Oral sex arrangement for Women?

[Mtnmike]

Not me. Now maybe if I'd had someone do it right to begin with... But no. They all had some lame technique that wasn't in the least bit arousing. I'm also not big into clit stimulation. I prefer internal stimulation.

Interesting, so G-spot stimulation is better for you, I can understand that. Such a coincidence I get very little pleasure from blow jobs, guess you and I have never been with the right person.

 

[tonydude]

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[Nzerxx]

I wonder how many women out there would be into an Oral Sex arrangement?

The Arrangement: You are given oral sex until you are satisfied and you provide nothing in return to the guy.

First you get to know the guy a bit online. Eventually you meet and he takes you out for drinks and dinner. IF you feel comfortable, you go home with him or to his hotel room or yours and receive oral until you are satisfied. IF you like him, you see him again and it becomes a regular thing like a FWB.

What do you think ladies? Could you do something like that? Does it help that you do nothing to him in keeping your distance emotionally? If he was very good could you resist the temptation to want more than just oral?

This has been a fantasy of mine for years and I have always wanted to try it. IF you feel uncomfortable talking about it here, feel free to PM me.

Thanks
ES

I would love this. As someone who has great anxiety over the pressure to reciprocate this would be amazing. Of course I would have to know him well but once relaxed over time I’m sure the desire to reciprocate would be strong especially since he had given and expected nothing

 

[Jada59]

Interesting, so G-spot stimulation is better for you, I can understand that. Such a coincidence I get very little pleasure from blow jobs, guess you and I have never been with the right person.

Oh, I've been with the right person. It's just that the vast majority of men I've been with were not good at giving oral. Oddly enough, my best lover didn't really like having his cock sucked very much. He let me do it but never to completion.

 

[JerseyJade]

Really Jada, you're not interested in men going down on you ? I thought was the 1 thing women always wanted

This is what happens when you watch too much porn. This may also come as a shock to you then... Not all women like to have cum shot on their face either.

 

[Mtnmike]

This is what happens when you watch too much porn. This may also come as a shock to you then... Not all women like to have cum shot on their face either.

Hi JJ, didn't mean it as an insult, just never met a lady that didn't want it, my apologies. As for porn I have not watched any in over 20 years and you're right, I don't know any lady that likes cum shot on her face or hair.

 

[JerseyJade]

Hi JJ, didn't mean it as an insult, just never met a lady that didn't want it, my apologies. As for porn I have not watched any in over 20 years and you're right, I don't know any lady that likes cum shot on her face or hair.

I didn't take anything you said as an insult. I was just being silly.

 

[Mtnmike]

I didn't take anything you said as an insult. I was just being silly.

It's all good, I've always been intrigued about what and how women think about sex. Till I found Lit never found women willing to open up about it

 

[crazyangel7]

I could be interested in this type of arrangement, at least willing to try. I've never been with a man who genuinely seemed to enjoy giving oral, so it would be a nice change.

I don't believe you have to get everything out of one sexual relationship. I think I could get the rest of my sexual satisfaction elsewhere if needed.

 

[Mtnmike]

I could be interested in this type of arrangement, at least willing to try. I've never been with a man who genuinely seemed to enjoy giving oral, so it would be a nice change.

I don't believe you have to get everything out of one sexual relationship. I think I could get the rest of my sexual satisfaction elsewhere if needed.

Dang, I'm all the way across the state from you. Wish we were closer, I love nothing more than to Pleasure a lady orally

 

[StarGazer58]

Good thread, getting different perspectives on oral.

 

[30bandits]

I could be interested in this type of arrangement, at least willing to try. I've never been with a man who genuinely seemed to enjoy giving oral, so it would be a nice change.

I don't believe you have to get everything out of one sexual relationship. I think I could get the rest of my sexual satisfaction elsewhere if needed.

may I ? your PM's are full....shocking...

 

[Elite_Goblin]

I could easily do this for a woman (oral sex), if I find her attractive to me.

Could I also add the option for breast sucklin or help induce lactation?

Perhaps I would even give a good massage too while I am at it.

No, I need nothing in return.

 

[crazyangel7]

Fixed ;-)

 

[xenophon10000]

Wow, this is a kinda hot idea, wouldn't mind giving it a shot.

With that in mind, I'm in north central Indiana - if you're a woman in the same general area, let's chat.

(gonna go ahead and get this out of the way: BBWs welcome, older welcome)

 

[eroticspank]

I would love this. As someone who has great anxiety over the pressure to reciprocate this would be amazing. Of course I would have to know him well but once relaxed over time I’m sure the desire to reciprocate would be strong especially since he had given and expected nothing

Oh, I've been with the right person. It's just that the vast majority of men I've been with were not good at giving oral. Oddly enough, my best lover didn't really like having his cock sucked very much. He let me do it but never to completion.

I got several PMs from ladies that found it hard not to reciprocate. One lady mentioned that as she got older she found she was more and more okay with a scene just all about her and her pleasure. It was completely different in her 20s. Many women are so used to giving in the bedroom and in daily life they find it hard to just sit back, relax, and enjoy someone going down on them.

