Oral sex after insertion

[DrHappy]

I have two questions for everyone: 1) Is there an easy way to describe heterosexual oral sex after intercourse has started, but before the guy has ejaculated? 2) How do you feel about this?

I rarely see a distinction made between oral sex as foreplay (before insertion) and oral sex after intercourse has begun. Various internet searches will show discussions about "cream pie eating" after ejaculation, but I’m just looking for discussion about oral sex before ejaculation. The only "vernacular" for this that I’ve seen is the “P2M” (pussy-to-mouth) descriptions about content in erotic videos. However, this sounds a bit mechanical and un-sensual to me.

For the record, I absolutely LOVE it (both giving and receiving). I have heard from girls that guys who will perform oral sex on a girl after his penis has been in her pussy seem to be a rarity? Is my perception correct?

Thanks you for your input.

Dr. Jay Happy

 

[Guest]

For the record, I absolutely LOVE it (both giving and receiving). I have heard from girls that guys who will perform oral sex on a girl after his penis has been in her pussy seem to be a rarity? Is my perception correct?

Thanks you for your input.

Dr. Jay Happy

Female, and I do, but my partner won't.

Lots of things he won't do. *sigh*

 

[goodguy2nondfuk]

Too bad for sure BG. I'm in the same boat. SO just does not like to reciprocate. Too bad for us I guess.

 

[rthnck]

if it feels good, do it

If she likes it, I'm up for it.

 

[gemaussieslut]

love giving and love recieving

never got around to doing it in the middle of sex though, or after hed been in me...
just never crossed my mind i guess... got to into having him thrust in and out to stop and see what it was like
the thought of it makes me want to try though

 

[Nature_girl]

My partner and I both love giving and receiving before/after sex. I can't think an occassion where we stopped intercourse before climax and performed oral sex, though I am certainly not opposed to it.

 

[LukkyKnight]

I'm not sure what you mean by an easy way to describe it...

2) How do you feel about this?

In favor. Oral rocks.

 

[tribbles]

We both do it before, during, after.....the more the better.

 

[Not Normal]

My only problem is the condom/spermicide taste. I think I'm gonna get snipped this year and then I'm sure it will happen a lot.

 

[neck_romancer]

It's definitely all good.

Personally, I see it as a wonderful interlude between two sessions of intercourse. Oral play keeps the excitement level up when you are in it for the whole night.

 

[sunandshadow]

I voted indifferent because I don't really see why it matters whether the oral sex is before or after intercourse has started. But in general I like oral sex, giving and receiving.

 

[SweetErika]

I think "pussy to mouth" is like "ass to mouth" in that it means sucking cock after penetration has occured and it's coated with juices. We do that sometimes, but I don't recall ever having stopped sex for him to go down on me. I think it hasn't come up because sex is too good for both of us and we don't want to break the momentum. However, I can see where it could be fun, especially as a teasing/bringing right to the edge (preferably with bonds and maybe a blindfold), or for more potential orgasms for me and staying power for him, so perhaps it's something we'll try tomorrow.

 

[DrHappy]

Thank you for your responses! I would guess that this group is more open to the idea than the general public.

I'm not sure what you mean by an easy way to describe it...

I’m looking for a shorter way to describe it. “Oral sex after intercourse has begun” is too long. “Oral sex after penetration” is better. Maybe there is a vernacular term at the Urban Dictionary site. “P2M” or “pussy to mouth” works, but doesn’t include a woman receiving oral sex from a guy. I suppose “P2M” could include both “pussy to mouth” and “penis to mouth”.

I’m intrigued by the subject for a few reasons. For me, P2M seems like a natural progression of affection. Why should oral sex stop from either of us after my cock has touched her pussy? The apparent reason would be an aversion of having your own fluids touch your mouth. Until now, the only “data points” that I’ve had were from short list of conversations I had with people and from watching porn. Even in porn (especially older porn), it seems that oral sex from the man often stops once his dick has touched her pussy. (There are exceptions, obviously). However, this rule rarely applied for women, who frequently engaged in oral sex after the guy’s cock had been in her pussy. I think that it’s interesting that the terms “P2M” and “pussy to mouth” exist, though I have never seen the phrase “cock to mouth”. If it’s good for the goose…

I read some responses from people (go girls!) who hadn’t tried it but seemed intrigued. I wouldn’t say that it’s any more of an interruption that it is an interruption to change positions. It also provides more of a variety of sensations, just like changing positions provides additional sensations. You can also give a few happy licks between position changes.

Tribbles brought up the point of doing it before, during, and after. Doing it afterwards is another topic all together. Care to elaborate, Tribbles? That sounds very slippery

Maybe it’s just me, but while I can imagine a girl savoring and enjoying the sensation of a cock in her mouth after it’s been in her pussy, I can’t imagine the same for an “ass to mouth” situation.

My apologies if I’ve post this to the wrong group. I wasn’t sure what group to use.

 

[buxxxom]

Just my .02

I have two questions for everyone: 1) Is there an easy way to describe heterosexual oral sex after intercourse has started, but before the guy has ejaculated? 2) How do you feel about this?

I rarely see a distinction made between oral sex as foreplay (before insertion) and oral sex after intercourse has begun. Various internet searches will show discussions about "cream pie eating" after ejaculation, but I’m just looking for discussion about oral sex before ejaculation. The only "vernacular" for this that I’ve seen is the “P2M” (pussy-to-mouth) descriptions about content in erotic videos. However, this sounds a bit mechanical and un-sensual to me.

For the record, I absolutely LOVE it (both giving and receiving). I have heard from girls that guys who will perform oral sex on a girl after his penis has been in her pussy seem to be a rarity? Is my perception correct?

Thanks you for your input.

