No means no....even here

[JennyNo1]

For all of you oh-so-delectable men out there who just KNOW you're too irresistible for a woman to not jump at the chance to talk to you.....when I tell you I'm not interested, be mature and take it graciously and let it go. Telling me how I'll love it, or how I'll regret it if I don't or how you're going to rock my world babeeee is only to going to confirm my decision. Much as I love talking to people here, there are times when I simply don't feel like it or when I have a good reason I don't want to. Pushing the matter just tells me you have no respect for what other people say. So.....don't make me resurrect the Fucktarded PM's thread!!!

 

[just4friends]

so...

For all of you oh-so-delectable men out there who just KNOW you're too irresistible for a woman to not jump at the chance to talk to you.....when I tell you I'm not interested, be mature and take it graciously and let it go. Telling me how I'll love it, or how I'll regret it if I don't or how you're going to rock my world babeeee is only to going to confirm my decision. Much as I love talking to people here, there are times when I simply don't feel like it or when I have a good reason I don't want to. Pushing the matter just tells me you have no respect for what other people say. So.....don't make me resurrect the Fucktarded PM's thread!!!

you mean no. got it. did the "fucktard" not take the hint? If not, start up the thread again so other women can judge the level of "fucktard" they are getting pms from.

 

[sereneone4u]

Oh AMEN Jenny, AMEN

 

[CoolDude397]

Now that would be one fun thread to read...

Jenny, I feel for you, but don't stress so much about it. This is the interweb and everyone here thinks he/she is a superstar. Just ignore, delete and move on. Don't give yourself too much heartburn.

Those who want to be fucktards and PM will do so anyway. You can't stop them. But once you get a PM, you can always put them on ignore

Hope you have a better day tomorrow! *hugs*

 

[JennyNo1]

Now that would be one fun thread to read...

Jenny, I feel for you, but don't stress so much about it. This is the interweb and everyone here thinks he/she is a superstar. Just ignore, delete and move on. Don't give yourself too much heartburn.

Those who want to be fucktards and PM will do so anyway. You can't stop them. But once you get a PM, you can always put them on ignore

Hope you have a better day tomorrow! *hugs*

Eh, not stressing, just felt like saying it! And yes, that is a fun thread to read, at least the first part of it. You have to wonder what some people are smoking while they're writing! Even I'll admit it got way too harsh after a while though. Just be nice and respectful, guys - that's all I'm sayin! (well, unless I ask you not to be! )

 

[StilettosNSpurs]

Jenny, you took the words right out of my mouth!

I must say thank you to all the wonderful men of Lit that are polite, respectful and bring a smile to my face every time I get a PM from them. I hope you know who you are, if not ask me politely!

 

[Azuldrgon]

Man, even that seems too hard a concept for some.

 

[Size13]

We seem to have more than our fair share of neanderthals on here. They make the rest of us decent guys look bad.

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

For all of you oh-so-delectable men out there who just KNOW you're too irresistible for a woman to not jump at the chance to talk to you.....when I tell you I'm not interested, be mature and take it graciously and let it go. Telling me how I'll love it, or how I'll regret it if I don't or how you're going to rock my world babeeee is only to going to confirm my decision. Much as I love talking to people here, there are times when I simply don't feel like it or when I have a good reason I don't want to. Pushing the matter just tells me you have no respect for what other people say. So.....don't make me resurrect the Fucktarded PM's thread!!!

So, you're saying there's still a chance?

 

[StilettosNSpurs]

On this same note, guys do you get the PM's from women that just can't take NO for an answer? Or the crude PM's?

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

On this same note, guys do you get the PM's from women that just can't take NO for an answer? Or the crude PM's?

What's a PM? lol...ANY PM from a woman is welcomed by me...even stalking types...for me personally, I tend to NEVER send any PM to a woman without at least some inkling that she might want one....I haven't received an unwelcomed PM from a woman...a guy or two have sent me crappy PM's...but not a woman - so far...

 

[Azuldrgon]

Not me.....I think the fact that I try to be so respectful usually keeps me out of trouble with that.

 

[Susurration]

On this same note, guys do you get the PM's from women that just can't take NO for an answer? Or the crude PM's?

I received one outburst from one woman with a very low post count (i.e. not a Playground regular), but I think that women here suffer much more from this than many of us men do.

Having received some PMs from men who thought I was woman that were not terribly well worded or respectful I can also empathise with some of the frustrations which you must have experienced.

 

[Size13]

On this same note, guys do you get the PM's from women that just can't take NO for an answer? Or the crude PM's?

I think the online experience here for women is way different than it is for the men...

 

[DarkSimian]

I've gotten PMs from women that want to play.....and when I don't play the way they want, get pissy. wtf?

 

[StilettosNSpurs]

We seem to have more than our fair share of neanderthals on here. They make the rest of us decent guys look bad.

13, no they don't! IMO, the nice PM's far outweigh and make up for the crappy ones.

For instance, today I have received PM's from 8 different men. Some are men I have conversed with before today and some it was our first conversation. Of those, 6 of them brought a smile to my face and those 6 have made me totally forget the 1 that made me and the one that made me think WTF?

You "good" guys please keep up the good conversation.

 

[JennyNo1]

We seem to have more than our fair share of neanderthals on here. They make the rest of us decent guys look bad.

13, no they don't! IMO, the nice PM's far outweigh and make up for the crappy ones.

For instance, today I have received PM's from 8 different men. Some are men I have conversed with before today and some it was our first conversation. Of those, 6 of them brought a smile to my face and those 6 have made me totally forget the 1 that made me and the one that made me think WTF?

You "good" guys please keep up the good conversation.

SnS is absolutely right! If anything the troglodites make the rest of you look even better! I should've pointed out that the vast majority of men, and women, I have met here have been just delightful.

 

[JennyNo1]

So, you're saying there's still a chance?

Let me see......no creepy PM from jeff_is_smiling....so yes!

 

[1gr8tlady]

SnS is absolutely right! If anything the troglodites make the rest of you look even better! I should've pointed out that the vast majority of men, and women, I have met here have been just delightful.

Thank you Jenny...