Nighties or pj's?

[graceanne]

HA! I had to read that twice too.

make it three or four times for me.

 

[jodie_elizabeth]

A sexy silkie nighty. That barely covers. I love the way that it flows over the body, revieling my body as I walk or sleep.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

HA! I had to read that twice too.

make it three or four times for me.

You're both sluts after my own heart.

i kinda like that in a woman.

 

[silver_inari]

Okay, not that I'm out planning on seducing anyone, but I have a question about sexy sleepwear. See, I'm really not a girly-girl lacy peignoir type. But I was pondering the possibilities of purchasing some more grown-up sort of stuff. I know that 9 times out of 10, what really matters is how the garment looks thrown across the bedroom and lying on the floor since the people end up nude anyway. I've been looking at sexy nightgowns and all that, and I just look silly. So I was wondering about pajamas. Can pajamas be sexy? I was thinking about something like the things these folks have here.

So, everyone, what do you like your ladies in? What's your preference for your lady loves? The poll is set for multiple answers if you like more than one option.

I asked my hubby what his favorites are...he prefers sexy pajamas....

I once bought this great silk nightie once...the cat played with the spaghetti straps on it and chewed threw them...ya know, to a cat it looks like string.

 

[fille]

I love sexy nightgowns, but I'm also into comfort. So I usually wear short cotton nighties from Victoria's Secret - they are stretchy cotton knit, form fitting with spaghetti straps. I can't sleep in sleeves or anything long that will get wrapped around my legs.

 

[lindiana]

just panties for me

sometimes a t-shirt and panties

but generally naked, with or without partner

 

[Esclava]

I voted for "Other."

When there is a romantic other to share my bed, I usually sleep in a body sized towel - as I am, usualy, the FE. It makes clean-up easier.

Otherwise, the buff is generally what works (except when traveling with others - then it's a silk gown).

Hmmmmmmm ... perhaps that's why I'm still alone ...

Esclava

 

[SweetSurrendered1]

He prefers me in teddies, g-strings, etc., but as we rarely get alone time, it doesn't happen as frequently as he would like. Sometimes I wear something just before getting into bed, but it seems like it takes me longer to get into it than the time it takes before it is off again because we only have limited time. I'm not complaining though because I find a lot of it uncomfortable... LOL. Actually I do enjoy dressing up for him and he tries very hard to make sure most of it is comfortable. The uncomfortable stuff is reserved for, well, I think you get the picture. As for sleeping, I'm always naked, whether winter or summer.

 

[Epithumia]

I always sleep naked too...
he (hubby) always thought "whats lingerie for! you wont be wearing it for long"
and I had to beg him for this realllly sexy nightie I wanted around v-day....
he learned really fast why buying me sexy nighties is a good thing
yeah, you can pretty much see through the nightie I have... but there is just something about nipples poking through sheer fabric...
its not about covering up.... sometimes when you wear just a little something you can feel more naked than when you really are...

 

[SweetSurrendered1]

but there is just something about nipples poking through sheer fabric...
its not about covering up.... sometimes when you wear just a little something you can feel more naked than when you really are...

This is sooo true! Glad you both were able to enjoy it!

 

[snowy ciara]

So here's another silly pj question. I found something I sort of liked and was thinking about getting it. It was a like a sleep shirt, 100 percent cotton in a silk weave ( I didn't know cotton could be that sheer! I thought it really was silk). It was dark dark green, almost black with really intricate Celtic knotwork style embroidery in the same colour thread. Very elegant and sexy without being too er, well, y'know. It concealed in a very revealing way. It also had a kimono style robe to go with it.

The deal breaker was this bitchy salesgirl insisted I buy the stupid high heeled mule slippers with the black faux fur on them that matched the outfit. I said "no, thanks, I don't really like them." and headed for the register. She brings them to the register anyway. She tells me that I REALLY need the slippers as they match the gown and I'm never going to find another pair that goes so well. Again, I said no. She kept going on about how they would do lovely things for my legs, make me look longer legged and taller, too. I said finally, "I do not like them." I even had the plastic out and ready to pay for it. Before she ran it she says "Are you sure you don't want the slippers, they're going fast and I can't guarantee they'll be here when you get back for them. Finally I asked her if a 20 dollar pair of slippers was worth losing a 100 dollar sale (I had selected some other items too; frilly underthings and all that.). She looked at me and said "You're a fool if you leave without them; he'll be mad for you. Think Hepburn and Tracy, or Vivian Leigh..." I looked at her and asked to speak to her manager. I thereby explained that insulting my intelligence and my legs as well as making assumptions about my sexual preference was NO way to make a sale and this young lady needed some more time in the stockroom breaking down boxes before she needed to be allowed on the sales floor again. I handed the clothes to the manager and managed not to storm out. Just walked out and into the Frederick's store across the mall from them.

