I've been with my husband for 11 years and married for the past 7.im now 34 and he started sharing me with his friends after wed been together for about 18 months and then with the occasionally stranger we'd meet in a club or contact site.a few years ago I was mistaken in a hotel bar for an escort as I was in a nice but revealing dress and I told the guy I was with someone so he left and when I told my husband he suggested I go back to him as it was a fantasy of us both.my husband followed us as I went to his room so he knew where I was and an hour later I returned as after having sex with the guy.we carried on doing it occasionally then I got the need for a pimp to control everything and yes take ownership.my husband wasn't sure at first but after a while excepted my feelings and said asking as at home I'm he's he's ok with me giving myself to another guy or guys.
I enjoy ownership and control. I very much see my partners as equals and I don't think I should own them because I'm male and they are female. More that I'm a Dom and they are a sub who desires my ownership over them.
I don't think it should always be easy. Ownership, and obedience, are easy when it untested or something someone really desires. I don't make people do things they hate, and I respect hard limits. But that area where a submissive is doing something just for my pleasure. Very hot. That feeling of ownership and power. mmm