The next part is that there are a fair amount of "fakes"out there. Guys that say they like giving oral but really don't and are not good at it at all. They just want to get the woman naked and make it all about themselves getting laid.

In my experience I really have not met that many women that are good are giving oral or BJs. BUT, of the ones that I have met that are very good they really enjoy what they are doing. So I suggest in finding a man who can do this type of arrangement, find a guy that truly like giving a woman oral. I agree it is not just about licking the clit, there are so many areas---along with the mind, that need to be touched. There is no hurry and the woman needs to feel relaxed and safe. The arrangement ends when the woman says she is satisfied. That could be one orgasm or 5 or more, could 30 min or 2 hours or more.

ES

 

[Mtnmike]

I got several PMs from ladies that found it hard not to reciprocate. One lady mentioned that as she got older she found she was more and more okay with a scene just all about her and her pleasure. It was completely different in her 20s. Many women are so used to giving in the bedroom and in daily life they find it hard to just sit back, relax, and enjoy someone going down on them.

The next part is that there are a fair amount of "fakes"out there. Guys that say they like giving oral but really don't and are not good at it at all. They just want to get the woman naked and make it all about themselves getting laid.

In my experience I really have not met that many women that are good are giving oral or BJs. BUT, of the ones that I have met that are very good they really enjoy what they are doing. So I suggest in finding a man who can do this type of arrangement, find a guy that truly like giving a woman oral. I agree it is not just about licking the clit, there are so many areas---along with the mind, that need to be touched. There is no hurry and the woman needs to feel relaxed and safe. The arrangement ends when the woman says she is satisfied. That could be one orgasm or 5 or more, could 30 min or 2 hours or more.

ES

ES I have to agree with everything you said. I believe to be good at something you really have to love it and unfortunately most of the guys I know don't care, their just want to get laid

 

[eroticspank]

ES I have to agree with everything you said. I believe to be good at something you really have to love it and unfortunately most of the guys I know don't care, their just want to get laid

Agreed!

ES

 

[eroticspank]

I could be interested in this type of arrangement, at least willing to try. I've never been with a man who genuinely seemed to enjoy giving oral, so it would be a nice change.

I don't believe you have to get everything out of one sexual relationship. I think I could get the rest of my sexual satisfaction elsewhere if needed.

I do see some women interested in this type of arrangement. I wonder about emotional attachment like I mentioned in the OP. If you did it, do you think emotional attachment would be a problem, especially if the guy was very good?

Here is another area where men and women may differ. It seems men can receive a HJ or BJ with little or no attachment emotionally.

ES

 

[ReaperW]

In theory, I could get behind this. Oral has a tendency to make some women quite self conscious, I know I can't always relax enough to orgasm that way. It helps if I can see and hear how much you're enjoying yourself, and if you go down on me like you have all the time in the world, something about that inevitability and relentlessness can often be the trigger that pushes me over the edge.

And as long as you've enjoyed yourself, I have no problem letting you leave with nothing but my juices on your face.

 

[Mtnmike]

I Truly wish I could find someone close for a situation like this. I have no problem pleasuring a woman orally with nothing in return. If she wanted to return the favor, that's ok but not required

 

[eroticspank]

In theory, I could get behind this. Oral has a tendency to make some women quite self conscious, I know I can't always relax enough to orgasm that way. It helps if I can see and hear how much you're enjoying yourself, and if you go down on me like you have all the time in the world, something about that inevitability and relentlessness can often be the trigger that pushes me over the edge.

And as long as you've enjoyed yourself, I have no problem letting you leave with nothing but my juices on your face.

That is a good point, the self conscious thing. I am not sure why but I have heard that before. I know some guys who do moan and comment about the lovely taste of the woman they are eating, I do at times with my wife. I think that would help you to relax and maybe get over the edge.

And it seems like there needs to some kind of nonphysical connection that helps the woman to relax and let go. But the other side of that coin could be emotional attachment. Okay if you are in a relationship, not if it is just a FWB situation.

ES

 

[guns444]

There is nothing better or more arousing for me than pleasing a woman orally, I would love an arrangement like this. Hell multiple times a week would be best!

 

[Booboobear84]

Perhaps it would be useful to step back

I think it would be useful to untangle 1) Do women, under the right circumstances , like getting oral, 2) Generally what are the right circumstances, which I suspect will vary wildly and 3) Does removing the obligation to reciprocate make the circumstances better or worse for women, which again varies.

It was implied by the OP that relieving women of the obligation to reciprocate might make the proposition more appealing, but the thread indicates that isn't true for some women (we have no reasonable sampling to even begin suggesting a trend).

 

[Twalter22]

I could be interested in this type of arrangement, at least willing to try. I've never been with a man who genuinely seemed to enjoy giving oral, so it would be a nice change.

I don't believe you have to get everything out of one sexual relationship. I think I could get the rest of my sexual satisfaction elsewhere if needed.

I actually love giving oral. I think it goes back to my earliest sexual experiences when pregnancy was a big issue.
I have actually had two relationships that were essentially one way oral and I loved the feelings I was left with after each encounter.