non consent attempt first time, ready for more.

[vegas husband]

I came across some of my wifes old web stories and she seemed to be focused on the non consent material. It made my whole body tingle, a new adventure for our sex life. I try to respect her privacy so I couldn't bring it up until we were in the throws of passion.

I got some advice from someone I work with and tried to be very dominating.

It was great when it happened because some times after I give her a full body massage (makes me so fucking horny my cock is leaking precum, I rub every inch of her and she makes these moans that sound like she has a big cock in her, so fucking erotic), she gives me a pitty fuck, she just lays there and lets me get all inside her and lets me finish.

Anyway I got on top of her and she does this thing where she holds her legs to the side with her hand, So I gently get my cock in to her and then after my 2nd or 3rd pump I reached down and grabbed her wrists and threw them up over her head, I pinned down her arms and started to ram my cock inside her, my ballance was different then usual so I was really slamming her down with my cock.

I felt like an animal, I could feel my heart beating out of my chest, I was nervous she was going to freak out that I was simulating a rape fantasy, but instead she had her head to the side and she was fucking loving it. Her pussy got so wet my cock was dripping wet and my bush was getting moist.

I reached down with my mouth and pulled up her shirt, her nipples were so hard, I reached towards them and bit down and then pulled my mouth off and did the same to the other. My arms got tired of holding her down so finally I let her arms go and started to get close to finishing, I reached up and grabbed a handful of her hair and pulled hard so her face had to point upwards, I kept slamming her pussy and finally came with such a load It was amazing.

I rolled off her and she was totally fine with it. She got up and went to the bathroom like other times. I was still so nervous that she would realize that I has been snooping on her internet, but she was totally cool.

It was one of the most amazing sexual experiences of my life. So I am ready to get some rope or a belt and try tying her hands behind her back.

Then I am going to lay her on her stomach and gently get my cock in her pussy, Give her a short massage with my cock and then pull out and get my hand down by her goods. I will place my thumb in her pussy and wrap my fingers by her clit. Then I will give her some nasty dirty talk and hopefully make her cum.

Then when her pussy is just dripping wet, I will place my cock back inside her and then pull it out and bring it over to her mouth. I will make her taste her sweet juices of my stick, I might turn her over and then fuck her face while her hands her behind her and finally I will get back behind her and fuck her while pulling on the rope or belt.

My question is how do I decide which night to do this? Do I talk to her about it? Do i just assume she will like it or should I ask her about it, or send her an email?

 

[kindashy]

I think this is part of role playing. Yes, you need to talk to her about this role playing, what roles she wants and setup the safe word.

 

[SweetErika]

I will make her taste her sweet juices of my stick, I might turn her over and then fuck her face while her hands her behind her and finally I will get back behind her and fuck her while pulling on rope of belt.

Before you do this to her, I'd suggest clasping your hands behind your back (you can even cinch a belt or something around your wrists, just temporarily), and try the positions you're considering. Being rolled over with my hands bound behind my back sounds painful to me, but I may not get what you're talking about. Regardless, it's always a good idea to try everything that could be painful on ourselves first, if possible. Nothing kills the mood like harming/being harmed or an injury like a dislocated shoulder.

My question is how do I decide which night to do this? Do I talk to her about it?

I would talk to her about your last experience, asking if she'd like to do more stuff like that in the future. If so, I'd bring up my discomfort at the thought of things getting out of hand, harming her and ruining the mood, and suggest we come up with a safeword so we both know when "no" means "NO/STOP!"

My husband and I use "yellow" for "Stop for a minute, I need to check in with you," and "red" or "safeword" for "I've reached my limit/I'm done for the night/I'm being harmed."

You should also discuss any limits (on both sides) and other things that might be important to your wellbeing.

You know your wife, but most couples generally don't need to discuss when roleplay will take place once they've established a safeword and limits. You could always ask her if she'd like to know or plan when you're going to play together, or prefer for it to be a surprise.

We have a great sex life but do not discuss anything sexual unless we are involved

Um, when are you two NOT involved in your sex life as a couple?

