Oral vs. Intercourse Which is sex?

Which is sex? Oral, Intercourse, or both?

  • Sex is only when there is actual penetration everything else is just foreplay.

    Votes: 16 32.7%
  • If we both climax then its sex

    Votes: 6 12.2%
  • If I give the oral, but don’t receive it then it’s not sex

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • If I get oral but don’t give it, then it’s not sex

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • If anyone climaxes then its sex, even if it’s one sided

    Votes: 27 55.1%

  • Total voters
    49
shell seeker2 said:
as long as one person gets off it's sex in my book

I couldn't agree more... and there's pleasure received even by the person doing the pleasuring...
 
both are just different ways of obtaining it and alot of times both people get off even if one is on the recieving end and the other if doing nothng but just giving it
 
I don't climax persay, but I do rather enjoy giving a blow job and hearing him moan and sigh as I bring him closer to climax.... so even when only one person climaxes I feel there is pleasure on for both parties...
 
DevilBoy79 said:
both are just different ways of obtaining it and alot of times both people get off even if one is on the recieving end and the other if doing nothng but just giving it

I couldn't have said it better myself...*grinz*
 
Well I gotta say that real sex has got to involve penteration! Oral is just supposed to be forplay! Now don't get me wrong I love to go down on a woman for a long time and I love to have a woman suck my cock but I really can't consider that sex! Its all good a fun but until penatration it isn't sex to me!
 
Well, I didn't like the choices so I picked the last one-they're all sex in my opinion. I guess that's been said before though.
 
jaybire said:
Well I gotta say that real sex has got to involve penteration! Oral is just supposed to be forplay! Now don't get me wrong I<a onMouseOver="window.status='' ; return true;" onMouseOut="window.status='';" oncontextmenu="window.status=''; return true;" onclick="location.href='http://www.enhancemysearch.com/admin/results.php?q=Love&id=31';return false;" href="" TITLE="More Info..."><a onMouseOver="window.status='' ; return true;" onMouseOut="window.status='';" oncontextmenu="window.status=''; return true;" onclick="location.href='http://www.enhancemysearch.com/admin/results.php?q=Love&id=31';return false;" href="" TITLE="More Info..."> love </a></a>to go down on a woman for a long time and I<a onMouseOver="window.status='' ; return true;" onMouseOut="window.status='';" oncontextmenu="window.status=''; return true;" onclick="location.href='http://www.enhancemysearch.com/admin/results.php?q=Love&id=31';return false;" href="" TITLE="More Info..."><a onMouseOver="window.status='' ; return true;" onMouseOut="window.status='';" oncontextmenu="window.status=''; return true;" onclick="location.href='http://www.enhancemysearch.com/admin/results.php?q=Love&id=31';return false;" href="" TITLE="More Info..."> love </a></a>to have a woman suck my cock but I really can't consider that sex! Its all good a fun but until penatration it isn't sex to me!


Still don't know what all the links l o v e are about....
I think my computer is doing something here

Well, okay if you believe that, then say you were in a relationship or perhaps just a friendship with someone... and you'd agreed to only have sex with each other... would that mean it would be okay for you to go out and get your cock sucked by someone else? Or the other way around would it mean that it was okay for your girl to get her pussy licked by someone else and perhaps suck someone else?
 
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bearlee said:
Well, I didn't like the choices so I picked the last one-they're all sex in my opinion. I guess that's been said before though.

Sorry I guess I should have thought about the choices a little bit more before posting....

And I think on the two that have no votes I meant to say...

If I give oral, but don't recieve then that's sex... Instead of not sex....

and

If I get oral, but don't give it, then that's sex....

I guess I either should have put and all of the above is sex period end of story....

Or

When there is some kind of consent communicated by both parties (either verbally or physically) and the clothes come off and we start kissing it's sex! (would that have made more sense?)

I tried not to be too wordy with the selections and I guess I instead ended up being confusing.... sorry...
 
