Masculine cocksucker problems...

[Fred2575]

I only ever meet up with men to suck their cocks, and I'm often told it's really strange that an extremely masculine guy doesn't want any reciprocation. I don't see why this should be so strange.

The other thing... and my real complaint... almost all the guys I've met really get off on the idea of degrading me and making me submit... specifically because I'm masculine! I haven't sucked cock in months, because... when I meet men this is usually the kind of thing I get...

The last time, the guy told me I had to sit on my hands the whole time, pinned up against a wall, and then held my head and hate-fucked my throat hard while telling me how good it felt to make me his bitch. The only things he wanted to hear were me begging him to slam my throat or how desperate I was to for his cum... and then had me beg him to face fuck me again with his cum all over my face...

This is kind of my usual experience... I'm sucking cock while a man calls me his slut or whatever, and he forced control over the whole thing... Is this just how this goes for masculine guys who don't want reciprocation?

My problem isn't that I mind being used like this, if I did I wouldn't keep doing it! I enjoy feeling slutty and if I'm in the mood I love having a man act powerfully and use me, face fucking me and making me feel like I am a toy for his pleasure... that whole scenario is a huge turn on, but there are times... a lot of times, really... that I really want to suck cock but don't even look to meet someone because I want to slowly, sensually taste and tease a nice cock...

I'd suck cock A LOT more if I could find men that want me to really enjoy sucking their cock and would just lean back and let me act like the slut they love to tell me I am!!

One time... just once, I hooked up with a guy who wanted to relax and let me make out with his cock... it was so sexy and slutty and... I talked dirty and moaned and... it was the sloppiest and wettest blowjob I can imagine, and... I've never had such an amazing, intense sexual experience!!

It's also the only time I've ever even thought of giving in and putting the possibility of more than a blowjob out there. My ass is always strictly off limits and I made it clear to this guy beforehand when he asked (and he was fine with that), but... I got so turned on and felt so sexy and slutty devouring his dick that I asked if he still wanted my ass. When he said yes, I begged him to fuck me... he started fingering me and my moaning with him in my mouth pushed him over, so it didn't happen, but... that's how amazing being able to really enjoy sucking cock was!! It was so good, so sexy, so slutty... for the only time, I wasn't just willing to let a man fuck my ass for the first time, but I was literally desperate for it and begging him to fuck me bare and breed me!!! I felt so sexy and slutty I wanted him to fuck me like a real slut!!!

Why does being masculine mean I'm not allowed to moan and tease and be sexy while I swallow??? I want so, so badly to have another experience that sexy!! Why can't I find men who want me to really treat their cocks right??

I've found that for many bi men especially, but gay men too. Their desire for M/M sex is a threat to their masculinity, so when they meet a masculine guy for sex they have to emasculate him as much as possible. It's a huge turn off for me. I look like a lumberjack. Insecure men try that same crap, I've learned to weed then out, theres always a tell or two.

 

[HotWifeOC]

I imagine me sucking a horny dick until he pulls out of my mouth and squirts the back half of his load on my naked, throbbing weenie. Then he drops down on it and sucks me off and we are both satisfied finishing with our wet kiss.

 

[Cumpup39]

This. Lot's of guys get off sexually dominating another guy, and making him their "Bitch." It's very hot, as long as he is ok with it.

I’m more than ok with being a man’s bitch!

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I’m more than ok with being a man’s bitch!

Me to! Years ago a guy told me that I was nothing but a bitch boi and I accepted that.

 

[txfuncouple]

I only ever meet up with men to suck their cocks, and I'm often told it's really strange that an extremely masculine guy doesn't want any reciprocation. I don't see why this should be so strange.

The other thing... and my real complaint... almost all the guys I've met really get off on the idea of degrading me and making me submit... specifically because I'm masculine! I haven't sucked cock in months, because... when I meet men this is usually the kind of thing I get...