Sorry I can't perform these services on anyone but my ultra hot wife.

You're being bombarded with requests, eh?

And, it'd be wonderful if you'd try to break your posts into easy-to-read paragraphs of several lines of mostly relevant information. You'll get a lot more responses if people don't have to trudge through a massive paragraph of stuff that has little or nothing to do with your actual question(s).

 

[vegas husband]

thanks for the advice,

SORRY, please forget original comments.

 

[wicked woman]

Maybe someone can give some input that would be helpful, maybe someone that enjoys rough play with their lover,
If it is too hard to read just please pass over my material.
Not looking for a critique from some lesbian literature teacher.
Anyone else who has comments they would be gladly received.

ooooo big mistake guy...huge. You'll see how counterproductive that post was.

 

[necroerotica]

Maybe someone can give some input that would be helpful, maybe someone that enjoys rough play with their lover,
If it is too hard to read just please pass over my material.
Not looking for a critique from some lesbian literature teacher.
Anyone else who has comments they would be gladly received.

The point being, if your post is difficult to read (and I'm sorry, but it is) then why should anyone bother to help you, if you can't be bothered to make the effort in the first place?

On your own advice, most people would be passing over it.

*shrug*

 

[DrHappy]

Maybe someone can give some input that would be helpful, maybe someone that enjoys rough play with their lover,
If it is too hard to read just please pass over my material.
Not looking for a critique from some lesbian literature teacher.
Anyone else who has comments they would be gladly received.

We have another category for the Guest Lit Type thread: the JackAss. Does someone have time to add this one?

 

[Bobmi357]

Maybe someone can give some input that would be helpful, maybe someone that enjoys rough play with their lover,
If it is too hard to read just please pass over my material.
Not looking for a critique from some lesbian literature teacher.
Anyone else who has comments they would be gladly received.

I'm so pleased you've asked for comments.

Concerning your first post, here's a clue. HIT THE ENTER KEY ONCE IN A WHILE. There is nothing harder to read than a massive block of text. God invented paragraphs for a reason.

And a bonus clue. Buy your wife a strap on and give her permission to repeat the performance on you.

Now in regard to your second posting (see above quoted if you're too dumb to remember what you posted).

There are few ways on lit that you can really screw up, and you picked the best way by insulting someone.

I really don't think you'll find much in the way of useful and usable comments after this post. Hell all things considered, you could just shoot yourself, or at least go create a new account and pretend you've never heard of the first account.

I would like everyone to note that no lesbian literature teachers were harmed during the creation of this message.

 

[SweetErika]

Maybe someone can give some input that would be helpful, maybe someone that enjoys rough play with their lover,
If it is too hard to read just please pass over my material.
Not looking for a critique from some lesbian literature teacher.
Anyone else who has comments they would be gladly received.

You got helpful advice from someone who enjoys rough play.

You also got some helpful advice on how to get more helpful advice from people who enjoy rough play.

You even thanked me for said advice in the subject line of your post!

Oh, and I love women, but the man I happily share my bed and life with would beg to differ on your assertion that I'm a lesbian.

I'm sure he'd say you're a homophobic idiot, though.

 

[Bacetti]

You got helpful advice from someone who enjoys rough play.

You also got some helpful advice on how to get more helpful advice from people who enjoy rough play.

You even thanked me for said advice in the subject line of your post!

Oh, and I love women, but the man I happily share my bed and life with would beg to differ on your assertion that I'm a lesbian.

I'm sure he'd say you're a homophobic idiot, though.

I see no need to qualifiy the 'idiot' title with homophobic. He's just an idiot.

(from a lurker on this board...)

 

[SpencerAlanMacLeod]

The vegas husband method:

What on earth were you thinking? I mean, really! You ask for input and comments about a very short sequence. When you get them, you’re disrespectful in an ignorant and foolish manner. Your original post had some raw passion in it but it was nothing to write home about, in fact, it was rather hazy. Are you trying to get advice on real activities? Or are you trying to get advice on writing? What is it that you want at a forum that is all about helping others to write? Did you even bother to access the personal profile of the people who gave you advice? Or did you just “shoot from the hip”? If you were a manly man, you’d publically apologize to both the people who tried to help, as well as, lesbian literature teachers in general. Oh, and by the way, I have a hot wife too. The advice you got from SweetErica is the same basic advice one gives a raw and inexperienced stripling who doesn’t know how to pleasure his wife. Notice how difficult it is to read this one block of constant words.

