Orgasm: Loud or quiet?

[hornygirl]

Quiet has never been used to describe me in any way

and in bed its no different. I just cant help being loud. I've even tried to make a conscious effort at being quieter and that didnt last very long.

My 23 yr old niece rents the apartment across from me (we share a hall wall) and she told me one night she had a male friend over and they apparently heard me and he commented how "someone was having alot of fun". She just told him there was a college guy living downstairs (which there is) because she just couldnt spit out it was her aunt.

 

[Etaski]

Sweet nothings, cuss words, wordless moans, cat-like yowls, bear-like growls.....

I find my natural inclination is being vocal with someone because I'm hoping they like the feedback and will talk to me in return.
Hasn't always happened: my "first" covered my mouth once (I got pissed), and told me that my talking was "distracting him" (that was red flag of incompatibility #1), and was overall quite silent. I could only figure it was because he was used to cumming silently while masturbating at home. Over time, I became a very quiet fucker too, but I wasn't happy about it. It didn't really help our communication....

My future husband, on the other hand, encouraged me to talk, and I embraced the murmurs and moans, and him! As a direct result, we actually have excellent phone sex, too (with some practice).

And there's really nothing like the dirty words and snarling growls when things get lava hot! I feel flashes of heat in my abdomen!

(And I'm rather sad that I didn't have neighbors such as you fine people when I lived in the dorms. I loved overhearing lovemaking---I just didn't get the chance too often. When I did, I stopped what I was doing and just listened. Gave me some very nice feelings!)

 

[ivorylines20]

vocalizing

I wouldn't say that I'm always on the loud side, but I am vocal unless there's some obvious reason not to be (especially being in my parents' house). It just kind of comes naturally and is generally pretty difficult to suppress. I also love hearing my boyfriend in bed, altho he's definitely not as vocal as I am. I love knowing that I've driven him to that point that he just can't keep it in anymore.

 

[Luv2PleasureF]

Lol. Ok, that brings up another question, if you dont mind me asking - Have either you or your partner been too loud during sex (or whatever) to the point where you recive complaints? If so, how do/did you react?

This reminds me of an... um, "incident" from back in my college days. My GF at the time was quite loud during our sessions, so if she knew anyone was around she did her best to muffle her moans and screams.

However, one day while at her house off-campus, we took a sojourn to the basement to keep cool (early in the school year). One thing led to another, and since no one was home when we went down, we had no care about the decibel levels. Turns out, all four of her female roommates, along with a slew of friends came home while we were in the thick of orgasmic throes. We came back upstairs to thunderous applause from the crowd, and for years afterwards, we were reminded with laughter of what became known as "The Basement Caper".

Would I call it a complaint? No... Did I mind? Hell no. Guys and girls alike, they were envious of us and we knew it.

These days it's a bit different. My honey and I would have to be ridiculously loud to be heard by my neighbors. We both get rather vocal, but enough for the neighbors to complain? I doubt it. The kids are a different story. I know neither of us wants to hear them asking why we were making so much noise in the wee hours of the morning, so we do the adult thing and keep the music up and the moans down.

 

[Crucified]

Vocal!

 

[Gelert Lonewolf]

Again, first of all let me thank eceryone for their imput, it has been very usefull and much appreciated...

Luv2 - Thats must have been quite interesting. Also, I find things like that are HARDLY forgotten, lol!

Etaski - That is actually quite bad. To silence you. Glad to see that you becme wise to the ways of the ass-hole anyway. Hope your happy with your partner now.

Ok, so, yet ANOTHER question - Would you prefer your partner to be vocal or silent?

 

[hornygirl]

A loud or quiet partner

I dont mind either. Sometimes it can be a turn on.

However, I do remember one time long ago when I was on vacation in North Carolina and I hooked up with a friend's boss. We were making out and with his southern drawl he just kept praising my "titties". Well, I dont know what it is, but the word titties just makes me giggle (I dont know why) and with the southern twang to it....it just killed the moment. I just couldnt continue.

