On The Flipside....What DON'T you like???

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With all the talk about what people like, I know people have a few things that they don't like to be done to them.

For me I don't really like when a woman fondles my balls. It just feels very uncomfortable and doesn't feel right.

I'm also very tickleish, so some women I've been with try to go overboard with tickleing me...... which is a no no.

Feel free to share if you have things you don't like.....
 
Fingering. It just doesn't do anything for me--I dry right up and it hurts. Which is sometimes the point, granted.
 
I'm not real fond of being on top. The pressure can hurt sometimes if he's lying flat. If he's sitting up a bit, it feels better, but for the most part, I prefer to be on the bottom or on my hands and knees, or bent over the bed or arm of the couch.
 
I generally don't like quickies. I enjoy the buildup and the foreplay and her body. An unexpected quicky every now and then when time is short or we are both bothered is fun but I definately don't like it to be the norm!
 
I don't like wet tongues in my ear, don't like sloppy kisses when I am not in the mood for them. I don't like being picked up and moved without warning and being asked. I don't like having my clothes removed off without my consent.

there that is a start...
 
Actually I don't like being called another woman's name at the time I am ready to orgasm:rolleyes:
 
Oh boy, what a question......

Hmmmm things I don't like.

Mood breakers are a big item with me. I hate mood breakers.
 
I don't like ... hmm...come to think of it, there's not much that, when done by a skilled lover, I don't like.
 
Annora said:
Actually I don't like being called another woman's name at the time I am ready to orgasm:rolleyes:

*lol* Amen to that! :)

I don't like quickies, I like a long slow build up with lots of teasing and tormenting.

:rose: Mistress Tae :rose:
 
Annora said:
Actually I don't like being called another woman's name at the time I am ready to orgasm:rolleyes:

There is so little that I wouldn't like...but this is certainly one that would catch me by surprise...of course the word "another' doesn't actually apply, but it's hard to imagine hearing a woman's name without being startled.

What I don't like: lack of enthusiasm and a display of distaste for bodily fluids.
 
My big mood killer is when someone blows in my ear. Nibbles and licks are sometimes ok but blowing a HUGE no-no. I'm an audio engineer and my ears are super sensitive to normal sounds. Blowing in them is like being on a street when a fire truck goes past. It's actually painful. OTOH, they cna tug on my nipple rings all they want.
:devil:

Other turn offs are people that think sex is too messy and won't do certain things because of it. Personally if it's not messy it's not good and I've never minded sleeping in the wetspot unless it's a lake. Bad kissers are another turn off. I hate it when it seems like they're trying to swollow my entire lip, tounge or even my head. No, not that head. I ment the big one with two eyes.
:rolleyes:
 
Things I do not like Easy!!!!

I do not like a "dead" fuck nothing pisses me off more then a gratuitous fuck!

Hate wet willies!

Do not care for anal sex! (laughing) Yea, on me either! Just not a turn on to be crammed in a hole that simply put is too friggin tight! That does not apply to oral or any thing other then my dick.

Lastly some one who is not willing to fantasize and admit things turn them on other then strait sex.
 
Scat ( noooo nope , nut huh ) , children , animals , extreme pain , humiliation. They don't do jack for me . I'm pretty open minded about almost anything else.
 
VermilionSkye said:
Scat ( noooo nope , nut huh ) , children , animals , extreme pain , humiliation. They don't do jack for me . I'm pretty open minded about almost anything else.




Aaaaaamen sistah! And I feel the same way! Next topic please.....
 
I don't like silent partners. They don't have to wake the neighbors (although that's ok too) but a whimper, moan, something so I know you're still with me here! lol
 
hmmm.... there's not a lot of physical stuff I don't like. I agree that I don't like a nonresponsive lover. I want something to let me know that my partner is getting as much as I am. I'm not into scat and piss games, or bestiality, but I've never had anyone suggest any of those, so its not really an issue. I do love being fingered so much more than I like oral though... and depending on the partner, there are certain positions I don't like all that much. The one thing I can say I really don't like is being made to cum while standing - I'm too worried about keeping balance, the orgasm is never as intense (unless its standing while being fucked from behind).
 
I hate it when a man messes with my feet! I don't like for them to be touched as my feet are extremely ticklish (the woman who does my pedicure even has to be careful, as I will start screaming if she stays on the sensitive parts too long). And the thing I hate most? A man who begins to suck on my toes. ICK! A wet, slobbering tongue in between my toes just disgusts me - especially if he thinks I'm going to kiss him afterwards. Double ICK!

And another? Massages, usually. I really, really have to be in the mood to get one and that is usually when my back is hurting and I need pressure to relieve the ache. But just for pleasure? They don't do anything for me at all but make me wonder when he's going to stop. However, the strange thing is, I love to give to massages, so go figure.


Oh, and the usual scat, children, animals, etc, etc that most people have an aversion to also applies to me.
 
crazybbwgirl said:
I don't like silent partners. They don't have to wake the neighbors (although that's ok too) but a whimper, moan, something so I know you're still with me here! lol

I remember a time when this happened to me. I feel the same way. It's just a little creepy, I almost felt like I was by myself!
 
crazybbwgirl said:
I don't like silent partners. They don't have to wake the neighbors (although that's ok too) but a whimper, moan, something so I know you're still with me here! lol

Snap, want to know what they are feeling!
 
I don't like someone who does not like to explore, experience new things. I don't like someone who only thinks of themself like I am there to take care of them. I don't like biting, nibbles are great. I don't like someone who does not share what they are experiencing, or who has a blank expression on their face when they climax showing no emotion. I don't like someone slobbering all over me, well placed wet kisses are wonderful. I don't like someone fingering me when I am not ready, this will definatele not turn me on. I doen't like it in the ass - thats just me, never have had any enjoyment form it. Keep away from these things and we can have a hot enough roll in the hay to set the barn on fire.
 
One thing I always wanted to try is when in a commercial airline and all of a sudden an engine drops off, and the plane is goin' down....I'm gonna grab the nearest flight attendant and just do her right then and there. That way I can cum & go at the same time!!!!!LOL:p
 
TexasBadboy said:
One thing I always wanted to try is when in a commercial airline and all of a sudden an engine drops off, and the plane is goin' down....I'm gonna grab the nearest flight attendant and just do her right then and there. That way I can cum & go at the same time!!!!!LOL:p

You better hope that you don't survive then! :D
 
TexasBadboy said:
Aaaaaamen sistah! And I feel the same way! Next topic please.....

I'm with you on this... although a little humiliation now and then isn't so bad.

I don't like it when people blow in my ears, and I don't like bad messages. That last one should be obvious... but some people think they get credit for trying. They do, but not in that regard.

I don't like being fingered w/o foreplay... a guy did that once, and it didn't hurt, but it wasn't remotely sexual.
 
Also, a few other things I don't really care for would be Anal sex. I am not really enthusiastic about giving it and its probably strange for a guy like me. I have given anal sex to my ex before and it was my first time, I didn't really like having to wash my hands and cock thoroughly.

Another turn off would be smokers. I mean who wants to kiss one of those?
 
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