This is what happens when it’s divided into paragraphs:

What on earth were you thinking? I mean, really!

You ask for input and comments about a very short sequence. When you get them, you’re disrespectful in an ignorant and foolish manner.

Your original post had some raw passion in it but it was nothing to write home about, in fact, it was rather hazy.

Are you trying to get advice on real activities? Or are you trying to get advice on writing? What is it that you want at a forum that is all about helping others to write?

Did you even bother to access the personal profile of the people who gave you advice? Or did you just “shoot from the hip”?

If you were a manly man, you’d publically apologize to both the people who tried to help, as well as, lesbian literature teachers in general.

Oh, and by the way, I have a hot wife too. The advice you got from SweetErica is the same basic advice one gives a raw and inexperienced stripling who doesn’t know how to pleasure his wife.

Notice how much easier on the eyes it is to read this same sequence of words when it is divided up into paragraphs.

It is rather hard on the pride but then you messed up.

 

[INeedLove]

You got helpful advice from someone who enjoys rough play.

You also got some helpful advice on how to get more helpful advice from people who enjoy rough play.

You even thanked me for said advice in the subject line of your post!

Oh, and I love women, but the man I happily share my bed and life with would beg to differ on your assertion that I'm a lesbian.

I'm sure he'd say you're a homophobic idiot, though.

At the risk of sounding like a 70's reject "Right on Sister!!"



Vegashusband, when you post a thread, you are opening your situation up to the world wide web. If you can't take ideas or criticism, then you should stay in lurk mode permanently. SweetErika has given lots of really good advice. She doesn't have to respond to anyone yet she takes her time to respond to yours (with good ideas) and you insult her? Not cool!

 

[TBKahuna123]

Maybe someone can give some input that would be helpful, maybe someone that enjoys rough play with their lover,
If it is too hard to read just please pass over my material.
Not looking for a critique from some lesbian literature teacher.
Anyone else who has comments they would be gladly received.

Holy shit dude, what more can you ask for? Erika's post was probably the most non-judgemental practical post you could have hoped for. What were you expecting, "just tie her up and fuck her til she squeals?"

Non-Consentual fantasies are just that, fantasies. it's really easy for a woman to fantasize about being taken forcefully and powerfully, about engaging in a sexual battle of primal desires, but in actual practice? The fact is most animal species coupling is more combative than ours. Deep inside the female instinct is to mate with the strongest male, thus she fights to make sure the male is strong enough to sire her children. Before that combat even beings however, she has already agreed to his advances.

This is the root of most non-consentual fantasies. No woman dreams of being grabbed and raped in a dark alley, but most have at some point dreamt of being dominated by a man they aren't strong enough to fight off, even though they dont' really want to. The point is, even as she is fighting him off she has already agreed to his advances, because she indeed wants him on some level or another. That is WHY it is important to talk to your wife about these fantasies and to set boundaries, have a safeword. Without the safeword, without her knowing what is going on, you risk stumbling into the arena of true rape, not a resistive yet consensual encounter. That's NOT where these kind of fantasies derive from or should lead. All that's down that road is abuse of trust.

So step back and listen to Erika's advice. If you're looking for strictly validation go to the GB. If you want real advice from Real women who really know what they are talking about, then this is the place.

 

[Mr.G]

Holy shit dude, what more can you ask for? Erika's post was probably the most non-judgemental practical post you could have hoped for.

And are consistently throughout this site. And I thought I was a caustic prick sometimes! HA.

The other thing is your erotic descriptions have no place in a sensible question. If I read a question from a poster who is asking for advice on how to turn on his lover - you DO NOT need to tell me you're so horny writing this that your dick is leaking like a syphilitic camel. Makles me want to hose my laptop down with some Javex. Yuck.

