Old geezers like me

Have your testosterone level tested. If it's low it can be addressed via a creme, patch, or weekly injection. The injection is the least expensive and works the best for most people. DHEA taken orally also works for some people.
 
crazybbwgirl said:
Having never been on a low fat diet (obviously!) I must say my sex drive is a ok! My lover - 50 yr. old bald man - is perkier than I am. He's always horny, hard, willing and able - he's never cut a gram of fat out of his diet either. (although bald men have higher testoserone levels - at least one who've been bald since high school - I'm not sure about male pattern baldness?) hmmmmmm, wouldn't that just be poetic justice? Only old fat people can enjoy sex! lol

Yes! I found my mate very perky originally also lol.
 
docisin said:
I'm approaching middle age (48), and are there any middle-aged men (or older) who have noticed a decrease in sex-drive? If so, do you do anything about it? I have Viagra, and that gives good wood, but I'm talking about the DRIVE and interest that no pill can give. Hey, thanks!


I'm 56.....date ladies my age......and have been using Viagra for 2 years. Viagra itself works so-so. Too much food or a drink or two will mess things up besides the time interval problem, so I hope the next Viagra-like replacement works better....there's room for improvement!

Now, for my sex drive.......I do find that I need an aggressive eager lover......one who is verbal with me, one who is into stroking and caressing, even pinching and giving me the attentive stimulation feedback it takes to stay hard, but that's all it takes.
 
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Emerald_eyed said:
Will licking, blowing and sucking work??


Sorry.....what were we talking about? Im all flustered now



:p Best damn offer I have had inna long time, Ee!


Yes those things, to. Mainly, she hasta be engaged and active with me or my drive peters out (excuse the pun)
 
recovery time

I am on the other side of 50 and I notice recovery time is now measured in hours not minutes. As far as drive is concerned the best recommendation is a hot woman who loves and craves sex not just a woman who has sex.
When you find her, treasure her well as she is worth her weight in gold.
Good Luck,
David
 
What about masturbation? (Yeah, what about it?) Seriously, do people find that masturbation increases sex drive, or diminishes it? For example, I know that I'll be having sex with my girl friend this weekend, so I have consciously not masturbated the entire week. But for some reason, the less I jack off, the less I think about it........sheeeeittt!
 
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Emerald_eyed said:
Well that is never a problem, in a sexual setting, I cant keep my hands, or mouth off the guy.



Something just tells me I'd have a prepetual, teenager's hard on with you Sweet Green lady. You are my dream.

Life is so, so cruel........my teenage years were full of unwelcomed, unused, wasted even, hard ons.......now they'd be most welcome.
 
You're only as old...

Hey Doc, do you take vitamins? They help me. Stress or being
down about something is a dead - on libido killer.

Allison484 - you go girl!
Sheath...50 here and amen.
y=mx+b, I'll be dead and still trying to look up those skirts.
Emerald Eye - We all know that you're just sassy.

Sometimes the harder you try, the softer it gets. ;)
 
But I am sure that when the day comes I will long for the "good ole days", bla'd bla bla bla.

Well, Y=mx+b, like Steve Winwood once said, don't worry too much, it'll happen to you.

I had the same thing happen to me in my late 40s. It was very frustrating having the same thoughts going through my mind but my body not responding--as bad as trying to open up an application that you can see right there on your desktop and finding that the .exe part has been corrupted or is missing. I told my gynecologist and he added Estratest to the mix of HRTs I'm taking and it works just like it's supposed to. On side effect is occasional zits.

Recently I've noticed a slowdown in my husband. I have to do more of the work to get him going; also, it takes him longer to get started again after he's got off once. However it hasn't gotten to the point where he feels he needs any medical solutions for it.
 
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PinkOrchid said:
Just a thought, but instead of jacking off to orgasm, what about jacking off until you are a bit aroused, then stopping before you come? Then you'll keep thinking about it but wthout having blown your load, so to speak.

Admittedly & unabashedly, that's where I've been all night!

Such such such the glorious feeling!;)
 
Originally posted by Lust Engine
Admittedly & unabashedly, that's where I've been all night!

Such such such the glorious feeling!;)


I'm in my 50's. My sex drive had remained at the same level for years. But about a year ago my wife convinced me to start taking vitamins - lots and lots of vitamins.

Almost immediately I discovered that I was horny ALL THE TIME. I don't think I was like this when I was 20. Well, maybe 40.

The bad news is, the vitamins didn't have the same effect on my wife. :(:D
 
Sex drive

I am a lady of years, so to speak. I can tell you something you already know. Viagra can make it a slam dunk, everytime for men.
It won't give you the desires, though. You must supply them yourself.
Take your lady friend, find romance, eroticism done with that special lady can be most enjoyable. As far as not jacking off before hand, just so you can follow thru, it sets you up to fail.
You deny yourself pleasures, for that momentous big sex date.

Then feel let down.

Have you ever thought about masturbating, with her? Do something outside of the box, so to speak. Your physical being will
follow thru, when your mental being, is fed with eroticism.

I am a very hands on type of lover, needing nothing more than to
'rock the world of my man':D
 
RE:pink

You could take me places I've never been before...well maybe
once or twise. Luv to go there again though. :D
 
PinkOrchid said:
Just a thought, but instead of jacking off to orgasm, what about jacking off until you are a bit aroused, then stopping before you come? Then you'll keep thinking about it but wthout having blown your load, so to speak.
That's a great idea PinkOrchid. It comes down to the old adage... "use it or lose it." But by masturbating to orgasm desire is satisfied. So keep the desire alive by being perpetually aroused.

Stroke it baby, but don't let it blow!

btw.... at 49yrs, I'm planning on being middle aged one day. ;)
 
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