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[Melesse]

I have the same problem. Noone has been able to get me off with hands, or mouth, and when I'm masturbating with someone there, it takes much much longer then normally masturbating. It's frustrating.

And my gf is a master of the oral arts, she's so much better than anyone who came before, it's not even funny. We're starting to think I have a mental block, since it requires, for me to get off, for me to have a sexual image in my mind that totally does it for me. If my mind is blank, I can't get off, but for hand and oral, even if I have this image, it doesn't work.

Just a reply from one of those other guys who can't get off orally...

Melesse

 

[BlueSugar]

Adjusting speed and what part of her mouth touches what part of you penis. Think about how you masturbate and what you like to touch and how hard/soft you hold yourself. A mouth is very different from a hand. I've been with men who get off if I blow on them, if its bitten the right way, and if its a slow sensual lips tongue wettness no sucking painfully slow blowjob. The last one was 36 and has never reached orgasim with oral... i was quite proud.
Think about suction and her tongue position as well. Sometimes a little alteration and movement works well.
I only noticed this at a younger age because I played a woodwind instrument since I was about 8 years old, and I still play (I'm well in college now) All those years using mouth muscles and flicking tongue etc movements payed off! Try different combinations of things, when you feel a tingle, or she feels you flex inside her mouth just go with the flow