Paying For Sex

[Pearljwah]

I know its stupid. I know its pathetic. I know there are lots of things wrong with it and its taking a huge chance on diseaseannd all that.

but last night i was so fucking horny. I hopped on craigs list and couldnt believe how many "girl of the night" had postings on there with local numbers. Some at their houses, others at hotels, some in calls, someo ut calls. I just tested the waters, partly to get my rocks off, partly out of curiosity.

Its definitely a huge fucking fantasy of mine and i havent been fucked in 4 months. Which is a lot for me.

Are these things legal? legit? would i get robbed? shot? I dont know. Anyone ever done it?

Fuck, some of these women are beyond gorgeous. And so close to me!

 

[Jackotheshadows]

First off, do not use Craig's List.

Google "The Erotic Review" and see what you find.

Yes, it's illegal, unless you happen to live in Nevada, and go to someplace like the Bunny Ranch. Which means jail if you're not careful.

Yes, you can get ripped off if you're not careful. Likewise with STDs, although most providers require them.

And yes, you do get what you pay for, so don't be cheap.

Or so I've heard.

 

[Pearljwah]

First off, do not use Craig's List.

Google "The Erotic Review" and see what you find.

Yes, it's illegal, unless you happen to live in Nevada, and go to someplace like the Bunny Ranch. Which means jail if you're not careful.

Yes, you can get ripped off if you're not careful. Likewise with STDs, although most providers require them.

And yes, you do get what you pay for, so don't be cheap.

Or so I've heard.

why not craigs lst?

should this just be kept as a fantasy?

 

[Jackotheshadows]

why not craigs lst?

should this just be kept as a fantasy?

Craig's list is just people posting things.......call it a lack of quality control. There's no way to verify anything, pictures, cost, whatever. The site I mentioned before has that.

It's up to you, if you want to keep it in the realm of fantasy. If you have the money to burn, and don't mind some risk, you could probably get the dream girl you're looking for.

 

[Eilan]

Every so often, someone posts a warning of sorts on the Columbus, OH Craig's List pages about the Erotic Services ads (The warning usually gets pulled because the scammers complain, but it's reposted periodically. I have a copy of it; it's way too long to post here). Basically, it's a scam to get as much money as possible with as little contact as possible.

If it sounds too good to be true, then it probably is. But, hey, it's your money, so do what you want.

 

[Colton_White]

why not craigs lst?

should this just be kept as a fantasy?

lol, if you want to do what your mind says then do it.
minds of other people [including me] says its highly dangerous soliciting with prostitutes via
craiglist route. I guess you can finder cheape,better and safer hookers on real life streets than
on craiglist.

how know she might be an ugly bitch along with her b/f asking you to come on xyz lonely place
and drugging you and robbing all your money..credit card...kidneys, eyes, liver, bonemarrow

or simply asking you to buy her a toy/gift online first..and then never meeting you ?
or..
possiblities are endless.
I mean paying for sex is not bad
but paying for sex via Craiglist route is really a stupid idea in my opinion.

still I wish you good luck in finding sex with some genuine regular woman without having to pay for it [except dinner lol]

 

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[SweetErika]

Craigslist is often patrolled by law enforcement agencies as well. Many are using it to crack down on prostitution.

Good luck with not getting arrested, scammed, robbed, injured, killed or diseases!

 

[rosco rathbone]

Look for the hobbyist or erotic review board covering your area. You'll find a lot of information and the community of non-judgemental whoremongers.

 

[Jenny_Jackson]

Craigslist is often patrolled by law enforcement agencies as well. Many are using it to crack down on prostitution.

Good luck with not getting arrested, scammed, robbed, injured, killed or diseases!

That's true. The Vice Nazi's also run their own ads on Craig's List to catch "Johns".

So you do actually hook up with a "real" prostitute. Lots of luck. Between the STD's, great chance of being ripped off, etc. It really doesn't seem all that wonderful an idea. Espcially when there are so many horny women around giving it away for free.

 

[emap]

If your dead set on paying for sex, pick up your yellow pages. No seriously the real escorts are listed in the yellow pages under escort services. Obviously you have to find one that offers sex, though calling them and asking usually works well for that, apparently it is always if the escort wants to. Not like they aren't expecting you to ask them for it anyway, the agency is saying if she wants to and no extra money to protect themselves from being shut down as a pimp service.

Anyway, there is how you would find an actual honest so to speak escort. If you want to find a street walker, well there are streets for that, I am sure you know which ones to go to in your city.

Escorts of course are not safe either, even the ones found in the yellow pages, they may have a disease or three, they still may rob you, so on so forth.

They of course are tons better than craigs list, as has been said, the cops use craigs, scammers use craigs, I'm willing to bet that for every 100 scam/cop set ups listed there is one actual woman or man willing to do exactly what they are saying.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I'm willing to bet that for every 100 scam/cop set ups listed there is one actual woman or man willing to do exactly what they are saying.

