Open Marriage

[Rob_Royale]

Non of this tells the story of you and the open marriages. i was so looking forward to reading those story's.

That story isn't for the story ideas forum. Shoot me a PM if you want to know the particulars. I'm not into sexy chat so it will just be the story.

 

[DeusAudivit]

That story isn't for the story ideas forum. Shoot me a PM if you want to know the particulars. I'm not into sexy chat so it will just be the story.

just did

 

[Husky_Embrace]

I think an open marriage can work. The only prerequisite is that sex isn't a cornerstone of the marriage (any more). Their marriage is build on other things, like trust and respect for each other. As their sex needs a new boost, one idea could be the open marriage. They respect each other enough to grant a good sex life, hoping to find it when introducing other people.

Wife gets a lot, husband doesn't. What is she to do? She could check her social network to set him up with a friend, possibly reaching out to someone she hasn't talked to in a while.

Alternatively she could order an escort in secret. The experience could boost his confidence, and thus his chances.

 

[DeusAudivit]

I think an open marriage can work. The only prerequisite is that sex isn't a cornerstone of the marriage (any more). Their marriage is build on other things, like trust and respect for each other. As their sex needs a new boost, one idea could be the open marriage. They respect each other enough to grant a good sex life, hoping to find it when introducing other people.

Wife gets a lot, husband doesn't. What is she to do? She could check her social network to set him up with a friend, possibly reaching out to someone she hasn't talked to in a while.

Alternatively she could order an escort in secret. The experience could boost his confidence, and thus his chances.

I like your style. I normally am on the prowl for a woman open to a bit of lesbian fun, if my wife is with me at the time i normally let her keep the man happy. Dose that make me her pimp?

 

[coastalkid]

I like this as a story idea. That doesn't mean I wouldn't read something close to this idea if there was one already written.

 

[coastalkid]

I think an open marriage can work. The only prerequisite is that sex isn't a cornerstone of the marriage (any more). Their marriage is build on other things, like trust and respect for each other. As their sex needs a new boost, one idea could be the open marriage. They respect each other enough to grant a good sex life, hoping to find it when introducing other people.

Wife gets a lot, husband doesn't. What is she to do? She could check her social network to set him up with a friend, possibly reaching out to someone she hasn't talked to in a while.

Alternatively she could order an escort in secret. The experience could boost his confidence, and thus his chances.

There are lots of different possible dynamics, her scheme to help him, her fear of her plan backfiring on her (whether he finds out and feels like it's a sympathy thing or she's too successful and it makes her jealous), her learning how different it is to help someone facing rejection, her recognizing that it's a Hell of a lot easier for a woman than it is a man (or not), or her just showing that she wants to make it good experience for him. Something that brings them back to some kind of equal footing that both of them want.

 

[DeusAudivit]

I never made any such assumptions, as my stories will clearly demonstrate.

I do agree that sucking dick with your wife could be exhilarating

who for? the one who is sucking is doing all the work.

 

[VerbalAbuse]

who for? the one who is sucking is doing all the work.

... the idea is that it is exhilarating for the cock sucker. the cuck sucker...

 

[Mickyb9669]

Doesn’t have to be fantasy. Just good open communication and a strong relationship

You've certainly got that and a very enjoyable one I see

 

[MikeXIrons]

so how does she do that?

What if she starts coaching him like his “wing man”… helping him get better at attracting and seducing women? Spruces up his online dating profile, etc.

And/or she introduces him to women… in the way a woman might fix up a friend or her brother?

She takes an active role in helping him get laid… and, in the process, gets to give him feedback about things that SHE’D like to see too (like… let’s do some manscaping, and a better haircut, and maybe a little stubble beard? And, let’s get some clothes that show off your broad shoulders…) and finds him more attractive herself as an added bonus?

 

[Rob_Royale]

What if she starts coaching him like his “wing man”… helping him get better at attracting and seducing women? Spruces up his online dating profile, etc.

I don't know. The Mr. must have some sort of game. He obviously won her heart. But maybe he just got comfortable. Like Steve Carell's character in Crazy Stupid Love.

 

[MikeXIrons]

I don't know. The Mr. must have some sort of game. He obviously won her heart. But maybe he just got comfortable. Like Steve Carell's character in Crazy Stupid Love.

