Paramedic, new here =)

turning into a lovely evening off of work =)

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Scotch makes everything just a little bit more lovely.

Figured it out, all you gotta do is click the link and then the play button in the middle! For those that were talking about music and the band photos I had posted yesterday.

I hope you enjoy (me singing, back in my more youthful days).

http://sfx.io/ts071

Not gonna lie, I’m left rather sad this link doesn’t work... would have liked to hear you singing...

hopefully everyone appreciates these more than the guy looking at my across the street did.. LOL <3!

thanks to tali for the idea, worked pretty well! i think ill take more like this soonish.

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gloomy weather outside if my favorite.

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These, all very similar, are really nice. The shadows and way the light hits you... definitely good quality, thoughtfully artistic pictures.

well i was told i should log on for the first time in forever and say 'hello' so....

hello!

not sure who all is still around here even, if i even know anyone these days =P

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Hello! (Day late, dollar short? ... still relevant?)

may have knocked camera over and this is the end result as it was falling...

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but a smallish b & w picture update incoming in just a few minutes...

tcw

I really like this “accident” picture. That is all.

a little different of an idea, maybe a little white scrub pants and some water combined to see what the outcome might possibly be. i hate my scars, but hopefully you all will enjoy them anyways! <3 <3 <3 you all!

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and now im soaking wet, hope it was worth it ;)

I had to wear a white scrub top for school (the class got together and burned them in a huge graduation fire)... these pants make me cringe to think of them... and then smile because you make the best of them with some fun pictures. :D

Hello again, to all my "old" friends and anyone new coming around. It seems as though it has been almost 2 full years since I actually posted on this. I am planning on making a new thread, as this one is very long, and quite old at this point. However due to wanting to send an update to those that helped me over the years, kept me in their thoughts, or was just a friend I could talk to at times while going through hell and back (a few times over), I figured I would at least post this longer message here for those that might recognize the title still...

Well, things are most definitely different these days to say the very least. But in great ways. I am cancer free (a bit over 2 years now). My health is as good as it has been in maybe 15 or even 20 years. I am able to work full time again, and though I am still a paramedic part time (every other Saturday), I did fall into a new career that I thoroughly enjoy (most days at least).

I have a house now, that I own outright and outside of a yearly property tax and a couple very small monthly bills, I have owe no one and nothing. Hospital debt, personal loans and assistance, and even rent is a thing of the past.

For the first time in...a long time (if ever at all) my life is beyond simple. Slow paced. Easy-going. Drama-free. But most importantly, my life is happy. While I still do not know many people (even after 2 years back in Detroit), the people I do know mean the world to me. As some of you might remember, things were very bleak for a substantial amount of time. Between losing everything, for a second time due to a hurricane, battling through chemo and cancer, or having to face being homeless, things were at their worst for months and months on end.

There are a few people here that were kind enough to help me along the way. The ones that did, know who you are, and I am forever in your debt. Every day I try to pay it forward in the best ways I know how, even to the extent of starting a business with a few trusted friends to fight homelessness here in the Metro Detroit area. We salvage abandoned and boarded up homes, let those living on the street that want to make a change live there, and teach them the trade skills to rebuild and remodel the home. This would never have been possible if it wasn't for a few caring and kindhearted women I met through this site. Again, I owe my life to you few.

As those that recall my posts here years ago can probably remember, I can tend to get rather long winded, and ramble on and on and....

So for now I will leave this here, with the first relatively 'naughty' picture I have taken of myself for this site in years (or any site/anything). I am sure I am about to go down a rabbit hole looking for those that I remember here vividly.

https://i.imgur.com/XfP4IGO.jpg?1

:heart::heart: cheers everyone :heart::heart:

Your past 4 years sound so turbulent, full of health problems and personal setbacks. Anyway, I look forward to reading your journey from here, hoping it is nothing but blue skies and placidity, speckled with a generous amount of nudity, of course.
 
Not gonna lie, I’m left rather sad this link doesn’t work... would have liked to hear you singing...

Give me a minute to make a dropbox or something and I will send a private message with the link. Probably wasn't the best idea to post a link to a copy written song from an album still on itunes for sale, but yeah...
 
Not gonna lie, I’m left rather sad this link doesn’t work... would have liked to hear you singing...

Give me a minute to make a dropbox or something and I will send a private message with the link. Probably wasn't the best idea to post a link to a copy written song from an album still on itunes for sale, but yeah...

ooo... is this an “I’ll show you mine if you show me yours?” scenario, or do I just get it NSA?! *rubbing hands together in anticipation*
 
ooo... is this an “I’ll show you mine if you show me yours?” scenario, or do I just get it NSA?! *rubbing hands together in anticipation*

You will never find any quid pro quo from me. It is always NSA, as I have found that things with long heavy strings attached never really seem to work out so well. I don't "give" in hopes of getting. I just like to talk and find interesting people, and whatever happens, happens. Besides, last time I did the whole "I will show you mine if" bit, I think I was an awkward 14 year old, and things got really weird, really quick.
 