So after all that I guess it would all depend on what is being said.

 

[naughtygirl69s]

I generally am very noisy and prefer my partners to be as well, but you're what, if they say something silly it can ruin it sometimes.....nothing like hearing a grunt or growl from a guy that he just couldn't hold back cuz it felt so good....that can send me over the edge......also if I'm very close to cumming and a guy whispers something naughty in my ear, that can send me over the edge

I also have enjoyed overhearing neighbors on occasion

 

[handyypete]

I generally am very noisy and prefer my partners to be as well, but you're what, if they say something silly it can ruin it sometimes.....nothing like hearing a grunt or growl from a guy that he just couldn't hold back cuz it felt so good....that can send me over the edge......also if I'm very close to cumming and a guy whispers something naughty in my ear, that can send me over the edge

I also have enjoyed overhearing neighbors on occasion

I know just what you mean about enjoying the occasional overhearing of others - can be quite arousing. But I do find that noisy orgasm is what really tips me over the edge - partly I suppose it's confirmation of shared pleasure, though maybe there's some deeper instinct at work too - who knows - it just feels good!

 

[handyypete]

Sex in the morning.....mmmmm! Just wake up, feel for something hard and then hop on! I love the feeling! I wish could control my moaning so the neighbors wouldn't hear tho.

Love that on-waking feeling - but then us guys are wired for it ....

 

[babydoll2u]

I'm very noisy... ugh I don't like that word, lol.
Let's say I'm "Vocal" during both sex and orgasm.
I like for my partner to be as well. I like to know that I'm pleasing
him.
And when I'm being pleased... well, I just can't be quiet.
But then again, that's me any time

 

[janisjoplin197888]

I too am very vocal during sex, especially while orgasaming and I LOVE nothing more than to hear my lover express his pleasure too. It always gets me that much more excited!

 

[fathom7]

I'm very noisy... ugh I don't like that word, lol.
Let's say I'm "Vocal" during both sex and orgasm.
I like for my partner to be as well. I like to know that I'm pleasing
him.
And when I'm being pleased... well, I just can't be quiet.
But then again, that's me any time

You continue to echant babydoll --

As for the response to the question: Yup -- vocal but generally at the moment of climax. Before that it depends. Sometimes its just plain fun and I can't help it.

As to earlier question about "too loud and disturbed someone" -- yes it's happened.
Hotel twice (I swear it was HER fault making all the noise) -- Apartment a few times (the banging on the common wall was most annoying) and once in the back of a Pickup Truck (someone heard and thought it would be hilarious to bang on the camper shell - sorta took the edge off the mood).

AHHHHHHH -- sweet memories.

 

[someplace]

Aural stimulation by both parties can be very exciting. I have a hard time being quiet.

This thread reminded me of one of my favorite giggles: Explaining to a mutual friend about a recent multi-partner sexcapade, the friend asked, "So who was louder, you or [the other girl]?" Without missing a beat, I said, "She was." Without missing another beat, the friend replied, "She said the same thing about YOU."

 

[Daddy's Angel]

I'm very vocal as well, and I beg him to tell me all about it when he's ready to give me his load.

 

[tkinsc]

With a child in the house, at times we have to be quiet. However, there are times when we can be nice and vocal.

Hearing my wife moan and scream is a big turn-on. However, if we have to be quiet, Feeling her bite my shoulder to muffle a scream is a huge turn-on also.

 

[Gelert Lonewolf]

Well... this is turning out to be quite a popular and interesting post. I am actually quite surprised, lol.

 

[Exciteher]

Yeppers, sounds do it for me too! Sound is another sense! And I love sex to be an all sense experience! Seeing, hearing, tasting, touching, smelling! So I love all the sounds, and in every way, soft naughty whispers... to a hot dirty exchange... to the loud and gutteral! Hearing and knowing my partners pleasure is a big turn-on for me too! I have had more partners than not that like it too, and a often I can feel what I am moaning, saying or screaming...in their pussy!

