Oral sex after insertion

Regarding oral sex after intercourse has begun:

  • I am a guy and I enjoy giving and receiving.

    Votes: 273 71.8%
  • I am a guy and I enjoy receiving (but not giving).

    Votes: 14 3.7%
  • I am a guy and I enjoy giving (but not receiving).

    Votes: 5 1.3%
  • I am a guy and I do not enjoy giving or receiving.

    Votes: 2 0.5%
  • I am a guy and I am indifferent

    Votes: 1 0.3%
  • I am a girl and I enjoy giving and receiving.

    Votes: 69 18.2%
  • I am a girl and I enjoy receiving (but not giving).

    Votes: 4 1.1%
  • I am a girl and I enjoy giving (but not receiving).

    Votes: 7 1.8%
  • I am a girl and I do not enjoy giving or receiving.

    Votes: 3 0.8%
  • I am a girl and I am indifferent

    Votes: 2 0.5%

  • Total voters
    380
I don't care what anybody says, if you're a man, there's no way you enjoy giving oral sex after penetration if you've been using a condom. I tried that once, and I almost vomited. Needless to say, it rather spoilt the evening...well, for five minutes anyway.
 
Ummm... a couple subtleties

boutrosboutros said:
I don't care what anybody says, if you're a man, there's no way you enjoy giving oral sex after penetration if you've been using a condom. I tried that once, and I almost vomited. Needless to say, it rather spoilt the evening...well, for five minutes anyway.

Spermicidal condoms do taste bad. BUT using a nonspermicidal condom, if you start on the clit and labia... and let her wetness wash out the latexy taste... there's not much there.
It's the spermicide that has a strong and lasting taste.

So I don't mind. Glad it was only 5 minutes Bo.
 
Seriously, why can't they make spermicide that tastes like German chocolate cake? I mean... is that so much to ask?

Actually, if I went down on somebody and they tasted like German chocolate cake, one of two things would happen:

1. It would ruin the night.
or
2. I'd be in love.
 
I wanna meet YOU! mmmmmm


hotbob31 said:
Well guys, I am 65 years young and have experienced a number of different ways of oral sex with my many ladies over the years. I have stopped "mid intercourse" to go down and lick my lady, done the "creampie" with my lady, but the most, very most erotic experience was my lady giving me oral, after intercouse, then while sucking, she orgasmed with the absolutely most powerful one I had ever experienced with her. Actually, it was so funny because she became embarrassed because she orgasmed with me watching her facial expressions.....:) Folks, there is nothing in this world to compare to oral sex........but only if both parties maintain cleanliness.
 
mmmmm

I enjoy giving head both before and after (and sometimes in the middle of) penetration. I actually like the taste of my own juice on his dick, but oddly enough he wont let me kiss him after I've given him oral...
How weird is that?
Then again, my hubby hasnt given ME oral sex for over a year now. He says that he's lazy, but that's bullshit.
 
goodguy2nondfuk said:
Too bad for sure BG. I'm in the same boat. SO just does not like to reciprocate. Too bad for us I guess.


I truely feel sorry for you ladies. I will do anything that will make my partner feel good. I love to be inside her and then just before we both cum pull out and then go down on her. It makes me last longer and I get to sneak her an extra orgasm in. She loves this and is more than ready to make me feel good because she knows that I'm there to please her. If you want your partner to do this, talk to them and let them know that.
 
boutrosboutros said:
I don't care what anybody says, if you're a man, there's no way you enjoy giving oral sex after penetration if you've been using a condom. I tried that once, and I almost vomited. Needless to say, it rather spoilt the evening...well, for five minutes anyway.


Same for women. Most condoms leave a bad taste.

I voted that I enjoyed it but often times I am indifferent to it. It depends on the partner and the reason why.

With some partners it is just fun and adding variety to the experience. I like tasting myself on my partner. Lips, tongue, cock, etc. It can be a really fun and playful part of the sexual experience in the beginning and as part of extended foreplay. Once you get to where you are just mindlessly fucking each other, it simply isn't the time.

