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Oral sex arrangement for Women?

jan_maine said:
A fantasy of mine is to have a guy come over with no other expectations than to eat me until my heart’s content. A little finger action with the mouth would be fine. I may want to provide a hand job.
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I'm not in Maine, unfortunately, but we share the same fantasy, Jan! Thanks for writing it so well!
 
For me having a guy or girl go down om me and

make me cum makes my body scream for something to enter my body and fuck the hell out of me. Having oral makes me want to please the person by returning the favor. I was wondering, don't the ladies here feel the same way? I mean don't you need to have your pussy filled?
 
That sounds sooooo selfish.

MrRetro said:
I found this thread of yours from years back ES..! Thought it deserved a revival..

I fantasise about an arrangement like this all the time, I’m sure a lot of men do.. Sadly I’ve not stumbled across many women that admit to desiring it though..
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Not many guys would go for that, I don't think . Unless he thinks he'll get something in return it would be like a guy dumping his cum and then getting up and taking a shower leaving you there with his cum dripping out. One way that's for sure. I think sex should be a 2 way street and fun for both.
 
vastiesmith100 said:
make me cum makes my body scream for something to enter my body and fuck the hell out of me. Having oral makes me want to please the person by returning the favor. I was wondering, don't the ladies here feel the same way? I mean don't you need to have your pussy filled?
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vastiesmith100 said:
don't you feel the need to fuck?
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I understand that many times when a woman receives oral it just gets her more aroused and that usually leads to intercourse. I also understand the give and take in the bedroom and once you receive the pleasure you want to return the favor.

Sometimes you want to stop short of the intimacy of intercourse. Some women give a guy a BJ or HJ because they enjoy doing it but don't want to have sex with the guy. Getting in bed with the guy may change their relationship significantly, so she opts for the BJ instead.

It is similar to the oral sex arrangement described in this thread. It is about pleasing the woman and walking away. I enjoy giving her pleasure and that is enough for me. Not having intercourse or her returning the favor in the form of a BJ, for example, makes it less intimate but still fun to do.

Another way to look at it is like a massage. If I have a lady friend that has a sore back, sore muscles, and needs a massage, I am happy to provide that for her. But I don't want her to feel like she has to return the favor. I am happy just knowing I helped her feel better. Plus I don't give a massage just to receive one in return.

I get it that this arrangement is not for everyone. We all have different tastes and turn-ons.

ES
 
God, i would love this kind of arrangement. No names, just me grinding on his mouth, him feeling my pussy clench and pulse around his tongue. 100% down for that.
 
La_Fina said:
God, i would love this kind of arrangement. No names, just me grinding on his mouth, him feeling my pussy clench and pulse around his tongue. 100% down for that.
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you should PM me....i'd enjoy it just as much....
 
Swinger’s Club

I have a fantasy of setting myself up at a swinger event in front of a chair with stirrups and providing quality cunnilingus to any woman who sits down. One after another. Savoring the different flavors. Smelling the perfume, tasting fresh and freshly tucked.
 
Bigspurt said:
I have a fantasy of setting myself up at a swinger event in front of a chair with stirrups and providing quality cunnilingus to any woman who sits down. One after another. Savoring the different flavors. Smelling the perfume, tasting fresh and freshly tucked.
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Fuck thats hot.
 
Bigspurt said:
I have a fantasy of setting myself up at a swinger event in front of a chair with stirrups and providing quality cunnilingus to any woman who sits down. One after another. Savoring the different flavors. Smelling the perfume, tasting fresh and freshly tucked.
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That sounds so yummy!
 
Bigspurt said:
I have a fantasy of setting myself up at a swinger event in front of a chair with stirrups and providing quality cunnilingus to any woman who sits down. One after another. Savoring the different flavors. Smelling the perfume, tasting fresh and freshly tucked.
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I would sit down.
 
I think I would enjoy it now if I was in the right mood, but my younger self would not have been comfortable with it. At the most basic level it would have been a lack of confidence…feeling shy about receiving oral even within a relationship, selfish if I didn’t reciprocate, insecure if he really enjoyed it or if it took me a long time to come, etc.

I get so much pleasure out of my partner’s pleasure that it would likely be very difficult to not want to take it further even now, but if it was obvious that just giving excited him I think I could find it very hot. If it became a more regular thing though, no promises that I would not try to persuade him to consider more :)
 
LadyLascivious2 said:
I think I would enjoy it now if I was in the right mood, but my younger self would not have been comfortable with it. At the most basic level it would have been a lack of confidence…feeling shy about receiving oral even within a relationship, selfish if I didn’t reciprocate, insecure if he really enjoyed it or if it took me a long time to come, etc.

I get so much pleasure out of my partner’s pleasure that it would likely be very difficult to not want to take it further even now, but if it was obvious that just giving excited him I think I could find it very hot. If it became a more regular thing though, no promises that I would not try to persuade him to consider more :)
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With a little persuasion, I'd consider more 😁 I just wouldn't want my partner to think that "more" was necessary or part of the bargain.
 
The key is

MissMandy86 said:
Most guys arent very good at oral ... they think they are but not ..

And in my experience if a guy says hes good ... hes the worst


Occasionally... one is good but ...its rare
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I think the key is to listen. No two women are alike. Neither are men.

I've been told that I'm great, as well as I was terrible. I'm really happy when I'm asked to return.
 
PapaWhiskey87 said:
Then slowly bring her up to another, then another....her satisfaction being MY pleasure.
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That is great. Have you ever had tongue soreness? In my experience, if you are going for a long session you may get tongue soreness. So it is best to mix it up and conserve my tongue with other activities...finger, lips, hand, toys.
ES
 
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