And the body sounds!! Pubs crashing, balls slapping, those fucking noises that can get really loud when your are really fucking hard and fast... or those intimate "smuck, smuck.. smuck...smuck.." sounds when you are giving each other a good smooth screw...add that to the "OH YES!"s and the "OH FUCK!"'s and the ever popluar "OH GOD!"'s... whats not to like?

I remember when I was young and stoopid...and the very first real "screamer" I ever fucked, she was so noisy she worried me... I asked her "feel good?"...she moaned through her screams "oh yeah"... I kept going taking her at her word but she was making so much noise I was getting anxious and having an increasingly hard time cuming so I ended up fucking her for quite a while and like mad... but the harder I fucked her, the more she screamed... finally I stopped and said "Sure you are OK?" and she just screamed "FUCK ME YOU IDIOT!"..lol! That was an education I can tell you!!

 

[Gelert Lonewolf]

Yeppers, sounds do it for me too! Sound is another sense! And I love sex to be an all sense experience! Seeing, hearing, tasting, touching, smelling! So I love all the sounds, and in every way, soft naughty whispers... to a hot dirty exchange... to the loud and gutteral! Hearing and knowing my partners pleasure is a big turn-on for me too! I have had more partners than not that like it too, and a often I can feel what I am moaning, saying or screaming...in their pussy!

And the body sounds!! Pubs crashing, balls slapping, those fucking noises that can get really loud when your are really fucking hard and fast... or those intimate "smuck, smuck.. smuck...smuck.." sounds when you are giving each other a good smooth screw...add that to the "OH YES!"s and the "OH FUCK!"'s and the ever popluar "OH GOD!"'s... whats not to like?

I remember when I was young and stoopid...and the very first real "screamer" I ever fucked, she was so noisy she worried me... I asked her "feel good?"...she moaned through her screams "oh yeah"... I kept going taking her at her word but she was making so much noise I was getting anxious and having an increasingly hard time cuming so I ended up fucking her for quite a while and like mad... but the harder I fucked her, the more she screamed... finally I stopped and said "Sure you are OK?" and she just screamed "FUCK ME YOU IDIOT!"..lol! That was an education I can tell you!!

Damn - thats one hell of an experience, lol. I bet you didn't stop again, lol. Thanks for that piece of info mate.

Catch ya later. Take care.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

My wife says that I tend to "growl" or even "roar" during sex. She says I'm like one of those lions she sees on Animal Planet or the Nature Channel, or whatever, that just has to let the rest of the African plains know that he's getting some. I usually don't notice since I get so wrapped up in the moment.

Depending on what I'm doing to her, she can be a moaner, a screamer or anywhere in between.

 

[lunablu63]

Depends on mood...sometimes dirty talk, sometimes just sounds of mutual pleasure...

But I like to be LOUD!!!

 

[WyldChylde]

Current gf is VERY loud during sex... turns me on to no end!

I vary though... moans and low "growling" most often, but occassionally dirty talking right in her ear (which turns her on even more and makes her louder - BONUS!!!). I've got a naturally very deep voice which tends to help turn most women on anyway though.

 

[XblueyedevilX]

its a turn on for most because of the gratifaction most people want. if your screaming your partner is probably doing a good job personaly i love to hear the girl im with make some noise it makes me feel hot to learn just how much she loves whati im doin anyone can say it but when thier screaming youknow your doing good

 

[rydia57]

Yes, I like hearing him too, whispering to go on, that beautiful moan when he's about to cum, and I'm always liking to whisper something dirty in their ear...like we're cheering each other on... So tell me something then, if a guy is hard down there in the morning maybe he's half asleep or something... would the erection be more from his just having to urinate before it would be sexually aroused? I don't know... and it felt funny having to guess....

 

[Gelert Lonewolf]

Usually a man has an erection in the morning because it is a natural bodyily reaction. It is to prevent a man from urinating in his sleep. But it can also be from any sexual thoughts from the night before.

Either way... Its still there. And always fun to use, lol!

Catch ya later. Take care.