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No Nut November

Are you doing No Nut November

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Has anyone who started NNN fallen off the wagon yet? And by "fallen off the wagon", of course I mean "blown a hot creamy load".
 
This is an interesting, tertiary topic- but what’s the longest anyone has gone without an orgasm?

Mine was like 6 or 7 days maybe. It was after a vasectomy.
 
Suz_anne said:
Touche´.

(Did that fancy French shit make you mess your nut huggers?)
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Nope, I'm not sophisticated enough for French shit. I read Touché like douche and that trumps any mess-inducing thoughts I might have had. :(
 
aussiegeekygal said:
Ooh, I went almost a year post partum.

Fuck that shit.
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:eek:

You have my deepest condolences.:rose: (Also, why, if i may be nosy?)

. . . . . . .

It's been years since this happened, but I've gone a few months.

When you live with a spouse who appears to be decidedly anti-sex, eventually you get tired of asking and everything shuts down. Or did for me a few different times.

It was a nice break, actually, not being reminded every day that he didn't want me. *shrug*
 
Wild_Honey_66 said:
:eek:

You have my deepest condolences.:rose: (Also, why, if i may be nosy?)

. . . . . . .

It's been years since this happened, but I've gone a few months.

When you live with a spouse who appears to be decidedly anti-sex, eventually you get tired of asking and everything shuts down. Or did for me a few different times.

It was a nice break, actually, not being reminded every day that he didn't want me. *shrug*
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You’re soooo not alone in experiencing this phenomenon.
 
Trekka said:
You’re soooo not alone in experiencing this phenomenon.
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Werd... There comes a point where you quit asking, quit trying, realize the extra stuff you've been doing to try and win points just turned into resent.

Ended a marriage for me.
 
blade_rocknut said:
Werd... There comes a point where you quit asking, quit trying, realize the extra stuff you've been doing to try and win points just turned into resent.

Ended a marriage for me.
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Amen!

Well, it was that, and about 32,654 other reasons, but this one ranked high.
 
blade_rocknut said:
Werd... There comes a point where you quit asking, quit trying, realize the extra stuff you've been doing to try and win points just turned into resent.

Ended a marriage for me.
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Trekka said:
Amen!

Well, it was that, and about 32,654 other reasons, but this one ranked high.
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Same.

The lack of union in this area symbolized the lack of unity just about everywhere else.
 
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Wild_Honey_66 said:
Same.

The lack of union in this area symbolized the lack of unity just about everywhere else.
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I should clarify...The lack of sex in and of itself didn't end a marriage. Sex however, *does* grease the wheels of forgiveness and understanding of all the other little things which wear on you. When the sex grinds to a halt, all the other things compound...the slate never gets wiped clean.
So, yeah. and then when the inevitable arguments happen, you get "all you care about is sex".

:eek:
 
blade_rocknut said:
I should clarify...The lack of sex in and of itself didn't end a marriage. Sex however, *does* grease the wheels of forgiveness and understanding of all the other little things which wear on you. When the sex grinds to a halt, all the other things compound...the slate never gets wiped clean.
So, yeah. and then when the inevitable arguments happen, you get "all you care about is sex".

:eek:
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I agree. After the physical closeness is gone, you begin to lose the emotional closeness and trust, and it spirals downward from there.
 
What? I'd never heard of this, and I have no idea why it's a thing.

Yeah. Fuck that. Good luck to those of you non-nutters, but... well, no. Just no.
 
blade_rocknut said:
...the slate never gets wiped clean.
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This is great. Beautifully put. I've always seen sex as having the ability to soothe and heal.

Physical intimacy is as fundamental to my relationships as emotional intimacy. They go together. I need, I want both. Either one without the other is incomplete for me. Love is the thinking, the feeling, and the act.

It was the last straw in both of my marriages. When a man doesn't want to touch his own wife - doesn't want her to touch him - what hope can there be for the rest of the relationship?
 
JJonah said:
What? I'd never heard of this, and I have no idea why it's a thing.

Yeah. Fuck that. Good luck to those of you non-nutters, but... well, no. Just no.
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Why have nuts if you're not gonna play with them?
I think Ghandi said that. Or maybe Mother Theresa? Anyway, it's valid.
 
Wild_Honey_66 said:
:eek:

You have my deepest condolences.:rose: (Also, why, if i may be nosy?)
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Breastfeeding. It messed with my hormones so bad. I think it was exacerbated by my previous health struggles. Dump in post partum depression and I was the perfect storm of absolutely not sexy.

I finally got my period back 18 months PP and things got considerably better after that.

My husband is a saint!
 
aussiegeekygal said:
Breastfeeding. It messed with my hormones so bad. I think it was exacerbated by my previous health struggles. Dump in post partum depression and I was the perfect storm of absolutely not sexy.

I finally got my period back 18 months PP and things got considerably better after that.

My husband is a saint!
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So glad to hear everything is back on track. :heart:
 
aussiegeekygal said:
Breastfeeding. It messed with my hormones so bad. I think it was exacerbated by my previous health struggles. Dump in post partum depression and I was the perfect storm of absolutely not sexy.

I finally got my period back 18 months PP and things got considerably better after that.

My husband is a saint!
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Or you're just worth waiting for. :)
 
aussiegeekygal said:
Breastfeeding. It messed with my hormones so bad. I think it was exacerbated by my previous health struggles. Dump in post partum depression and I was the perfect storm of absolutely not sexy.

I finally got my period back 18 months PP and things got considerably better after that.

My husband is a saint!
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The first 18 months of motherhood was the single most unsexy time of my life. It was worse than adolescence with braces and acne!

Nobody warned me about this!

Same as you Aussie, I didn’t get to feeling like myself again until she was 18 months old. Didn’t lose an ounce until then, no libido, hormonal shit show!

My (ex)husband tho: decidedly not a saint. Lol. You’re a lucky mama! He’s a keeper!
 
Trekka said:
The first 18 months of motherhood was the single most unsexy time of my life. It was worse than adolescence with braces and acne!

Nobody warned me about this!

Same as you Aussie, I didn’t get to feeling like myself again until she was 18 months old. Didn’t lose an ounce until then, no libido, hormonal shit show!

My (ex)husband tho: decidedly not a saint. Lol. You’re a lucky mama! He’s a keeper!
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Don't I know it?
Now I understand why the majority of divorce happens in the 18 months after the birth of a baby. That shit is just hard. I'm glad I had the man I did by my side for it.

And on another note...
No nutting is just masturbating, right? Like, if I wanted to help someone no but, I could just load them up on sex?
 
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