My experience has been that most men who want to stop fucking and switch back and forth from oral to fucking don't have much stamina and want to try to prolong the session. In the end that just pisses me off and leaves me feeling unsatisfied.
When we get to the point that all I want is a good, hard fuck then give it to me. Don't stop and lick my pussy so that it lasts longer or ask me to suck your cock so that you don't blow your wad too soon. I don't care if it only last a few minutes. I will likely get off a few times in that time span it and will satisfy the urge I have to be well fucked.
 
SparklyDiva said:
I enjoy giving head both before and after (and sometimes in the middle of) penetration. I actually like the taste of my own juice on his dick, but oddly enough he wont let me kiss him after I've given him oral...
How weird is that?
Then again, my hubby hasnt given ME oral sex for over a year now. He says that he's lazy, but that's bullshit.

That can't be true .. 12 MONTHS?!?! and you've actually offered him the chance to go down on you? ahhhh .. what a funny old world we live in .. if had the chance dear diva I's probably take up residence between your legs :)
 
If it feels good, do it

maybe my screen name tells it all but I simply love going down on a woman and I love doing a complete job both front and rear if you get my drift. I have had women that where really surprised when I went for the rear. Is it really that uncommon?
 
DrHappy said:
One thing that I’ve learned so far is that almost everyone on this forum is open to almost anything :) My hypothesis was that the general population is more reluctant to participate in oral sex after intercourse has started. Maybe I should have worded my question as:

Have you encountered a partner who enjoyed oral sex, but only as foreplay (before intercourse has started)?

Babygrrl_702, Goodguy2nonfuk, and Trojan_man_co seem to have encountered this.

Buxxom, I agree that my original questions were really focused on hetero sex. You’ve also given me the quote of the week. I’m not sure why, but your wording made me laugh. That sounds playful and fun.


Satchx, I also agree about it’s usefulness when a “quick break” is needed. Some problems are better than others :)

SweetErika and Gemaussieslut, do you have any updates that you'd like to share with us?

It isn't that people don't do these things. I can't imagine spending anytime with your significant other without doing anything new. What keeps sex interresting is new experiences.

My belief is that people aren't closed minded in doing these things. They are closed mouth in saying that they do these things. Men especially. If you admit that you go down on your lady after you have penetrated her, and risk the taste of your own penis, you could be admitting that you don't mind the taste. Also, if you go down on her after you came, it might insinuate that you might enjoy the taste of semen. Men are much more worried what other men think of them. We are less open to what we really do in our bedrooms.
 
It Sucks.

niceguy_alex said:
That can't be true .. 12 MONTHS?!?! and you've actually offered him the chance to go down on you? ahhhh .. what a funny old world we live in .. if had the chance dear diva I's probably take up residence between your legs :)

;) Thanks NiceGuy...yeah beats me. And I LOVE getting oral sex. *pout*
My hubby also isnt into my ass; either oral or pentration. It's VERY dissapointing, he was very experimental in his youth, and now he is sort of bland, sexually.
 
Good Stuff

Abuttlover said:
maybe my screen name tells it all but I simply love going down on a woman and I love doing a complete job both front and rear if you get my drift. I have had women that where really surprised when I went for the rear. Is it really that uncommon?

How suprised? Like did she get up and leave? ;) Several years ago I dated a guy who suprised me by going down on my ass. It was the first (and last) time that ever happened, but it was a very PLEASANT suprise. I doubt there's a girl out there who would get all disgusted, I mean, it feels REALLY good. You might want to ASK her first, but otherwise I think most women would be into it.
 
SparklyDiva said:
How suprised? Like did she get up and leave? ;) Several years ago I dated a guy who suprised me by going down on my ass. It was the first (and last) time that ever happened, but it was a very PLEASANT suprise. I doubt there's a girl out there who would get all disgusted, I mean, it feels REALLY good. You might want to ASK her first, but otherwise I think most women would be into it.

Oh no. I have never had a woman leave. Actually once they get over the initial shock that a guy would do that, they seem to really enjoy it. It just surprises me that this is not a more common practice. After all, nothing worse comes out of there than comes out the front.
 
