Organizing an orgy

[Silk_Sheets]

I must say that this is my first time posting, and that I love it here on Literotica. I haven't posted any stories yet, as I don't think I'm quite ready, but I have more than a few that I'm working on.

I'm posting today to ask for advice, not about a story, but about real life. I am an intelligent, good-looking, fit male living in a major city. I am bi, and I have a fair amount of friends, male and female, who are intelligent, good-looking, fit, and bi. I've done sexual stuff with a few of them, but I've always thought about going further: I'd like to organize an orgy among the bisexual people in my circle of friends.

We're not especially close, not best friends or anything, as I'm not stupid enough to go there. Some of us are single, as I am, and some of us are couples. We're all very sexual, and about half of us have been in three-or-more sex situations. We're all attractive, and attracted to each other, at least on the superficial, physical level, which is all you really need for an orgy.

The only problem is, I have no idea how to propose this plan. It's really not the kind of thing that you just blurt out. "Hey Steve, wanna bring your girlfriend over to my place, where all our friends will be, and we can all fuck?"
I made up the name Steve, by the way.

Having an orgy with people that you know well is a hell of a lot safer (and more fun, in my opinion) than going to a sex club or an erotic resort. It's just that the logistics are a lot harder. We've tried to do normal stuff in the past, like going to parties or going to the movies, and let me tell you, I'd rather blow Winston Churchill than try to get this group of twenty-somethings in the same room together for a simple get-together, let alone group sex !

Plus, there's no real resource for this kind of thing. Whenever it happens in porn, it's always ...well, porn: totally unrealistic. And I certainly won't find any help in Martha Stewart Living. So I came here. If anyone has anything to say, please do so; I've got a million questions that need answering, and I'm in way over my head ! Thanks.

 

[bisexplicit]

Not that I've ever organized such a thing, but you could consider throwing a normal party and send invitations indicating that it's an "adult" party. Then, potentially, have soft-core, generally unoffensive porn to try to start things off.

Also, you could just consider talking to one of your closer friends about if they think thats something everyone would be interested in.

Make sure to have lots of condoms available.

 

[Bystander]

i dunno anything about this kind of thing but I'd say if its the first time for these folks you'll need to do something to help ease people in to it.
I know alcohol kills inhibitions (too much can also kill performance) but it might help to have some kinda games or stuff going to kick the thing off.
I dunno strip poker, adult board games or something.

Oh also masks might help. Like those mardi gras kind.

But ofcourse that all comes after you get the thing started which is your problem atm. So ignore me till then

 

[bisexplicit]

Bystander - FYI, most states have laws regarding alcohol and consent. When organizing a party like this, I'd try to keep it light on the alcohol (make sure no one is more than slightly buzzed).

 

[Silk_Sheets]

So far, you have all been very helpful. I like all of your suggestions. reguarding the masks, I think that if done right, it would create an incredibly erotic and "mysterious" mood, which I know would be a big hit; however, I'll have to be careful not to overdo it, or it'll be like in "Eyes Wide Shut". Yech.

Thanks, but we're not done yet. I'd love to hear more feedback.

 

[Guest]

 

[silverwhisper]

OK, so i see 2 questions here:

1. how do you broach the topic?
2. how do you manage the logistics?

1. honestly, i say an alcohol-tinged conversation is the best way to broach a topic like this. people are often less reserved if they've been imbibing, IMX. no actual sex is probably safer, per bi's comment. OTOH, simply sending out invitations to a party (with a list of prospective attendees perhaps) might also work: that depends i think upon the folks involved.

2. the logistics are tricky as they will necessarily be dependent upon venue and number of attendees. a BYO policy on toys is probably a good idea, but i'd suggest supplying an assortment of lubes and condoms. people should take the responsibility for their own sexual health and pleasure but people do occasionally forget such things.

ed

 

[long_haired_lad]

Can I have an invite?

 

[Handongland]

Can I have an invite?

Me too dude