the most free when I'm either playing music or under a man's complete and total control (funny how neither of those things have anything to do with each other).
I enjoy chatting with people and learning through collective experiences so please feel free to ask me any questions!

 

[mrsemilybronte]

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[dreamykitten2]

Hey y'all! I'm a 31 year old married mom. No, the kids don't play soccer and they're not all even mine. We have a blended family of five children. The older ones have given us five grandchildren. (Shut up, my husband's old.) Anyway, I have always written but not yet found a place I could freely discuss my chosen subject matter. I'm hoping this will be the place. I am in sales and the corporate world. Very important I don't let this side of my life intrude on THAT side.

I'm from Nashville, buckle of the Bible belt. So I'm really glad to find this forum!

Welcome to lit land. The place that's very freeing and u can say whatever's on your mind. Some may not agree but I've enjoyed being able to express myself and my inner desires. It's an awesome place!!
Dreamy

 

[DVS]

Hey y'all! I'm a 31 year old married mom. No, the kids don't play soccer and they're not all even mine. We have a blended family of five children. The older ones have given us five grandchildren. (Shut up, my husband's old.) Anyway, I have always written but not yet found a place I could freely discuss my chosen subject matter. I'm hoping this will be the place. I am in sales and the corporate world. Very important I don't let this side of my life intrude on THAT side.

I'm from Nashville, buckle of the Bible belt. So I'm really glad to find this forum!

The last time I was in Nashville, the skeeters were damn HUGE. And I don't know why it was built this way, but downtown is down in a valley. I lived in Madison during the late '70s. You could see downtown in a haze, from the heat of the summer months.

It's a very interesting town, if you're a musician. Some of the most famous started there and continue for many years. Even the small timers are very interesting. I remember meeting a saxophone player that could play two saxophones at the same time and play harmony with himself. With so many good musicians in the town, being unique was key to getting work.

Welcome to Literotica. I hope you enjoy your stay.

 

[DVS]

Welcome to all of the new posters, here. Literotica is a friendly place. Well, that depends on who you talk to. We do have some posters that seem to always be mad at something or someone. I guess our regulars could be considered a cross section of human culture. We have artists, singers, writers (quite a few of those), doctors, lawyers and even judges and police. Of course, you probably won't know what anybody does for a living unless you get to know them a lot better. Everybody tends to put on a bit of a front, for various reasons. Some people will actually have their real picture as their avatar, and some will be a lot more private than that.

Some, like myself, can't be very open about their personal lives because of the type of job they have. So, don't pry into someone's personal life without being asked. And don't let others pry into your personal life without your OK, either. Other than that, we are all just a bunch of regular folks. Join in and become a member of those folks. We've always got room for more.

 

[mrsemilybronte]

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[mrsemilybronte]

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[fun_size_sub]

Glad to have found you!

Advance apologies if this gets too long, but I am really happy to have found this place and my BDSM adventure has been a long one.

I am a 36-year-old wife to a man whom I love, respect, and desire. We live in the wilds of Wyoming. Our vanilla story is somewhat stereotypical in that we met in college (he a senior, me a freshman) and maintained a long-distance relationship for three years until I graduated and we were married in 2000. We have three children and live in the same community where my husband was born and raised. <--- Sorry if that's too much background info.

I was not naive by any means when I met my husband, but my sexual experiences were somewhat limited because I'd dated the same boy throughout my freshman year of high school and another from my sophomore year of high school until a few weeks into my freshman year of college, when I met my now husband. It was my sophomore year of college during my exploration into sex chat rooms that I was introduced to BDSM. Though outwardly a feminist who wanted to break all of the gender stereotypes, railed against traditional male/female roles, etc, inside, I was a submissive at heart and have probably always been. I am not a pain slut and while I don't mind being bound, it's not what really gets my juices flowing. I love to be controlled and told what to do and to serve. That doesn't mean that I don't like to be spanked and disciplined if I deserve it.