You will never find any quid pro quo from me. It is always NSA, as I have found that things with long heavy strings attached never really seem to work out so well. I don't "give" in hopes of getting. I just like to talk and find interesting people, and whatever happens, happens. Besides, last time I did the whole "I will show you mine if" bit, I think I was an awkward 14 year old, and things got really weird, really quick.

:eek:

(I kinda meant I could send you a song link, but I like your attitude! And for the record would still not mind seeing yours... :D;))
 
:eek:

(I kinda meant I could send you a song link, but I like your attitude! And for the record would still not mind seeing yours... :D;))

the vagueness of your replies just makes me smile, and wonder...and while I am not only an open book but share whatever is asked, you do actually have to ask...

the hinting will only get you so far, but i certainly dont mind playing along either :devil:
 
❤ it is so wonderful to see you back again! You've been missed. I would love to catch up with you again. ❤
 
❤ it is so wonderful to see you back again! You've been missed. I would love to catch up with you again. ❤

Its good to have been missed. I did write a long 'catch up' message about the past 2 years and whats been going on, where things are at and such, somewhere above all this mess. But really things are great, I am great, happy, and life is genuinely good.

Though I really dont feel like going to work today. I should be getting dressed and drinking my morning coffee, but instead I am sitting at my computer still nude wrapped in my blanket, typing away on the interwebbings.

How the hell are you?

Also, I would say feel free to text me, but there is literally zero chance that my number hasnt changed at least 6236234 times since you last had it.

<3
 
Its good to have been missed. I did write a long 'catch up' message about the past 2 years and whats been going on, where things are at and such, somewhere above all this mess. But really things are great, I am great, happy, and life is genuinely good.

Though I really dont feel like going to work today. I should be getting dressed and drinking my morning coffee, but instead I am sitting at my computer still nude wrapped in my blanket, typing away on the interwebbings.

How the hell are you?

Also, I would say feel free to text me, but there is literally zero chance that my number hasnt changed at least 6236234 times since you last had it.

<3

I added you to mu buddy list. I know you'll be busy catching up with your friend, so you can just message me whenever you're free. I did read the stuff above. I'm super happy you're coming out on top. 😘 youi've always been strong.
 
I added you to mu buddy list. I know you'll be busy catching up with your friend, so you can just message me whenever you're free. I did read the stuff above. I'm super happy you're coming out on top. 😘 youi've always been strong.

Buddy list? On Lit or some other place? I dont recall there being a friendslist on here, unless I have been gone so long I am just forgetting?

Edit 1: Ignore this, I found it. I guess I just forgot all about this feature, as I already had a few people including you on my buddy list. Though to be fair, I have no clue what adding someone really means anyways.

Edit 2: Shit I am so late for work, except no one is there for another 90 minutes to even know I was late....so if no one is there to know I am late, am I actually late? Also if a tree falls in the woods....nevermind. I really should have tried to sleep last night.
 
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Hey there! I’m sure you don’t remember but we talked a bit back in the day when I had a different name. I’m glad to see you here, and so happy that you’re doing well. And looking great :rose::)
 
I was going back through phones and pictures from the 2 years give or take that I have been away from Lit... and these are the only 3 selfies I think I took in that entire time. Obviously...there is a theme here, but if you read the longer post I had a little higher up, it all has a great outco

Hey handsome! It's always really nice to see you, you've been missed my friend!
 
Hey there! I’m sure you don’t remember but we talked a bit back in the day when I had a different name. I’m glad to see you here, and so happy that you’re doing well. And looking great :rose::)

Well try me! I mean I obviously can't remember someone if they changed their name and I have no point of reference! Although if you changed names and don't want it known what your previous name was, by all means please send me a message and I would really like to see if I do in fact remember. But regardless, I always appreciate anyone that takes time to leave sweet comments like yours <3

Hey handsome! It's always really nice to see you, you've been missed my friend!

I so knew you were still around, you are NEVER GOING ANYWHERE WOMAN!

How the fucking hell are you? It has been far far too long my dear friend! Although one could argue that going a couple days would also qualify as far too long without one talikat in their life XOXOX
 
I so knew you were still around, you are NEVER GOING ANYWHERE WOMAN!

How the fucking hell are you? It has been far far too long my dear friend! Although one could argue that going a couple days would also qualify as far too long without one talikat in their life XOXOX

ahahaha, where else would I be but perving on these pretty men? Long as I'm breathing, I'll be here!

Aww, thank you, I'm doing okay, still here, so that's always a win!

So happy that you're doing well, it couldn't happen to a nicer fella. :heart:
 
Well, after some security upgrades due to work and needing to make many changes to my home networking, I somehow locked myself out of my Lit account and its only taken 3.5 years to finally gain access to it again.

Just figured I would bump this just in case any of my long time friends are still wandering about in here. =)
 
Well, after some security upgrades due to work and needing to make many changes to my home networking, I somehow locked myself out of my Lit account and its only taken 3.5 years to finally gain access to it again.

Just figured I would bump this just in case any of my long time friends are still wandering about in here. =)
yeah, some of us are still here kicking about, nice to see you, glad you're okay!! 🥰 😘🫂
 
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