Oral sex

[kikmosa]

I had to stop and consider what you said for a min~ I wanted to make sure I followed it correctly.
As to not trying anything you are not asked to, hummmm....
what if you personally want to try something that was not verbally acknowleged? I love having the creative ablility to try what ever I want- but then I am in a long term relationship and have nothing to fear from my lover.
Then I had to wonder if I truly act on my own, of if I am given nonverbal confirmation that what I want to try is ok.
Food for thought for me


Basil

I was in a long term relationship also. I was married to him for almost 16 years. When I said nothing unless he told me to, that's exactly what I meant. I did what I was told and nothing more always. If I didn't then I paid for it.
I've been divorced for just over 5 years and I still remember every lesson he taught me. He was a forceful teacher.
I bless the day he threw me out every day. I just feel sorry for the one he's teaching now.

We all respond to suttle cues even when we don't realize it. A moan or a twitch at a touch. When your with someone then you both do it.

 

[GoddessOfSouls]

Re: Re: Re: oral

omg! How horrible for you~the jaw breaking thing. Did you bite his cock off? I'm thinking that it would be a suitable repayment, especially since it would have been convienient.
As for your jaws locking up in fear, I could see how that might happen, but I couldn't imagine my sex life with out blow jobs.
I love the silky smooth texture on my tongue~instantly wet panties for me.

I also read an above post about completion. As to that, well, I don't usually suck 'till he cums, but thats for 2 reasons. One is if he has cum it will be at least a few minutes until he will be "up" to fucking me the way I like. The second reason is I don't particularly like the taste of cum. I have and do swallow, but not often.

Basil

I tend to agree with your reasoning as I as well enjoy the good fucking, but as for the flavor, its most dictated by what he eats, sometimes the flavor is more to your liking when you watch the food intake before hand, I myself enjoy the texture the flavor, the whole experience of taking it from him, its a conection of sorts when you can feel what he feels.. *smile* Never Feed Him Fish First!! haha

 

[Celtic Princess]

Goddess~ thanks for mentioning the food thing.
*pouting* unfortunately I know exactly what it is that creates the flavor I dislike~it's protein.
My guy is an amature body builder, and he consumes a powdered form of protein after his work outs. I did lots of medical searches to find this info. Since it isn't likely for him to change his eating habits (good thing to- I like muscles) I just put up with the taste when I feel like swallowing, or I use a flavored warming oil that kind of deflects the flavor. Kama Sutra products makes a honey flavored body dust that also mildly changes the flavor.


Basil

 

[GoddessOfSouls]

Goddess~ thanks for mentioning the food thing.
*pouting* unfortunately I know exactly what it is that creates the flavor I dislike~it's protein.
My guy is an amature body builder, and he consumes a powdered form of protein after his work outs. I did lots of medical searches to find this info. Since it isn't likely for him to change his eating habits (good thing to- I like muscles) I just put up with the taste when I feel like swallowing, or I use a flavored warming oil that kind of deflects the flavor. Kama Sutra products makes a honey flavored body dust that also mildly changes the flavor.


Basil

Yummy I have a cotten candy body dust, now you have me thinking *smile* thanks hun!

 

[Celtic Princess]

Goddess~ Sure! anytime. I am always willing to help another female enjoy oral more. Eat up *g*
Ohh, and drugstore.com has awesome deals on the products I mentioned.


Basil

 

[kikmosa]

Goddess~ thanks for mentioning the food thing.
*pouting* unfortunately I know exactly what it is that creates the flavor I dislike~it's protein.
My guy is an amature body builder, and he consumes a powdered form of protein after his work outs. I did lots of medical searches to find this info. Since it isn't likely for him to change his eating habits (good thing to- I like muscles) I just put up with the taste when I feel like swallowing, or I use a flavored warming oil that kind of deflects the flavor. Kama Sutra products makes a honey flavored body dust that also mildly changes the flavor.


