Noor
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some possibilities off the top of my head, sort of...
1) don't be married or pick someone married to someone like me. I am not particularly suspicious but I tend to notice everything, get curious and check out and/or track it.
2) use Tor
3) use a telnet talker and have no buffer
4) leave messages as chat at a game site, like while playing pool or backgammon
5) have a legit place to interact like facebook and use a code to alert the other to a special email address.
6) study where Petraeus' online stuff went wrong.
7) pick a sane partner and one who is unlikely to fall in love with you, get sloppy and/or get jealous. It's been my experience that one of the players usually outs themselves.
8) Don't let them know enough about you to find you. Incidentally, I have yet to have a cyber partner that I don't know who or where they are based on info they tell me. They could probably find me too.
9) separate sim pre paid card for your cell phone, switch it when you need to talk. keep it locked.
10) be under no illusions that anything is ever private unless you are standing under a loud waterfall in the nude with another nude person whose orifices you have investigate thoroughly and even then as long as there is more than you involved there is a security risk.
11) Don't send any pictures that can be found anywhere else on the internet. Last year, I had the interesting experience on facebook of seeing phone sex guy's picture under one of those friends suggestions, turns out we have mutual connections...
Oh and the person who will get hurt in all this is usually you, being a single person in a marriage means you are disposable.
1) don't be married or pick someone married to someone like me. I am not particularly suspicious but I tend to notice everything, get curious and check out and/or track it.
2) use Tor
3) use a telnet talker and have no buffer
4) leave messages as chat at a game site, like while playing pool or backgammon
5) have a legit place to interact like facebook and use a code to alert the other to a special email address.
6) study where Petraeus' online stuff went wrong.
7) pick a sane partner and one who is unlikely to fall in love with you, get sloppy and/or get jealous. It's been my experience that one of the players usually outs themselves.
8) Don't let them know enough about you to find you. Incidentally, I have yet to have a cyber partner that I don't know who or where they are based on info they tell me. They could probably find me too.
9) separate sim pre paid card for your cell phone, switch it when you need to talk. keep it locked.
10) be under no illusions that anything is ever private unless you are standing under a loud waterfall in the nude with another nude person whose orifices you have investigate thoroughly and even then as long as there is more than you involved there is a security risk.
11) Don't send any pictures that can be found anywhere else on the internet. Last year, I had the interesting experience on facebook of seeing phone sex guy's picture under one of those friends suggestions, turns out we have mutual connections...
Oh and the person who will get hurt in all this is usually you, being a single person in a marriage means you are disposable.
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