Dr. Jay Happy

I didn't even know there was a term for that. I like both giving and receiving. Sometimes, during intercourse, I'll ask my hubby where he wants to finish, my pussy or my mouth. Hot kisses ensue more often if he finishes in my mouth after I've swallowed some of it.

Dr. Jay--you didn't ask about P2M in girl/girl sex. There seems to be no stigma for that, do you have any suspicions why? I love sharing the taste of my gf with her after I've had the pleasure of tasting her; and she seems to feel the same.

IMHO, it's all good.

 

[satchx]

Completely don't understand the resistence to this .... Love to go down on spouse after having been in her and she will reciprocate if the mood strikes us ... kind of nice, especially if I need a "quick break" (i.e. about to blow a bit too soon ... insert big sigh here)

 

[tribbles]

Tribbles brought up the point of doing it before, during, and after. Doing it afterwards is another topic all together. Care to elaborate, Tribbles? That sounds very slippery

Well, I know I'm not normal. I was twisted at a young age by seeing, over and over, the banned book: The Presidents Report on Pornography.

I did my best to answer the poll from the POV of before we were both bi and swingers. Cuz now we are a step wilder and like to do snowballs, not just me to him but he will suck it out and give it to me...we even did a three way snowball with another guy.

I have always loved how my pussy tastes....so he can put it in or eat me and I happlily lick up the taste from his mouth, fingers or penis. He has always liked his own cum so he has always enjoyed cumming in me and then going down on me.

And for many guys, just cuz they cum, does not mean all sensation stops. Even soft, he likes how it feels to be kissed and licked and sucked...and I like doing it. Is there a rule book that says it's not ok to suck and kiss on soft cocks?

 

[trojan_man_co]

mmm fun times

i love to do it, stopping right as she’s about to orgasm then eating her out, not so much as to make her cum but just to keep her on the edge so that when i slam my dick back into her it makes her orgasm that much more intense. as far as the receiving end my most recent gf hated going down on me and the taste of her own, so if i had been eating her out she wouldn’t let me kiss her till i brushed my teeth, if she had been sucking on me however she found it weird but had no objection to kissing me.

 

[LordHawk]

I didn't realize that there was a need for a label for such activity. I am male and have enjoyed it with my little one. Often it is because I have rode her until she has cum and I want something different. So I have her suck me for a while. I rarely cum in her mouth because oral sex just doesn't do for me what pounding her pussy does. So usually after she worships my cockfor a while I put her on her knees and take her from behind.

 

[DrHappy]

One thing that I’ve learned so far is that almost everyone on this forum is open to almost anything My hypothesis was that the general population is more reluctant to participate in oral sex after intercourse has started. Maybe I should have worded my question as:

Have you encountered a partner who enjoyed oral sex, but only as foreplay (before intercourse has started)?

Babygrrl_702, Goodguy2nonfuk, and Trojan_man_co seem to have encountered this.

Buxxom, I agree that my original questions were really focused on hetero sex. You’ve also given me the quote of the week. I’m not sure why, but your wording made me laugh. That sounds playful and fun.

Sometimes, during intercourse, I'll ask my hubby where he wants to finish, my pussy or my mouth. Hot kisses ensue more often if he finishes in my mouth after I've swallowed some of it.

Satchx, I also agree about it’s usefulness when a “quick break” is needed. Some problems are better than others

SweetErika and Gemaussieslut, do you have any updates that you'd like to share with us?

 

[tkinsc]

I don’t know if there is a term for oral sex during intercourse, as opposed to for foreplay. I just consider it eating pussy, no matter when it is done.

I love the taste of my wife when we have been having sex. We will occasionally stop during intercourse and I will go down on her, or she will stick a few fingers in while we are having sex and let me lick them off.

She tastes wonderful all the time, but I tell her she tastes great when she has been fucked. I guess it is something about all the juices that are flowing during sex that enhances the taste and smell.

 

[M's girl]

One thing that I’ve learned so far is that almost everyone on this forum is open to almost anything

I consider myself to be very sexual and open minded and still there are things I will never do. I guess everyone is open minded within their own cadre of reference.

A question like this makes me wonder what the big deal is, while other questions where I think "hell no, are you crazy or what?!" seem to be the most natural thing to other people, so there you go.

In this case I'm the one wondering what the big deal should be. Not wanting to share your fluids while engaging in (healthy - healthwise) sex is beyond me. It's like cooking a meal you are not prepared to eat yourself...

 

[Lookingforideas]

Female, and I do, but my partner won't.

Lots of things he won't do. *sigh*

I know the feeling...I personally love performing it before, during, and after. But I rarely get any in return

 

[hotbob31]

To Eat Her or Not to Eat Her

Well guys, I am 65 years young and have experienced a number of different ways of oral sex with my many ladies over the years. I have stopped "mid intercourse" to go down and lick my lady, done the "creampie" with my lady, but the most, very most erotic experience was my lady giving me oral, after intercouse, then while sucking, she orgasmed with the absolutely most powerful one I had ever experienced with her. Actually, it was so funny because she became embarrassed because she orgasmed with me watching her facial expressions..... Folks, there is nothing in this world to compare to oral sex........but only if both parties maintain cleanliness.

 

[M's girl]

Nice first post Bob! Welcome to lit!

 

[mutualpleasure_]

Love this...

This is something I've always done...
I love to make a woman cum and cum...
and to be sexual for hours. I love being hard with a woman...
and having my erection last for the longest time.

Mixing oral with intercourse, fingers, toys...
varying the pace...
Mmmmm.

And I love the taste of our fucking...
so erotic to share it.

A nice dom practice as well...
to dominate through the use of pleasure skillfully applied.

-wink

I guess that means yes!