Basil

See if you can get him to add banana's to his diet. I've read that it will give him a sweeter flavor. It only take two or three a day to do it. I'll try to find where i read that at and post it here.

 

[Celtic Princess]

See if you can get him to add banana's to his diet. I've read that it will give him a sweeter flavor. It only take two or three a day to do it. I'll try to find where i read that at and post it here.

lol! thanks for the tip, but really: he eats lots of bananas for the potassium. it helps with muscle cramping and rebuilding. (btw strawberries and kiwi are supposed to help too)

*signing* oh well. I will have to endure in the name of great sex *g*

such a hardship...

Basil

 

[appetite]

Re: blow jobs

When the one I adored was still alive .... I would make sure that he got at least six from me daily.... I loved pleasing him.

you are wonderful and loving. pleasing with six a day. wow. your guy was very blessed and cared for by you

Appe

 

[appetite]

Re: no hubby but sig other

I enjoyed giveing this blow job. I like what my last lover said.

Cream from heaven is bestowed to the diligent lips of my daughter of Passion.

They are words I dearly miss.

those are surly quotable words. would like to borrow them if you tell me how to show proper credit.

Appe

 

[appetite]

Hrm... when you say giving head is part of a normal routine... do you mean to compleation?

I know i for one would rather orally please him and then start other sexual activity. I don't normally do it to full compleation and he dosn'et mind it... who wouldn't want to go from a warm mouth to another warm hole.
Giving head is part of foplay... with the exeption of a really quick quickie, forplay is part of every sex session.
Going to compleation... well maybe once in a while but i'd rather finish with a good fucking.

wonderfull choice for completing the passion and lovemaking

 

[moonshade]

It's as normal as a kiss or him sucking a nipple or other things

 

[plasticman33]

I consider it foreplay, I've rarely cum that way and would prefer not to. I'd rather make sure my partner is satisfied, before I let myself go!

 

[moonshade]

I consider it foreplay, I've rarely cum that way and would prefer not to. I'd rather make sure my partner is satisfied, before I let myself go!

My hubby's the same way, but he has never cum in my mouth. I would like him to do it at least once

 

[Master1stgirl]

Re: Re: no hubby but sig other

those are surly quotable words. would like to borrow them if you tell me how to show proper credit.

Appe

You are most welcome to keep those words to heart.

 

[appetite]

Re: Re: Re: no hubby but sig other

You are most welcome to keep those words to heart.

Thank you, again, darling. I trust this day will give you happiness and fulfillment. In every desire you have.

Ah, yes
"Cream from heaven is bestowed to the diligent lips of my daughter of Passion."

Appetitie

 

[Master1stgirl]

Smiles

However to really understand those words was the way we were raised by our Master.

He died this last Christmas. At the time of his death there were 14 Daughters of Passion.

His abundant ways of love and life gave several of the Daughters of Passion with Blessing ( pregnant).

Out of the group there are six of us expecting the bliss of Motherhood. Half have brought forth five sons.

Our Master gave those words to us when one of us had the priveledge to lie in his bed.

Oral was just something that we all did and enjoyed. As for now, he is greatly missed not only by the Daughters of Passion but the blessings that bare his love too.

 

[appetite]

Re: Smiles

However to really understand those words was the way we were raised by our Master.

He died this last Christmas. At the time of his death there were 14 Daughters of Passion.

His abundant ways of love and life gave several of the Daughters of Passion with Blessing ( pregnant).

Out of the group there are six of us expecting the bliss of Motherhood. Half have brought forth five sons.

Our Master gave those words to us when one of us had the priveledge to lie in his bed.

Oral was just something that we all did and enjoyed. As for now, he is greatly missed not only by the Daughters of Passion but the blessings that bare his love too.

ou have expressed this in such loving and reverent manner. I understand your deep lose. i hope that in time healing for his loss with take place. You express a very loving and close relationship between each of you.
Thanks for sharing and openness.

Appetite