Yeah, but, especially when a little older, all things being equal, I think women on an online dating app get much more attention. He might need a little coaching, having been out of the game for a while… which might also be an interesting dynamic… her working hard to get him noticed and laid.

 

[DeusAudivit]

The savoy Incident.
Just after my now wife and I got together I had a corporate event on at the Savoy hotel in London. we had rented the pool area for the event. The staff were fantastic and the event went off without any problems. it actually finished early so Emily and a young company executive decided as the company was still paying for the pool they were going for a swim.

Now that would have been fine except the swim was a skinny dip and turned into a fuck on the side of the pool. OK this could have been resolved quite easily however the hotel removed the signs saying the pool was closed for a private function. a family walked into the pool area just as they were getting to the short strokes, the interruption caused ejaculation into the pool, and some shocked guests.

The end result was my wife has a life time ban from the Savoy hotel. but do you think this is fair?

 

[Rob_Royale]

The end result was my wife has a life time ban from the Savoy hotel. but do you think this is fair?

Vice, an arrest for lewd and lascivious behavior, yep, pretty fair, I'd say.

 

[dirk2024]

The end result was my wife has a life time ban from the Savoy hotel. but do you think this is fair?

Vice, an arrest for lewd and lascivious behavior, yep, pretty fair, I'd say.

Don't forget the requisite thorough frisking "for drugs" and a consensual gangbang in a jail cell with the guards.

 

[Husky_Embrace]

Don't forget the requisite thorough frisking "for drugs" and a consensual gangbang in a jail cell with the guards.

I think she was then banned there as well. The judge couldn't resist dipping is toe in the company ink, requesting her to explain in her private chambers. It was like arts and crafts, the creative scissoring that happened there!

 

[Freed55]

I'd love to read a story about a long married mature couple that both willingly enter into an open marriage to put a spark back in their sex life. The wife has overwhelming success, naturally. The wife sees that her husband isn't being as successful and notices his decline in his spirit. The wife makes an all out effort to balance the scales. She discovers how much more difficult it is to get him hooked up. Along the way she discovers the disparity and all the other things that affect his insecurities and lack of success. The wife is determined to facilitate giving her husband a mind blowing experience just like she has had. Instead of the ubiquitous greedy or unsympathetic wife, she is the grateful wife consumed by wanting he husband to be happy.

Wife and I were dating others before she decided we were good to marry. She was 8 years older than me she had 2 daughters, I got along with playing. Future wife said we can live together and you can date others, some of my cheerleaders teammates, especially Dalai which the both begged.

 

[liliput1]

I have known four couples that opened their marriage. Only one stood the test of time and jealousy was the major factor. As a single guy I was involved with her for years and was friends with her husband.

All a woman has to do is show interest and she can get a boyfriend.
Classically the husbands were less successful, unless they were in a swinging situation. So back to the OPs idea, how a wife could keep things equitable.

I was searching for a different thread but found this one, and it’s recent enough that I’ll commit the sin of resurrection.

There is a common enough tale that the husband badgers his wife into an open agreement thinking he’ll be bagging babes only to discover that the only bagging happening is his wife’s. After six months of cobwebs he gets mad and insists they close it and either she goes along with it but mourns to loss of a partner, or they split up. In either case people tell her she should leave him, because what a colossal prick.

All bad faith is punished in polyamory, sooner or later.

Another option in addition to the many lovely scenarios you’ve brought up, is maybe she never got to explore bi curiosity in college. There are not many psychologically safer opportunities to explore your sexuality like that.

But unicorns are rare. Rarer than the lothario poly man for sure. My favorite poly woman, hoped for a long time that her husband would find a girlfriend she could play with too, but near as I can surmise I don’t know that she ever did. And I’m more than a little bit sad for her for that. So much so that I’m writing a fictional version of her a girlfriend, because girl deserves it by now if anyone does.

But if you start from the other end, girl seeking girl, or boy seeking boy? Then at least a little group activity may end up on the menu, even if you don’t end up the Three Musketeers.

 

[Vitriolhack]

it takes a little of time to find the right person, male or female. They would have to accept to be the one who helps out from time to time sexually. But, they do exist!