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If you knew this going into the relationship you either need to adjust your expectations or work on your communication skills. Subs arnt doormats, that said, Doms arnt mind readers. Communicate, express your concern/need.... make with the finding of happy pants, happy ending, happy now... something.

Well yes, but he never talks to me until then. When I try to ask for more time, he explains it's the best he can do. So, I suppose this is how it'll stay :(

Hmmm, you mean like Master bait?

-Nod-
 
Well yes, but he never talks to me until then. When I try to ask for more time, he explains it's the best he can do. So, I suppose this is how it'll stay :(

Welp, chickadee... you gotta pull on the big girl pants. If that is the best he can do and you still require more you have a decision to make don't ya? Either change your expectations, your attitude and find the positive in the situation or get out of a situation your unfulfilled and unhappy in.


that is, unless I'm just reading it wrong and you actually get off on the whole "my master doesn't pay enough attention to poor lil me" bit. Then I just say, carry on and my apologies for intruding.
 
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Welp, chickadee... you gotta pull on the big girl pants. If that is the best he can do and you still require more you have a decision to make don't ya? Either change your expectations, your attitude and find the positive in the situation or get out of a situation your unfulfilled and unhappy in.


that is, unless I'm just reading it wrong and you actually get off on the whole "my master doesn't pay enough to poor lil me" bit. Then I just say, carry on and my apologies for intruding.

Creepy aren't you
 
So! I now have no need for Master bait (hehehehe awesome.) Thanks for your input and advice, everyone~
 
Hell, I wish I was effin asleep at that time of night but my innerchild is a fuckin bat, so we're awake.

I wonder what the over/under is on how many PMs you have gotten in regards to seeing your "bat cave".

:rolleyes:

Hmmm, you mean like Master bait?

*rimshot*

Wait...I don't know you. I should probably buy you dinner and flowers and all that nice stuff before pulling a move like that, huh?

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As for sdnt, all that can be said has been said. While you maybe submissive, there is no law which states you can't be assertive in getting what you desire/need/crave....yadda yadda.
 
I wonder what the over/under is on how many PMs you have gotten in regards to seeing your "bat cave".

:rolleyes:.

nope, you happen to be the only one intereted in the bat cave...


wait.... There might be more to that phrase. maybe.
 
I wonder what the over/under is on how many PMs you have gotten in regards to seeing your "bat cave".

:rolleyes:

Ha.

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*rimshot*

Wait...I don't know you. I should probably buy you dinner and flowers and all that nice stuff before pulling a move like that, huh?

Haa.

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As for sdnt, all that can be said has been said. While you maybe submissive, there is no law which states you can't be assertive in getting what you desire/need/crave....yadda yadda.

And yes, thank you. I'll use that in my future endeavors. Which will hopefully happen smoothly.
 
nope, you happen to be the only one intereted in the bat cave...


wait.... There might be more to that phrase. maybe.

Na na na na na na na......:D

*cackles softly* Yes my apprentice.....feel with the dork side.....feel the cheesiness rising.....the puns flowing through you. Give in....to your corny humor!
 
And yes, thank you. I'll use that in my future endeavors. Which will hopefully happen smoothly.
Life is Bumpy darlin..... screw trying to iron it out. Just get good shocks and put the petal to the floor.
Na na na na na na na......:D

*cackles softly* Yes my apprentice.....feel with the dork side.....feel the cheesiness rising.....the puns flowing through you. Give in....to your corny humor!

I think i just felt the force...... or gas...
 
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