Oral sex

Should a husband have to ask his wife for a blow job?

  • No, she should enjoy satisfying her man.

    Votes: 32 44.4%
  • Yes, you must ask for things that you want.

    Votes: 20 27.8%
  • Yes, but only if his wife is selfish.

    Votes: 3 4.2%
  • No, a partner should never have to ask for anything in the way of sex.

    Votes: 17 23.6%

  • Total voters
    72
wildrose70 said:
Well in the first place...I'm not sure whether it was a he/she...but either way...I don't think it's anyone's place to critize anyone...not just me.....for heavens sake...they have no fucking idea of our lives...so why try to make it miserable for people that enjoy posting and talking....after all I am retired..and like I said I do volunteer all the time..

Geeshhhhh can I help it...I type so fast..lmao.....and thanks gals!!!

hehehehe....well i wish you would teach silky to type...her typos suck....and that has NOTHING to do with oral sex.....volunteer some time with her will ya momma??? show her where the keys are on the keyboard!!!LOL....man she's gonna kill me for this one......:devil: :p :cool:
 
spiderlady said:
hehehehe....well i wish you would teach silky to type...her typos suck....and that has NOTHING to do with oral sex.....volunteer some time with her will ya momma??? show her where the keys are on the keyboard!!!LOL....man she's gonna kill me for this one......:devil: :p :cool:

OMG is she ever...lol well since I was a teacher plus being a nurse ...Mmmmmm maybe I can spare a few hrs from lit to help Silky....lmao.....hehe good to throw a little humor in once in awhile...or perhaps throw a little oil on the raging inferno!!!!
 
grins.....

a FEW? hours????? hah!!! think ya better rethink that momma....i myself think it's about as useless as tits on a boar.....but give it your best shot.....lol.....she's gonna kill us.....hehehehehe....:heart:
 
Re: grins.....

spiderlady said:
a FEW? hours????? hah!!! think ya better rethink that momma....i myself think it's about as useless as tits on a boar.....but give it your best shot.....lol.....she's gonna kill us.....hehehehehe....:heart:


Ohhhhhhh boy are yu ever asking for it...lmfao......dammmmmm I never cld understand tits on a boar:p I think we best go into hiding and quick...haha....althou I will just say....*spiderlady* started it:nana: :nana:
 
geeshhhhhhh just look at all the time I have wasted...I was going for 20k by my b/d and almost 21...Dammmmmmm I need to get a life:devil:
 
Re: It is the polite thing to do

God of Threads said:
Always ask a wife for it. If she says "No thank you" ask another wife.

God of Threads? More like God of Assholes! Some stupid Prick with 160 posts is going to tell Wildrose to take a break from Lit? First, Rose has many friends here who would miss her if she left for one day! Secondly, who the hell are you, the Lit Police? I have an idea, why don't you take a break from Lit! Better yet, drag your stupid ass over to the General Board where they will love an asshole like you! Oh, and have a nice day, prick.
 
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wildrose70 said:
Well in the first place...I'm not sure whether it was a he/she...but either way...I don't think it's anyone's place to critize anyone...not just me.....for heavens sake...they have no fucking idea of our lives...so why try to make it miserable for people that enjoy posting and talking....after all I am retired..and like I said I do volunteer all the time..

Geeshhhhh can I help it...I type so fast..lmao.....and thanks gals!!!

I did'nt even think of that, The God of Threads could be a woman, well, in that case it's just a female asshole.
 
barn888 said:
I did'nt even think of that, The God of Threads could be a woman, well, in that case it's just a female asshole.


My thanks to my knight in shining armor...I guess if it's *God* its a man...otherwise it wld be *Goddess* ...only my weird sense of humor.....oh yes here I am at 530 in the morning....wasting time again...geeshhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I'm goning for 21k today:rolleyes:
 
confusion

Are you saying that you shouldn't give them or that men shouldn't expect them?
 
Just a Comment

Well here's my two cents.

Being of average mind and more than average body I wish I could find ladies like you who luv to give oral. I'm not greedy mind you. I absolutly luv giving oral to whomever may be sharing my bed..or couch...or floor...wherever. (female only, don't want to be taken the wrong way) I don't think there is anything better than making a woman cum with my tongue and fingers. Feeling the thrusts and pulsing of a womans body as she shivers and shakes while riding my face.. :) oh fuckin YUMMY. but I never seem to get enough in return. I have never had a woman give me a blowjob until I came. not once. I am probably looking in the wrong places, so if yall can point me in the right direction I'll be glad to thank you properly :)
 
no hubby but sig other

I enjoyed giveing this blow job. I like what my last lover said.

Cream from heaven is bestowed to the diligent lips of my daughter of Passion.

They are words I dearly miss.
 
