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[bruce454]

Okay first I want to say I am married (20yrs) and have a good relationship. The sex is not enough, but when it happens its hot and steamy for both of us. I am orally incline..more in giving, but recieving is okay. I have recently caught the eye of a much younger female at work. She is a real good flirter, and she keeps making contact by rubbing my hand, arm, butt, etc. This week she has been adamant about taking me into the closet for a blow job. She braggs about being able to lick my balls while holding the shaft deep in her throat. She also tells me she keeps her pussy shaved smooth (I have never experienced a shaved one before). So the dilema..risk 20 years of a good relationship for two min in heaven?

What would you do?

Women is this just a trap?

 

[Eilan]

Don't shit where you eat.

 

[toshiskitten]

Okay first I want to say I am married (20yrs) and have a good relationship. The sex is not enough, but when it happens its hot and steamy for both of us. I am orally incline..more in giving, but recieving is okay. I have recently caught the eye of a much younger female at work. She is a real good flirter, and she keeps making contact by rubbing my hand, arm, butt, etc. This week she has been adamant about taking me into the closet for a blow job. She braggs about being able to lick my balls while holding the shaft deep in her throat. She also tells me she keeps her pussy shaved smooth (I have never experienced a shaved one before). So the dilema..risk 20 years of a good relationship for two min in heaven?

What would you do?

Women is this just a trap?

Is it worth losing your wife?

 

[NomadLady]

Okay first I want to say I am married (20yrs) and have a good relationship. The sex is not enough, but when it happens its hot and steamy for both of us. I am orally incline..more in giving, but recieving is okay. I have recently caught the eye of a much younger female at work. She is a real good flirter, and she keeps making contact by rubbing my hand, arm, butt, etc. This week she has been adamant about taking me into the closet for a blow job. She braggs about being able to lick my balls while holding the shaft deep in her throat. She also tells me she keeps her pussy shaved smooth (I have never experienced a shaved one before). So the dilema..risk 20 years of a good relationship for two min in heaven?

What would you do?

Women is this just a trap?

Do not play where you work....it's not worth losing a wife AND your job.

 

[OzoneRed]

Never get your meat where you get your bread.

 

[SweetErika]

Ask your wife to shave and give you a blowjob in the closet.

Problem solved.

If you really have to think about this, you're an idiot who deserves to lose his wife, job and gain a whopping sexual harassment lawsuit.

 

[HOG1954]

Don't do it. I have been married for 34 years and have never cheated. Use things you learn on here from the sexy ladies to spice up your home life. It is ok to play here with the ladies, just don't go there in real life. I've seen too many fiends destroy their family over this, and few have any lasting pleasure to show for it.
In my experience, if you put as much effort into exciting your wife as you do flirting with this girl, you may find you have a bombshell in your bed every night Now wouldn't having a live in, blow your mind lover beat the craap out of a closet BJ?

 

[RuReal]

Flirting is fine in most relationships, but moving beyond that to actually even think about doing this is just wrong.

Temptation exists, but why would you want to do something like that to your wife. Better question how would you feel if your wife did something like this to you? I always find that if you put yourself in the other persons shoes it tells you want to do.

Main point number two. Don't dip your damn pen in the corporate ink nothing but bad tends to come from things like that. Just the other day I heard a story at work about someone who made that mistake now he is a bitter bitter man. Good luck.

 

[omgitselaine]

What you do is jerk off 3 times before going to work so she doesnt get you worked up and tempted

If you do mess around with her the second you cum you'll realize it just wasn't worth it and that " daaaammmm " karma is going to be a bittch so DON'T !

 

[talismania]

It's a bad idea, for all the reasons everyone has already given. Also... why is she so hot to give you a blow job? You don't mention making a connection or mutually falling in lust, just that she likes to "flirt".

Maybe she is just a girl who likes to rev a guy's engine. But is it possible she's setting you up? My husband is dealing with something like that at work. One of his male employees revealed that he'd gotten sexually involved with a co-worker who is now holding that knowledge over his head. It's threatening to blow up into a big mess.

Call me paranoid, but this situation has a huge downside.

 

[culloden]

Okay first I want to say I am married (20yrs) and have a good relationship. The sex is not enough, but when it happens its hot and steamy for both of us. I am orally incline..more in giving, but recieving is okay. I have recently caught the eye of a much younger female at work. She is a real good flirter, and she keeps making contact by rubbing my hand, arm, butt, etc. This week she has been adamant about taking me into the closet for a blow job. She braggs about being able to lick my balls while holding the shaft deep in her throat. She also tells me she keeps her pussy shaved smooth (I have never experienced a shaved one before). So the dilema..risk 20 years of a good relationship for two min in heaven?

What would you do?

Women is this just a trap?

Don't do it.

 

[fgarvb1]

Reminds me of a woman who said she was going to "Fuck her way to the top of this company"

She didn't.

She did fuck her way high enough to sue and get enough to retire however.

Where are YOU placed in the company?

 

[favoritesgoddess]

Don't piss up the tree you're climbing.

You might have a sexual harassment suit of your own if she keeps making those suggestions to you. It's not kosher no matter who's making the comments.

 

[Red_and_Mackie]

Okay first I want to say I am married (20yrs) and have a good relationship. The sex is not enough, but when it happens its hot and steamy for both of us. I am orally incline..more in giving, but recieving is okay. I have recently caught the eye of a much younger female at work. She is a real good flirter, and she keeps making contact by rubbing my hand, arm, butt, etc. This week she has been adamant about taking me into the closet for a blow job. She braggs about being able to lick my balls while holding the shaft deep in her throat. She also tells me she keeps her pussy shaved smooth (I have never experienced a shaved one before). So the dilema..risk 20 years of a good relationship for two min in heaven?

What would you do?

Women is this just a trap?

It is obvious what you are going to do so why are you asking for advice? At this point you know what her pussy looks like and that she can suck cock like a porn star. If you didn't want to go through with this you would have slammed the door shut on the sex talk.

Welcome to the world of cliche. Here's to the classic midlife crisis, a devastated wife who will leave your sorry ass, losing half your 401K and all of your house, and a flirty little young thing to take anything the divorce attorneys might miss.

For your sake, I hope she sucks like a fucking Hoover.

 

[fabricator]

Don't go there. You will get hurt, and hurt others in the process. BAD, BAD thing to do.

 

[squarejohn]

If you yield to temptation, what will follow will be the administrative equivalent of death.

You will lose your wife and everything you two have built and accumulated.
You will wind up living alone and in greatly reduced circumstances.
You will probably lose your job.
Your credit score will go to zero.
Your friends will lose respect for you and will probably shun you.
You will spend your days in a shabby, furnished room, watching black and white TV, and eating baloney sandwiches.
You will suffer constant mental agony with the realization of what you lost (threw away), and your future will be bleak.

Somebody else will have your previous job, maybe the blowjob girl herself.
Your ex-wife will have found a man more to her liking and she will be fucking him in your ex-bed.

Since you asked for advice, here it is.

Tell your wife about the young lady. In this circumstance, she is your best friend.
Take this young lady to a place where you can talk privately.
Bring someone--or two--trusted friends as witnesses.
Tell the young lady that you are a happily married man and have no interest in her advances. Don't be too wordy about it, be cold. This is a time to be civil, rather than polite. After you've said your piece, because of the presence of your witnesses, she may deny making advances. Ignore her and turn and leave the room.

It probably won't end smoothly (though it may), but what happens next will be minor compared to what a blowjob will cost you.