While in Frederick's I found a similar night gown (But not as nice as what was in the bitches store)and yes, the girl offered to show me the matching slippers if I was interested. But when I said no thanks, I prefer to be barefoot, instead of giving me a hard time, she suggested nail polish colours for my toes that'll look good with the colour of the gown. I didn't want to buy just yet as I wanted to look around some more and they let me put a refundable deposit to hold the outfit for a week so I can look around some more.

So, anyway, that's the rant part. Now here's the question.. Are slippers that important to the "look" when you're getting all sexy with your sleepwear? How much does it really matter? Will you look any less put together or sexy? I mean, I understand that you need nice shoes with a business suit, but is it really necessary for sleep wear? Or non sleep wear, as the case may be. If your loved one comes to you in sexy night gear, but barefoot, will it detract from their sexiness? Or distract from it for you?

 

[AngelicAssassin]

So, anyway, that's the rant part. Now here's the question.. Are slippers that important to the "look" when you're getting all sexy with your sleepwear? How much does it really matter? Will you look any less put together or sexy? I mean, I understand that you need nice shoes with a business suit, but is it really necessary for sleep wear? Or non sleep wear, as the case may be. If your loved one comes to you in sexy night gear, but barefoot, will it detract from their sexiness? Or distract from it for you?

First thing first. Get the set you wanted. If you can't bear to go back in the store, find it online if it exists. One way or another, get the set. If you need an apology for their lack of graceful service, go the whole hog and find the chain of command to either reduce the price for the ignorance of their sales staff, or request the purchase by mail.

Second, who ever told you shoes made you sexy? If i'm not mistaken, you have submissive tendencies. Unless your partner plans to use the shoes in some fashion to bring out that submission, you don't need shoes for fucking. Besides, a truly dominating personality can take advantage of that lack of shoes to do all sorts of interesting things to your feet.

 

[DVS]

...So, anyway, that's the rant part. Now here's the question.. Are slippers that important to the "look" when you're getting all sexy with your sleepwear? How much does it really matter? Will you look any less put together or sexy? I mean, I understand that you need nice shoes with a business suit, but is it really necessary for sleep wear? Or non sleep wear, as the case may be. If your loved one comes to you in sexy night gear, but barefoot, will it detract from their sexiness? Or distract from it for you?

Maybe I'm not the one to answer this, as I don't really care for all of htat mumbo jumbo anyway. And, I think the fur on the shoes would have looked silly. Oh, I wouldn't have said that, if you'd showed up in front of me with all of that on, but if I were to go out and buy it, the shoes would have stayed in the store

(I might have taken that sales bitch back into the store room for some discipline before I left, though. That's what she needed. I'd have her wear nothing but those shoes and do a few sexy odds and ends for me, if you know what I mean).

But, I digress...

Anyway, like I said, I'm not the one to answer this. I understand the thought process behind the sexy undies, really I do. I even appreciate it, at times, but it's been said before...how long does something really stay on you, when you look that way? 10..15 minutes?

Put on a simple oversize white T-shirt that just covers a white thong and I'll be watching you all evening, with all the different ideas for how I'm going to use you, while wearing those things. And, I might even tie you down and rip the T-shirt off of you, if I'm in the mood. God, help me, if I ripped the sexy undies off, right?

Now, if you wear the shoes, and I'd be watching those fur varmits on them, instead. Nope, not much of a shoe man, myself. I like my women with naked feet.

 

[Desdemona]

DVS, I'll never look at those silly maribu slippers again without thinking of your phrase "fur varmits". LMAO Thanks for starting the day with a chuckle.

 

[arctic-stranger]

panties....just panties....if they stay on....

 

[h_i_s]

It's His rule that when i am in His bed i am expected to be nude with the exception of His collar.

i do, however, spend most of my time at home dressed in night time wear of some sort. i usually wear whatever suits my mood, and most times it is something warm as i am almost always easily chilled. Sometimes i choose a long cotton nightie, or a sweat suit, or two piece PJ's.

When confined to the bedroom He chooses that i wear sexier more revealing attire ranging from a sheer ivory colored silk strappy teddy, or a shear black teddy, complete with crotchless thong, garter belt & sheer black seamed thigh high stockings.

Although He'd prefer that i romp around our home naked ALL of the time, we do have children & it's just not practical. Regardless, once the bedroom door closes behind us, no matter what i am wearing, it doesn't stay on for long.

