Nut Nightly November

Are you doing No Nut November


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I went for a month after a surgery. It was horrible!!!!! But, the day I was cleared was very... fun 😁

I had major abdominal surgery earlier this year and realized after the fact that while I was told I wasn’t supposed to have sex, I forgot to ask about orgasms 🤦‍♀️ I was concerned about internal damage the entire time I got myself off that first time 🤭

I specifically asked about orgasms at my pre-op before my hysterectomy... No penetration for 8 weeks... no orgasms for 3 weeks.

I felt PERFECTLY fine after one week... those 2 more weeks sucked!!!

Lol, I did ask! "Are we worried about penetrative sex, or are you assuming I cum from penetrative sex?" Yup, orgasms. No orgasm...for six weeks. I healed so well I was cleared after 4 weeks. That first one, good lord was I afraid I'd pop an internal stitch!
After my second uterine surgery, I was told to wait a month before any kind of penetration. Should have been a breeze, considering FL ex-BF and I were still long-distance at the time and planning to move in together 3 months after my recovery. Problem was, he was being overly-cautious and wouldn’t even play online for fear of making me hurt myself. It was torture! 2 weeks or so in, I finally convinced him with articles that showed it could actually help alleviate the post-op cramping. He caved that once, then went back to being overly cautious. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Despite his caution, I think it was actually harder for him than it was for me. About 2 days before I would have gotten the all-clear from my Dr, he asked me to move in with him 3 months earlier than planned.

I doubt that the comments about yucking someone’s yum was directed at you. However, you suggesting someone not be on the site because they chose to say something about repeatedly being directly quoted and called out for their yum is super off track. There is a general no yucking someone else’s yum vibe to lit.

Choosing to come into a space and change the vibe in a non playful or fun way is yucky. This is clearly supposed to be a silly fun thread fingers crossed we can all keep it that way.
Okay, but like…the guy I have blocked and several other people just blocked…we can yuck THAT yum, right?!
 
From what I am reading here, I now demand a month where it's all orgasms for women all the time. Like, can we do that during Women's History Month? Or sooner?

But yes, hearing all of these things is disheartening. Why don't they care? We have super interesting bodies and hormones and genitalia and shit too! (And yes, from a historical perspective, I get it. However, from the perspective of curiosity about the world around you...)
 
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