Re: Just a Comment

BigJim68 said:
Well here's my two cents.

Being of average mind and more than average body I wish I could find ladies like you who luv to give oral. I'm not greedy mind you. I absolutly luv giving oral to whomever may be sharing my bed..or couch...or floor...wherever. (female only, don't want to be taken the wrong way) I don't think there is anything better than making a woman cum with my tongue and fingers. Feeling the thrusts and pulsing of a womans body as she shivers and shakes while riding my face.. :) oh fuckin YUMMY. but I never seem to get enough in return. I have never had a woman give me a blowjob until I came. not once. I am probably looking in the wrong places, so if yall can point me in the right direction I'll be glad to thank you properly :)

Sounds like your looking in the wrong places! and pointing you in the right direction is fruitless, one needs to find somone there equal in that .. and most generally if your looking and not finding then its the shallow "barbie" types your giving all your attentions to! try looking at the heart! the desires! the truest soul, first, and you will find what you seek! and there is always hope, I never use to love them as I do now! about 10 years ago, I found something in it that I never knew existed, its as if I awoke and went Damn this is Awesome!! ..haha perhap you will find someone who does the same thing! Good Luck ~~Wicked Smile~~
 
My GF is not the initiator type. If anything sexual is going to happen, then I have to start it. She rarely says no and once she gets started, she is a great lover. She gives good blowjobs and she says she enjoys doing it and she likes to swallow, but she will not go down on me unless I ask for it.

She knows how much I like receiving and that I would like her to just do it once without my asking but it hasn't happened yet.

Just so you don't think that I just want her to go down on me without returning the favor, I LOVE going down on her and do it as often as possible.
 
I feel fourtunate that my girl likes to please me. If I wanted it when she was doing something else I would ask. I wouldnt expect her to just read my mind and know thats what I want. On the other hand. If I was doing something else and she wanted oral from me I would hope she would be ok in asking me for it. I cant read her mind either but we cant say yes if we dont know.
 
Arwen23 said:
I feel fourtunate that my girl likes to please me. If I wanted it when she was doing something else I would ask. I wouldnt expect her to just read my mind and know thats what I want. On the other hand. If I was doing something else and she wanted oral from me I would hope she would be ok in asking me for it. I cant read her mind either but we cant say yes if we dont know.

This is very true, but dont you think that the true gift is in just wanting to touch, to taste, as much as your mate loves it? I think its should just be part of the whole natural process of it, like a kiss is to the lips, so should the taste of love!
(just a Goddesses Idea of Love I guess)
 
oral

So, I've read the previous replies and feel the need to point this out:
No man would ever turn down a blow job
I have yet to meet the man who doesn't enjoy having his cock sucked. Keeping in mind, I haven't met all the men in the entire world, but those I have polled have all been enthusiastic about the subject. Not to mention the numerous threads, posts, and storys involving this very topic.

My guy, regardless if he is currently thinking of sex or not, is always ready for me to suck him off. I can wake him up at any time during the night with my lips rapped around his cock and he will never ever complain. Keeping in mind I do this frequently, I feel secure in saying he never will complain.

As for enjoying it- oh yeah. I personally love to receive oral, but I get wetter making him harder. ;)

I have met a few women who don't enjoy giving head, and all I can say is: I feel sorry for their men.

I think oral is as important as penetration...
Its not necessary for every encounter, but it doesn't hurt.

Basil:kiss:
 