I'm willing to bet you have no idea what you are talking about.

OP, do your research and you'll be fine. A good way to find the hobby board in your town is to search on technical terms used by experts such as "GFE", "DATY", BBBJTC","AMP" or "TOFTT" as well as the phrases "erotic review" or "escort review".

Those boards are usually friendly to newbies who follow the rules and contribute. You'll get real information and reviews of escorts and sex workers, usually updated daily on the big boards, as well as information on the current state of law enforcement in your area and general knowledge and "how to" about this stuff.

 

[ApprenticeApril]

try eros.com

 

[Pearljwah]

thanks for the advice. i think its just a wierd fantasy.

Ill stick to the old fashion way and hope to meet a cute girl out on the town and get her back in my bed!
just might take a bit longer and im not sure how long my cock is willing to put up with that!

 

[tammytoodles]

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[bisexualsmoker]

And the girl probably won't look anything like she did in the add.

 

[welikeu]

do you not have escort agencies in the US? I thought of using one here but I figured it would be too big an expenditure to hide from my husband.

Yes, there are Escort Agencies here in the United States. There are agencies that supply women for men as well as men for women.

 

[welikeu]

About two weeks ago here in MN a guy ordered a hooker from Craigslist and she and her pimp showed up at his door. The guy took a look at the two of them through his screen door and changed his mind, refused to let them in and they shot him in the FACE right through the door!!!!! So just be careful

I think I would attempt to find another means to even locate someone based on your account....LOL

 

[rosco rathbone]

A site of interesting information:

http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/archive/index.php/

 

[human_male]

I don't think it's stupid or pathetic or wrong. And (well over here at least) prostitutes get tested regularly and insist on condoms so I don't see the huge risk of infection. Depends on the individual though and their practices obviously.

The fact is a lot of guys just don't get sex, and this is their only option. But I don't think you're one of those guys. Four months is nothing. If it were me on the other hand, and I knew anywhere nearby I'd be down there like a shot.

I wish you well.

 

[sialb2007]

As a frequent customer of paid services in many countries...

I can vouch for the fact that if you have a few brains there is little risk from all the scary stuff that the non-triers imagine. In the US, the two most likely dangers (although the over all risk is still very low) are being arrested and being scammed

First of all, buying sex is illegal in most parts of the US. To protect yourself from arrest you have to know the drill. You are not paying for sex, you are paying for company and conversation. If you happen to click so well that you end up in bed after the first 5 minutes, then that is by mutual consent and not by financial inducement.

Contact an escort agency from the yellow pages or electronic equivalent. These are legitimate businesses that want to provide a good service to establish regular customers. Tell them you want the company of a women (or whatever) for the evening. They will ask standard questions about your preferences in a companion. Hotels are far preferable to your home - if she goes to a private address, she will have back - up close by. The girl will arrive and if she does not meet the description you gave, you can send her back with little more than the charge of the cab fare. So far, I've never been sent anything too far from what I requested.

To prevent being scammed, always pay in cash. There is an etiquette to this. Have the cash in an envelope, have the envelope in a visible conspicuous place on the table. She should not have to ask for it. The girl will check it and call in to her agency to say she has arrived and all is well.

Start a conversation - this is what you are paying for. Treat her with respect and dignity like the nice person she is and you will be amazed at the favourable response.

Always wear a condom and always be polite (unless being impolite was part of the original specification)

In most big cities in the US, the going rate is still $200 per hour. Trying to scam them by short changing the envelope is not polite and will lead to trouble. The woman will probably try to ask for extra for the cab fare back. I usually politely decline.

So.....my advice is go for it. I've had some great experiences with some really interesting people. YMMV

Now if you get to travel at all, I can recommend the very civilised system in Germany through the FKK clubs.

 

[weedwhacker]

About two weeks ago here in MN a guy ordered a hooker from Craigslist and she and her pimp showed up at his door. The guy took a look at the two of them through his screen door and changed his mind, refused to let them in and they shot him in the FACE right through the door!!!!! So just be careful

Was that in the news? I live in Minnesota and I never heard that story. I assume it was in Minneapolis?

 

[In Anticipation]

do you not have escort agencies in the US? I thought of using one here but I figured it would be too big an expenditure to hide from my husband.

Just out of curiosity, why were you interested in hiring an escort? PM me if you don't want to go into it in the thread.

 

[Monazwx]

Now if you get to travel at all, I can recommend the very civilised system in Germany through the FKK clubs.

What's a FKK club?

 

[intruder52]

What's a FKK club?

Take a look at this link http://www.fkktour.com/ should give you an idea of the full scope of FKK clubs. There are two types, one for nudists and the other for paid sex.