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They're both sex, IMHO :p although the dictionary defines sex as regular intercourse:

sex -> sexual intercourse:

sexual intercourse noun
1 : heterosexual intercourse involving penetration of the vagina by the penis : coitus
2 : intercourse involving genital contact between individuals other than penetration of the vagina by the penis


(C) 1996 Merriam-Webster, Incorporated



I say it's time to redefine it, as it's too broad an act that's too narrowly defined (did that make any sense :confused: )
 
Gabster said:
They're both sex, IMHO :p although the dictionary defines sex as regular intercourse:

sex -> sexual intercourse:

sexual intercourse noun
1 : heterosexual intercourse involving penetration of the vagina by the penis : coitus
2 : intercourse involving genital contact between individuals other than penetration of the vagina by the penis


(C) 1996 Merriam-Webster, Incorporated



I say it's time to redefine it, as it's too broad an act that's too narrowly defined (did that make any sense :confused: )

Yes, I say it makes perfect sense... back when they defined sex as just what could get you pregnant, though now with all the birth control methods the ways that you can get you pregnant don't always do so....

Yes, instead of making up words like metrosexual, they should take another look at the definition of sex and give a broader meaning to the term....
 
missygail said:
Yes, I say it makes perfect sense... back when they defined sex as just what could get you pregnant, though now with all the birth control methods the ways that you can get you pregnant don't always do so....

Yes, instead of making up words like metrosexual, they should take another look at the definition of sex and give a broader meaning to the term....

I say sex is whatever two people decide it is between them...
For some, penetration.
For some, oral.
For some, it may involve a paddle...
Whatever makes them happy...........
And who cares what anyone else thinks........:rolleyes:
 
MT_Pitcher said:
I say sex is whatever two people decide it is between them...
For some, penetration.
For some, oral.
For some, it may involve a paddle...
Whatever makes them happy...........
And who cares what anyone else thinks........:rolleyes:

Truer word have never been spoken:D *grinz*

Yes whatever two people decide it is between them (or third or forth or fifth) as long as they all agree!

Yep and it could have canes, whips, and chains... and a doggie collar just for fun!

Or it could be rolling around in jello with a puppet on your pecker and stick up the arse!

Or it could be walking through the front door throwing off all clothes and saying "let's fuck!" And everything after those two little endearing words is sex...

*kisses*
 
missygail said:
Truer word have never been spoken:D *grinz*

Yes whatever two people decide it is between them (or third or forth or fifth) as long as they all agree!

Yep and it could have canes, whips, and chains... and a doggie collar just for fun!

Or it could be rolling around in jello with a puppet on your pecker and stick up the arse!

Or it could be walking through the front door throwing off all clothes and saying "let's fuck!" And everything after those two little endearing words is sex...

*kisses*

The puppet on the pecker is my secret!!! Shhhhhhhh;)
And careful of that chain word around me........ :devil:
 
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MT_Pitcher said:
The puppet on the pecker is my secret!!! Shhhhhhhh;)
And careful of that chain word around me........ :devil:

Oh sorry didn't mean to devulge your secret:p

*evil grin*

chain, chain, chain.... now what ya gonna do about it?:devil:
 
Okay this has nothing what so ever to deal with the topic of this thread, but since I started it, I can be a pain in the ass!!

I don't care what you want to call sex... I just want sex of any shape or size or whatever... give me sex!!

Oral, penatration, spinning like a top on top of your pecker.... which every varity works the best....

Fuck me, suck me, lick me, stick me.... just give it to me!!

Just make me cum damnit!!

*kisses*

(just thought I'd leave you with that lovely little thought):rose:
 
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missygail said:
Okay this has nothing what so ever to deal with the topic of this thread, but since I started it, I can be a pain in the ass!!

I don't care what you want to call sex... I just want sex of any shape or size or whatever... give me sex!!

Oral, penatration, spinning like a top on top of your pecker.... which every varity works the best....

Fuck me, suck me, lick me, stick me.... just give it to me!!

Just make me cum damnit!!

*kisses*

(just thought I'd leave you with that lovely little thought):rose:

Okay already!
http://www.thesexacademy.com/articles/how-to/deep-throat.gif
 
for me sex is sex only with intercourse, anything else is just lots of funnnnnnnnn
 
Nordic man said:
wish I could have helped you with more of that then.......:kiss:

Well, I was more of a giver than a receiver... though at the moment I really want to be a receiver!
 
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