Re: ~~Yummy~~

GoddessOfSouls said:
~~~Power~~~

To tease him with your tongue, to run your tongue around the head, run your tongue up the underside of his shaft, while looking up into his eyes, to kiss the head, open your mouth, and suck down while pulling up, while rubbing his balls with your hand, playfully playing, sucking, licking, Mmmmmm pre-cum you lick, while running the hard head across your lips like a lipstick. teasing and tempting licking down the shaft and sucking the balls into your mouth, sliding your mouth back to the cock, sucking it down deep into your mouth, while stroking up with you hand, feeling it hard in your mouth, when you think it can get no harder it does, thicker, harder, hotter, as your mouth begins to ache with the feel of it growing harder, hotter, in your mouth, the connection you feel is awesome as you look up into his eyes while sucking him, the deep pull in him, the feeling that it must ache, it has to ache one of those full pulling aches as you feel the cum being dragged through him, trying to hold back he is as he wants it to last, as you suck like a greedy child with her favorite candy, hand stroking, mouth sucking down greedily, feeling it rising within him pull your mouth back to the head while stroking so that you can swallow each drop of his sweet cum, sucking down again deep on to his cock milking him of each drop
Yes, that's how it should be!!

beautiful with delicious details. :rose:
 
Hrm... when you say giving head is part of a normal routine... do you mean to compleation?

I know i for one would rather orally please him and then start other sexual activity. I don't normally do it to full compleation and he dosn'et mind it... who wouldn't want to go from a warm mouth to another warm hole.
Giving head is part of foplay... with the exeption of a really quick quickie, forplay is part of every sex session.
Going to compleation... well maybe once in a while but i'd rather finish with a good fucking.
 
more oral

basil1214 said:
So, I've read the previous replies and feel the need to point this out:
No man would ever turn down a blow job
I have yet to meet the man who doesn't enjoy having his cock sucked. Keeping in mind, I haven't met all the men in the entire world, but those I have polled have all been enthusiastic about the subject. Not to mention the numerous threads, posts, and storys involving this very topic.

My guy, regardless if he is currently thinking of sex or not, is always ready for me to suck him off. I can wake him up at any time during the night with my lips rapped around his cock and he will never ever complain. Keeping in mind I do this frequently, I feel secure in saying he never will complain.

As for enjoying it- oh yeah. I personally love to receive oral, but I get wetter making him harder. ;)

I have met a few women who don't enjoy giving head, and all I can say is: I feel sorry for their men.

I think oral is as important as penetration...
Its not necessary for every encounter, but it doesn't hurt.

Basil:kiss:

You are right when it comes to this man, Basil. I will never turn down a blow job, as it is always offered in passion.
Something is wrong if i have to ask my lover to give me a blow job. Is so wonderful to receive a blow job during the unexpected time and place. A satisfied man has no interest to look elsewhere.
instead of 69 at once, I find it is more sexual to perform first one act, and then the other, allowing both partners to relish each single act.

Appe:kiss: :kiss:
 
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Re: oral

basil1214 said:
So, I've read the previous replies and feel the need to point this out:
No man would ever turn down a blow job
I have yet to meet the man who doesn't enjoy having his cock sucked. Keeping in mind, I haven't met all the men in the entire world, but those I have polled have all been enthusiastic about the subject. Not to mention the numerous threads, posts, and storys involving this very topic.

My guy, regardless if he is currently thinking of sex or not, is always ready for me to suck him off. I can wake him up at any time during the night with my lips rapped around his cock and he will never ever complain. Keeping in mind I do this frequently, I feel secure in saying he never will complain.

As for enjoying it- oh yeah. I personally love to receive oral, but I get wetter making him harder. ;)

I have met a few women who don't enjoy giving head, and all I can say is: I feel sorry for their men.

I think oral is as important as penetration...
Its not necessary for every encounter, but it doesn't hurt.

Basil:kiss:
I have met a man that didn't like blow jobs. The one and only time I tried it on him he broke my jaw and told me never to try that again. I haven't. To this day I've never given a blow job. My jaw locks up in fear.
 
Re: Re: oral

kikmosa said:
I have met a man that didn't like blow jobs. The one and only time I tried it on him he broke my jaw and told me never to try that again. I haven't. To this day I've never given a blow job. My jaw locks up in fear.


omg! How horrible for you~the jaw breaking thing. Did you bite his cock off? I'm thinking that it would be a suitable repayment, especially since it would have been convienient.
As for your jaws locking up in fear, I could see how that might happen, but I couldn't imagine my sex life with out blow jobs.
I love the silky smooth texture on my tongue~instantly wet panties for me.

I also read an above post about completion. As to that, well, I don't usually suck 'till he cums, but thats for 2 reasons. One is if he has cum it will be at least a few minutes until he will be "up" to fucking me the way I like. The second reason is I don't particularly like the taste of cum. I have and do swallow, but not often.

Basil:kiss:
 
Re: Re: Re: oral

basil1214 said:
omg! How horrible for you~the jaw breaking thing. Did you bite his cock off? I'm thinking that it would be a suitable repayment, especially since it would have been convienient.
As for your jaws locking up in fear, I could see how that might happen, but I couldn't imagine my sex life with out blow jobs.
I love the silky smooth texture on my tongue~instantly wet panties for me.

I also read an above post about completion. As to that, well, I don't usually suck 'till he cums, but thats for 2 reasons. One is if he has cum it will be at least a few minutes until he will be "up" to fucking me the way I like. The second reason is I don't particularly like the taste of cum. I have and do swallow, but not often.

Basil:kiss:
No I didn't bite him. He would have just hurt me worse. I should have known better then to try something he hadn't told me to. I'm a lot more careful now.
 
I had to stop and consider what you said for a min~ I wanted to make sure I followed it correctly.
As to not trying anything you are not asked to, hummmm....
what if you personally want to try something that was not verbally acknowleged? I love having the creative ablility to try what ever I want- but then I am in a long term relationship and have nothing to fear from my lover.
Then I had to wonder if I truly act on my own, of if I am given nonverbal confirmation that what I want to try is ok.
Food for thought for me


Basil
 
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