You just explained what you regard as violence in this context, and what you would consequently downvote as unacceptableYou stated that violence is unacceptable, and I wanted to remind you how easily people downvote fine writing simply because they deem it "unacceptable."
Personally, I suspect very few here will downvote for spanking, seems very popular; as to the rest, there are a lotta views. Already said it’s about what’s bad - including what’s not arousing - not what’s a particular kink
(Edit - btw if I found a particular kink unappealing, which perhaps seems to be your insinuation; I’m not gonna be in that category to see it and know how good or bad it is)
I think from your tone - and apologetic hugs if I misread - you just wanna find a point to score, so let’s just assume you scored it and move on
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