The last time, the guy told me I had to sit on my hands the whole time, pinned up against a wall, and then held my head and hate-fucked my throat hard while telling me how good it felt to make me his bitch. The only things he wanted to hear were me begging him to slam my throat or how desperate I was to for his cum... and then had me beg him to face fuck me again with his cum all over my face...

This is kind of my usual experience... I'm sucking cock while a man calls me his slut or whatever, and he forced control over the whole thing... Is this just how this goes for masculine guys who don't want reciprocation?

My problem isn't that I mind being used like this, if I did I wouldn't keep doing it! I enjoy feeling slutty and if I'm in the mood I love having a man act powerfully and use me, face fucking me and making me feel like I am a toy for his pleasure... that whole scenario is a huge turn on, but there are times... a lot of times, really... that I really want to suck cock but don't even look to meet someone because I want to slowly, sensually taste and tease a nice cock...

I'd suck cock A LOT more if I could find men that want me to really enjoy sucking their cock and would just lean back and let me act like the slut they love to tell me I am!!

One time... just once, I hooked up with a guy who wanted to relax and let me make out with his cock... it was so sexy and slutty and... I talked dirty and moaned and... it was the sloppiest and wettest blowjob I can imagine, and... I've never had such an amazing, intense sexual experience!!

It's also the only time I've ever even thought of giving in and putting the possibility of more than a blowjob out there. My ass is always strictly off limits and I made it clear to this guy beforehand when he asked (and he was fine with that), but... I got so turned on and felt so sexy and slutty devouring his dick that I asked if he still wanted my ass. When he said yes, I begged him to fuck me... he started fingering me and my moaning with him in my mouth pushed him over, so it didn't happen, but... that's how amazing being able to really enjoy sucking cock was!! It was so good, so sexy, so slutty... for the only time, I wasn't just willing to let a man fuck my ass for the first time, but I was literally desperate for it and begging him to fuck me bare and breed me!!! I felt so sexy and slutty I wanted him to fuck me like a real slut!!!

Why does being masculine mean I'm not allowed to moan and tease and be sexy while I swallow??? I want so, so badly to have another experience that sexy!! Why can't I find men who want me to really treat their cocks right??

You could almost me my twin, lol. I’m happily married to a wonderful wife that has a kink for M/M sex. Not degrading or thinking I’m less if a man for wanting a nice cock in my mouth as she participates or watches. I don’t mind her exploring or being fucked by another cock with me and definitely have no barriers or objections to anything she wants to see me do. And if that person begins to degrade myself or my wife, that’s a hard stop on all the action and you’ll be leaving and it’ll never happen again.

I prefer sucking without reciprocation as well. Not into kissing, making out, etc. Just pull that cock out and let me go to work. I have a wife to make out with. Words of encouragement are fine, but don’t try and degrade me for blowing you. Just enjoy my oral talents and reward them with a big load of cum at the end.

So I guess there’s two versions-with my wife we’ll do anything she wants in any combination and all enjoy ourselves. If you come over and I end up sucking your cock, just let me go to work and enjoy it. I definitely get off going down and don’t need mine sucked as well. Sure, maybe sometimes you can return the favor but think of it as another way to get off with someone else doing the work for you.

So what works for us is to look at another cock as a sex toy that actually cums and we get to play with it and enjoy it however we want. No relationship, no hang ups, just fun. We have mind blowing sex together, sometimes we just like to add another cock to satisfy some kinks and suck and fuck with it.

 

[sftopbottom]

I find that cocks are attached to people, and each person is turned on or off by different things. That's the beauty of sexuality. There's an exciting journey/exploration built in.

It's rare to find a person who wants the exact thing in the exact way that you do.

We can choose to become frustrated. Or, another option is to communicate, and do the give-and-take dance. It's not entirely about what you want...and it's not entirely about his wants, either.

While it's true that a lot of men will assume that a guy on his knees is more submissive and might want to be dominated, it's also true that if someone is willing to suck your cock, you will most likely let that person suck you in whatever way he wants. Most guys are not going to put their dicks away if you tell them to just chill.

"That's not really my thing," goes a long way. So does, "You know what I'd really
like to do?"