OK Ladies, We want your input.

[Inna]

I love sex. And most of the time I want naughty and fun. No pain.. just wet and steamy. Once in a great while tender love making.... for the most part I'll take hot sex over any other.

 

[ewopper]

I personally like both sides of the coin. I like to be romanced, because I find that many times it's in those sweet tender moments that you learn the most about your partner. However, that being said there are just as many, if not more, times that I would like to be fucked raw, until I can't stand up anymore and the room starts spinning. If I had to choose which to have a steady diet of, I would say the rough, animal sex because I like that feeling of uncontrollable passion and need. Does this answer your question?

yes it does, most certainly and thanks

 

[ewopper]

why do you say "most" women? None of the women I know want that all the time. I know I sure don't.
I like a good fucking yes, but I'm a romantic at heart and need... even crave... tender, loving moments of making
love. If there is no romance, then I have to walk.

You must have found my journals and read them on the type of woman I most likely want to be with [ grin ]

 

[ewopper]

if you know any of them in england, will you send them my way please

Sorry I don't know any guys anywhere more romantic than me and that's too much water to drink to swim over ther [grin]. but if you're ever in Baltimore or DC let me know I'm only a couple of hours away

 

[sinnamongyrl]

well once in while i like it sweet and tender,,BUT most of the times i just wanna be SLAMMED,,throw me on the bed,pull my hair,slap my ass and DRILL ME,,,,,(no name calling,,,,weird but it is an INSTANT turn off),,,,,just all of that passion is beautiful to me......

 

[ewopper]

well once in while i like it sweet and tender,,BUT most of the times i just wanna be SLAMMED,,throw me on the bed,pull my hair,slap my ass and DRILL ME,,,,,(no name calling,,,,weird but it is an INSTANT turn off),,,,,just all of that passion is beautiful to me......

what about dirty talk??

 

[sinnamongyrl]

what about dirty talk??

dirty talk is fine,,BUT i just have a problem with the name calling some people like,,,,DONT call me slut when you are fucking me,,,,,,,dont know why i am like that though

 

[ewopper]

dirty talk is fine,,BUT i just have a problem with the name calling some people like,,,,DONT call me slut when you are fucking me,,,,,,,dont know why i am like that though

No need to apologize, everyone has preferences and yours are fine, if your lover can't understand that then he's the loser. besides in my opinion loving wild sex doesn't make you anything but who you are a passionate woman. on the other hand those that like to be called those names, that's what they like, I can't judge them either I just prefer the dirty talk without the name calling

 

[ewopper]

I prefer sex to be, well, dirty. It doesn't mean I dislike the emotional attachment of romance, but let's face it, if sex was always soft and sweet it would get stale pretty quickly.

On the other hand if sex is always... as you put it dirty, it doesn't grow stale or is being slam fucked an addiction? things that make you go hmmmmm.

 

[Suznbaby]

Variety...

I think that old saying "Variety is the Spice of Life" kinda sums it up. There are moments when there is nothing better then that hard and fast..got to have it NOW kinda sex..you know the clothes ripping off...rough touches, nips..mmmmm Then there are thos times that the kissing and the touching and the licking that lead to it is soft and sweet...

 

[vibes]

I think that old saying "Variety is the Spice of Life" kinda sums it up. There are moments when there is nothing better then that hard and fast..got to have it NOW kinda sex..you know the clothes ripping off...rough touches, nips..mmmmm Then there are thos times that the kissing and the touching and the licking that lead to it is soft and sweet...

that's a pretty accurate way to turn me on, suz

 

[Suznbaby]

that's a pretty accurate way to turn me on, suz

Lol..and just think what I could do if I were trying to turn you on..

 

[LucyLush]

We are being polite!