Because of the distance and the fact that my husband didn't own a personal computer (and tablets and smart phones were still a little bit in the future), we wrote lots of erotic letters back and forth. After my proverbial "eye-opening," I wanted to relay my submissive needs/wants to my then-boyfriend, but didn't want to freak him out, so I started slowly incorporating small aspects of BDSM in my erotica to him to see his reaction. Passive-aggressive, I know, but I was young and stupid. He thought it was fun and during the times we saw each other (3-4/year), had no problem smacking my ass from time to time or tying me to the bed. I didn't have the courage, knowledge, or words to really explain what I needed/wanted. I am not sure I really knew at that time either.

When we were first married I bought him a book with a title somewhere along the lines of "When Someone You Love is Submissive" or something like that. I think he started it, but never finished it. Frustrated, I kind of gave up and indulged in my submissive fantasies online and let our vanilla sex life go on as usual. I don't think I was self-aware enough at 22 to really understand that submissive was who I was, not just a sexual fantasy. I hope that makes sense.

Fast forward a few years to when I "found Jesus" and became part of a fundamentalist evangelical Christian church and decided my interested in BDSM, pornography, and even fun sex, etc were unchristian and "forgot" about my submissive desires. While I have since left that church for myriad reasons a couple years ago, I still consider myself a Christian now, but of the much more progressive sort.

After some hurt experienced by my husband at my judgmental fundie stint, it took a while to rebuild our relationship and our sex life, but over time it has developed into something even better than it was previously. Still, though, I hadn't thought much about my suppressed submissive needs. Until a few months ago, that is.

My husband and I were kissing hot and heavy when he put his hand on the side of my face and whispered in my ear, "Now you are going to get on your hands and knees and I am going to fuck you from behind and you are going to play with my balls as I do." I was wetter faster than I'd been in a long time and on the verge of coming before I could even get up. It all came rushing back.

Over the past couple weeks, we've had some earnest discussions about my submissiveness and needs in that area. He is a "nice guy" raised by a single mom who has always been drawn to independent women, so it is difficult for him to understand my need to be controlled and serve. He is definitely not comfortable with any part of it outside of the bedroom (maybe some day), but has had no difficulty in the bedroom. I just hope that it doesn't become tedious for him, but we will deal with it as it comes and we have agreed that open communication about it will be a priority. I have already had him read a few threads here that have helped him to understand a little more. He is started to view it more as a loving way to help meet my needs vs just being a controlling asshole.

If you made it through this novel, thanks! I look forward to getting to know you all, learning from you, and joining in on the conversations.

 

[missbovary]

New but not so new

First, wow to the woman above me. So honest and open, I respect that.

I've been reading Lit for years and finally decided it time to explore both me and everything that Lit has to offer a little further. Hello to everyone!

 

[fun_size_sub]

First, wow to the woman above me. So honest and open, I respect that.

Thank you, though perhaps I said too much. That was 16 years of pent-up stuff.

 

[All_4_Love]

Thank you, though perhaps I said too much. That was 16 years of pent-up stuff.

You didn't say too much at all. I enjoyed reading every bit of your story. Thank you for sharing.

As a 39-year-old woman now, who was also lacking self awareness for many years, I can relate to much of what you've said. My difference is that I'm submissive out of the bedroom and supportive of the traditional male/female roles, so I ended up with a husband (now ex) that wasn't a real nice guy. Nevertheless, I can relate to your 16 years of pent-up frustration

I'm still a newbie here myself, but I'll say it anyway...Welcome.

And here's a big *hug* too.

Oh, and hello to you, as well, Miss Bovary

 

[DVS]

Advance apologies if this gets too long, but I am really happy to have found this place and my BDSM adventure has been a long one...

Yeah, you should watch it, when posting those long messages. I'm pretty bad about that, myself. I've been told more than once that my posts get long and I'm sure some people refuse to read long posts. I guess their lives are just too damn busy to read what I have to say. But, I digress...

If you were to ask me, I'd say write long posts, if you want. Some of us just like to talk. We like to share what we experience in life. If someone doesn't care about what we want to share, that's their loss, right?

Oh, by the way...welcome to Lit! I'm happy that you're happy.


Wait...was that too corny?

 

[StrayKat]

I've been told more than once that my posts get long and I'm sure some people refuse to read long posts.

I for one read every word of your posts and the longer they get the better. I learned a lot from you and some other regulars here in past few years.
Ok, in theory but still