Love It

When I am on top, I often will use the combination slide in, slide out, lick, slide in, slide out, lick. She seems to like it - but it gets me too worked up and I have to stop to calm myself down.
 
SparklyDiva said:
..... I doubt there's a girl out there who would get all disgusted, I mean, it feels REALLY good. You might want to ASK her first, but otherwise I think most women would be into it.

Besides one ex-boyfriend years ago who indicated he wanted to fuck me in the ass (and I said a firm NO), who otherwise showed no interest back there besides that he wanted to fuck me, M was the first who slowly worked his way up there. I was a bit surprised when he started to kiss and lick me there but I must admit it felt good. I can't, however, get used to ANY form of penetration, although we tried. So I would agree that a lot of women probably will like it even if they are a bit resistant in the beginning (like me).

Also.... I think he has no business whatsoever back there if I'm not just out of the shower, if you know what I mean. I know it's a reason (and that does not only go for the ass) for a lot of women to say no to sex - if they feel they are not 'clean' enough. Take that into consideration also.
 
M's girl said:
... I think he has no business whatsoever back there if I'm not just out of the shower, if you know what I mean. I know it's a reason (and that does not only go for the ass) for a lot of women to say no to sex - if they feel they are not 'clean' enough. Take that into consideration also.

Yes .One shouldn.t nibble the "devils onion ring" unless clean...but that can go too far...My ex was very uncomfortable about oral sex she liked the feeling...but was so self aware about being clean she rarely relaxed and enjoyed it....which was a shame...one of the things that turn me on was seeing (and hearing) my lover getting turned on. I LOVE going down right after sex ....69 is the best for me then.....in fact even if I'm totally spent....that will get me up and running again...lol
 
Depends on where the insertion was. I'll do it before, during and after, unless it's AtM.
 
licking after my cock has been inside for a bit

I love to stop fucking and go back down on her. Her pussy is so hot and ready and her clit is so hard, most time she will cum instantly and I can get her off a couple more times then she is so ready for my cock again. And she never seems to mind having her pussy juice on my cock as she sucks me. As a matter of fact, I think it turns her on more..............


DrHappy said:
I have two questions for everyone: 1) Is there an easy way to describe heterosexual oral sex after intercourse has started, but before the guy has ejaculated? 2) How do you feel about this?

I rarely see a distinction made between oral sex as foreplay (before insertion) and oral sex after intercourse has begun. Various internet searches will show discussions about "cream pie eating" after ejaculation, but I’m just looking for discussion about oral sex before ejaculation. The only "vernacular" for this that I’ve seen is the “P2M” (pussy-to-mouth) descriptions about content in erotic videos. However, this sounds a bit mechanical and un-sensual to me.

For the record, I absolutely LOVE it (both giving and receiving). I have heard from girls that guys who will perform oral sex on a girl after his penis has been in her pussy seem to be a rarity? Is my perception correct?

Thanks you for your input.

Dr. Jay Happy
 
Wife and I have no issues we both do oral play before and during except for one instance..... I have never been able to do the cream pie afterwards, although she really wants it I just cant sych myself up to do it.

KC
 
boutrosboutros said:
I don't care what anybody says, if you're a man, there's no way you enjoy giving oral sex after penetration if you've been using a condom. I tried that once, and I almost vomited. Needless to say, it rather spoilt the evening...well, for five minutes anyway.

Wow, I am so impressed that you used a comdom! When I was really dating heavily, I found that men over 42 or so would argue about using one. Well, I would stand my ground and add a little sugar to the deal. Putting the condom on them using my mouth worked wonders.
 
I luv going down on the wife before, during & after completion...

The creampie we share (snowballing
 
There are no wrong answers, but I am probably most intrigued by people who answered that

I am a guy/girl and I enjoy giving (but not receiving).

If you answered this way, would you share some insight with me? Thank you for sharing your answers!
 
I love to do this with my lady and she likes it.

I like to do her doggy-style ... and when I feel ready to cum ... pull out and start eating her sopping wet pussy ... and allow myself to come down from the near climax.

Then once I've pleasured her with my tongue a while ... go back to thrusting hard and deep.

Like I said, she seems to enjoy it :cool:
 
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