 

[ewopper]

so is rough sex prefered over romance

What is the most wanted...inquiring woppers wanna know?? I've heard so many females say we don't take the time to understand them, tell us which do you prefer and how far is too far

 

[Loralye345]

I want both

Why do most women who say they want to be romanced would prefer to be slam fucked or twisted in positions their bodies was never intended to be twisted, and have their heads banged against headbords. Is that romantic or not. Inquiring woppers wanna know

I it all depends on the day and the mood. I usually clue my partner in on what the mood is. If it's been a hard day at work I may want a good slam fest to work out the frustrations. A good day at work and I may want cuddling. Weekends are usually play time where we act out fantasys.
I think this helps the relationship stay fresh, it's never the same old boring you touch here, I touch there oh yeah and it's over.

 

[raven2]

I it all depends on the day and the mood. I usually clue my partner in on what the mood is. If it's been a hard day at work I may want a good slam fest to work out the frustrations. A good day at work and I may want cuddling. Weekends are usually play time where we act out fantasys.
I think this helps the relationship stay fresh, it's never the same old boring you touch here, I touch there oh yeah and it's over.

My wife is the same way. Sometimes she likes gentle and romantic and other times as hard and fast as she can get. Variety is the spice of life.

 

[BadBombshellBabe]

hmmm...you want an answer that reveals what women prefer more often??

speaking only for myself, i like the tender intimate stuff outside of the bedroom...and, rough, hair-pulling, dirty-talking, hard, fucking in the bedroom (or where ever).

the romantic, loving part of a relationship has to be present for the down and dirty sex to work...even if it isn't during sex. and for me, if prefer that it's not.

 

[montrealgirl]

Unfortunately, there is no hard and fast rule when it comes to sex/making love.

I think that should read, Fortunately, there is no hard and fast rule when it comes to sex/making love.

What I want and need changes from day to day, mood to mood....no rules necessary...Some days I may want to just lay and kiss for hours, others be thrown over a table and fucked hard in the ass...

There is no real preference one over the other, just what feels right for both people at the time...

 

[darkpassions81]

I think that should read, Fortunately, there is no hard and fast rule when it comes to sex/making love.

What I want and need changes from day to day, mood to mood....no rules necessary...Some days I may want to just lay and kiss for hours, others be thrown over a table and fucked hard in the ass...

There is no real preference one over the other, just what feels right for both people at the time...

I'd have to agree with this... as much as I don't like to encourage MG.... (wink)... Besides, it's much better to make it different. The challenge, the rediscovery aspects. The contrast from a hand holding day, a cuddling on the couch under the covers with pop-corn day, the passionate sex day... the day when she totally takes control of you and makes you submit to her, the day she dawns the pony tails and short skirt and no panties day... the day that you play "repairman", oh the the fucking hard in the ass day.... (WOOO!)

 

[montrealgirl]

I'd have to agree with this... as much as I don't like to encourage MG.... (wink)... Besides, it's much better to make it different. The challenge, the rediscovery aspects. The contrast from a hand holding day, a cuddling on the couch under the covers with pop-corn day, the passionate sex day... the day when she totally takes control of you and makes you submit to her, the day she dawns the pony tails and short skirt and no panties day... the day that you play "repairman", oh the the fucking hard in the ass day.... (WOOO!)

Your writing about all these types of days is definitely encouraging me

 

[strawberryangel]

Why do most women who say they want to be romanced would prefer to be slam fucked or twisted in positions their bodies was never intended to be twisted, and have their heads banged against headbords. Is that romantic or not. Inquiring woppers wanna know

a little bit of both please....

 

[darkpassions81]

Your writing about all these types of days is definitely encouraging me

Was it something I said?

 

[montrealgirl]

Was it something I said?

oh you little strumpet...

 

[Blushing Bottom]

Why do most women who say they want to be romanced would prefer to be slam fucked or twisted in positions their bodies was never intended to be twisted, and have their heads banged against headbords. Is that romantic or not. Inquiring woppers wanna know

Romance is in the eye of the headbanger...or is it bangee? Whichever the case in my opinion romance is the foreplay and post coitus after-glow. Everyhing else in the middle is raw unadulrated head-banging, body-twisting sex.

 

[ewopper]

Romance is in the eye of the headbanger...or is it bangee? Whichever the case in my opinion romance is the foreplay and post coitus after-glow. Everyhing else in the middle is raw unadulrated head-banging, body-twisting sex.

I can get to that