If you want to write porn go to the story site and lay your blocks of letters down there. You'll probably get the same crits over there as you did here. Lesbians school marmes are like that. Neat paragraphs and no spelling mistakes or you get your knuckles wrapped. As far as everybody else is concerned you're just another caustic dick with no manners and NO writing talent either.

 

[Eilan]

I started to read this thread when it was first posted, but I hit the Back button because I thought I'd taken a wrong turn and ended up at Letters to Penthouse. Guess I missed out.

Sorry I can't perform these services on anyone but my ultra hot wife.

After reading your second comment in this thread, I can assure you that other Lit ladies don't give a flying fuck about your "services."

 

[SweetErika]

I see no need to qualifiy the 'idiot' title with homophobic. He's just an idiot.

(from a lurker on this board...)

Perhaps not, but I take offense to 'lesbian' being used pejoratively. The only reason I can see someone adding 'lesbian' in there is that they think it's an insult, which makes them homophobic, or at least prejudiced against lesbians, in my mind.

And a prejudiced or homophobic idiot is worse than the garden-variety idiot, IMO.

The advice you got from SweetErica is the same basic advice one gives a raw and inexperienced stripling who doesn’t know how to pleasure his wife.

Just to clarify, I did not make a judgement on how much/little vegashusband knows about pleasing his wife, and my advice was aimed more at him not harming his wife more than anything else.

Safewords and trying out positions aren't necessarily things the average, non-kinky person knows, in my experience. I'd give that advice to anyone who gave me the impression they were newer at riskier activities or needed it, regardless of how great of a lover or experienced in other ways I imagined them to be. When we're dealing with edgier stuff (at least to non-kinky people), it's better to be safe than sorry by giving the advice, IMO.

 

[bobsgirl]

So step back and listen to Erika's advice. If you're looking for strictly validation go to the GB. If you want real advice from Real women who really know what they are talking about, then this is the place.

I really hope he takes this to the GB, I really do. They'd have a field day with this guy.

 

[SpencerAlanMacLeod]

...

Just to clarify, I did not make a judgement on how much/little vegashusband knows about pleasing his wife, and my advice was aimed more at him not harming his wife more than anything else.

Safewords and trying out positions aren't necessarily things the average, non-kinky person knows, in my experience. I'd give that advice to anyone who gave me the impression they were newer at riskier activities or needed it, regardless of how great of a lover or experienced in other ways I imagined them to be. When we're dealing with edgier stuff (at least to non-kinky people), it's better to be safe than sorry by giving the advice, IMO.

This is just to clarify what SweetErica says and how appropriate it is to use safewords (very, in my opinion). I used her advice about safewords because they were already posted on this thread.

vegas husband, you came onto an erotic story forum and started a thread about a "non consent" story. This would indicate that safewords would be a necessary part of that play (in real time).

Your original post is rather hazy on whether you are asking about the story or the activity, so I addressed both. Your response to her was rude and so was mine to you.

 

[HornyHenry]

Vegas bitch

Don't fuck with sweet Erica.
She's twice the woman you'll ever be.

Come back when you can be nicer and spell and write coherent sentences.

 

[Eilan]

My question is how do I decide which night to do this?

Tuesdays are always good for my husband and me. YMMV, though.

Do I talk to her about it?

Fuck, no. Communication is for yellabellies.

We have a great sex life but do not discuss anything sexual unless we are involved.

Uh, what?

Do i just assume she will like it or should I ask her about it.

Assumptions are hawt. She'll like what you tell her to like. Trust me.

or send her an email.

If you can afford postage, snail mail's the way to go.

 

[vegas husband]

apology

That is some serious support for Sweet erika and I offer her an apology and will attempt to remove my comments.
Thank you for offering the advice and I will attempt to utilize what you were trying to get across to me.
I guess I am an asshole.
Sorry.

 

[Reba67]

I didn't even survive reading through the post, even with paragraph breaks. We don't need a play by play of sex with your wife. Break it down to the question you have and ask it.