nothing sexual but how to dance?

[crazy_sexy_cute]

One word --> Tequila

It'll make a dancer out of anyone.

Honestly, just try and have fun . A smile can turn a 'bad dancer' into a good one

 

[randy4123]

Agreed!

I agree with crazy_sexy_cute... Tequila usually does the trick! Though "how much" is always the million dollar question. But it you don't drink... maybe give this a whirl: http://now.msn.com/korean-horse-workout-machine-is-hilarious

 

[blksoldier]

just dance

i never learned so now i feel out of place at parties. kind of a let down!

dancing is about you and letting go confidence and practice is the key. the more you practice the more confident you will grow. express youself and stop worrying about others its about you.

 

[Paul_Chance]

Basics, Basics, Basics

Lacking friends, brothers, sisters, or cousins to teach you to dance, try a recreational dance class or google basic or simple dance moves. If you sit and watch most social dancers (at clubs or events), you'll notice most of them have a very limited range of moves - sometimes only two or three that they repeat endlessly, regardless of the song. If you haven't got anyone willing to show you the basics, check YouTube for basic or simple dance moves for guys. Then, turn on the stereo and practice. I learned to dance at a very young age, from my sisters and brothers, and it has always been a great part of my social life, and it's a great ice breaker in strange places.

YouTube - Simple Dance Moves for Guys
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HUr8Qek6cgk

 

[englishrose360]

just have a go...

Unless you're looking to learn a style of dance then i'm not sure how much help lessons would be, other than possibly giving you a confidence boost.

I bet that none of those folks you see dancing have 'learnt' to do it, they just kind of had a go and then found their own way of moving.

Stick some music on in the house, your favourite tunes, turn up the volume, put on a pair of heels...i can't dance in flats....some would say i can't dance at all.....and then prance around your living room having fun, bounce, fling your arms about, bend your knees in time to the music, move your feet around a bit, keep your arms relaxed and just have some fun. Find what feels natural to you, have a good old sing along on your feet and you'll be dancing in no time at all.

At the next party take a good hard look at what people are actually doing when they dance....i can guarantee that they aren't doing anything special, most of them will be stepping from foot to foot with a bounce, a huge smile and flapping, pointing arms.....there are no rules at parties, you just do what feels good and after a few drinks it all starts to look good too.

Having fun is the key, having confidence (or faking it for a while!) will get you out there and then once you start and realise that it's all ok you won't want to stop. The only person that ever looks awkward on a dance floor is the person tentatively standing and barely moving.

'Dance like nobody's watching' is the best advise in the world, and even though they might be....dance like you just don't care