¸,ø¤º°sinn0cent°º¤ø,¸ proudly owned by, and devoted to INSIDEYOURMIND

 

[snowy ciara]

First thing first. Get the set you wanted. If you can't bear to go back in the store, find it online if it exists. One way or another, get the set. If you need an apology for their lack of graceful service, go the whole hog and find the chain of command to either reduce the price for the ignorance of their sales staff, or request the purchase by mail.

It wasn't really that I couldn't bear to go in cause I was horribly embarrassed or anything, it was because I was angry and didn't want to give them the $$$. But I did go back today. The bitch was there; and she got a really snotty look on her face when I came in. I got the stuff I was looking at, as well as a few more items, sans the stupid furry slippers. When I got to the register, the b tried to ring me up and I refused to let her do it. She started to get stupid so I politely asked to speak to a manager. She said it wasn't necessary. I told her it was completely necessary. The girl tried the line about the manager could not be disturbed, so I calmly turned to my bud who was with me and asked to borrow her cell phone. I then used the 1-800 number on the back of the register and called corporate hdq. I asked to speak to the customer service representative's superior, who was more than pleased to speak with me. I explained the situation in detail, including that the young lady refused to call the manager for me. She called the store manager, who came out and gave me an employee discount on all purchases and a $50 dollar gift card. I then explained that the reason I didn't want the b to ring me up is that I didn't want her to receive the commission she didn't earn. My friend and I left then, and we went to the bookstore for a bit. When we came back past the lingerie store, we saw the young lady handing over her keys and name tag and flouncing out of the store. I almost felt badly, except that I feel she earned her termination.

Second, who ever told you shoes made you sexy? If i'm not mistaken, you have submissive tendencies. Unless your partner plans to use the shoes in some fashion to bring out that submission, you don't need shoes for fucking. Besides, a truly dominating personality can take advantage of that lack of shoes to do all sorts of interesting things to your feet.

I don't think shoes are sexy; I know that some people love them and fetishize them but I don't and I was really starting to wonder why they're so damned important! I have maybe 10 pairs of shoes (including a pair of fairly high heels, now.) but as far as them being a necessity to be sexy I was clueless. That's why I asked the question about how important they really are. If my theoretical partner really perved on them, I'd do my best for them. But in general, I didn't think they were that important to the whole package.

Thanks for your feedback, everyone.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

... so I calmly turned to my bud who was with me and asked to borrow her cell phone. I then used the 1-800 number on the back of the register and called corporate hdq. I asked to speak to the customer service representative's superior, who was more than pleased to speak with me. I explained the situation in detail, including that the young lady refused to call the manager for me. She called the store manager ...

you're growing up to be real contessa darlin' ... proud of you.

but as far as them being a necessity to be sexy I was clueless.

Just a prop snowy, but in the hands of the right mind, a truly devasting one. Shall we start with the fairly high heels? Think humiliation.

Then again, barefoot and bastinado have such a lovely ring as well ...

 

[snowy ciara]

you're growing up to be real contessa darlin' ... proud of you.

Thank you.

Just a prop snowy, but in the hands of the right mind, a truly devasting one. Shall we start with the fairly high heels? Think humiliation.

Then again, barefoot and bastinado have such a lovely ring as well ...

Suddenly shoes don't sound so bad. Maybe I should... Naaahhhh! I'll just take my chances with barefootin' and beggin' for mercy.

 

[DVS]

Thank you.



Suddenly shoes don't sound so bad. Maybe I should... Naaahhhh! I'll just take my chances with barefootin' and beggin' for mercy.

That'll just get more of what you're already getting from me, but it works better than shoes.

You gotta say one thing for those high pumps...it's difficult to run from someone. And, equally difficult to change direction in mid stride. If they worked for that, you'd see football players wearing them.

 

[shy slave]

Snowy ..You rock girl.

Amazing

Dolf and I definately need to shop with you !!

 

[DarkLadyOfDeath]

Birthday suit.. *snick* I've yet to find a wo/man that does anything but just blink at you the first time you crawl into bed with them after non-chalantly removeing your clothes. It's almost a power-trip. That and I can't sleep clothed. I end up takeing my clothes off while I'm sleeping otherwise. Tried it once.. woke up almost as startled as the girl sleeping with me.

 

[PaulUK]

She wears a West Ham United shirt in bed... and even though it is sacrilidge, I can't wait for the day when I am dropping it on the floor on her side of the bed.

 

[C's Button]

She wears a West Ham United shirt in bed... and even though it is sacrilidge, I can't wait for the day when I am dropping it on the floor on her side of the bed.

The away jersey, I think, as the colours work for me...

 

[PaulUK]

And you're still away. But that will change. You can sleep in a home shirt soon.