Phone Sex

[Zergplex]

Zergplex Says

Actually if she's in the mood (and her room mate isn't home) then I'm thinking of trying phone sex tonight. I'll let everyone know how it goes ^_~ hehehe....

-Zergplex

 

[sheath]

The only really BIG tip I can think of for phone sex is being seriously into that person. I have to know them well, be able to talk and laugh about anything at all, and know the little quirks and fantasies that it takes a while to learn. I can't just pick up the phone and have phone sex. My mind has to be completely and totally into HIM, not just the voice on the line.

That said...phone sex can be absolutely incredible. I have had phone sex in which I was completely transported...forgot where I was, lost track of time, felt like he was actually THERE with me...and it was great.

I need a phone sex fix soon, lol.

S.

 

[SlowGuy]

Re: Zergplex Says

Actually if she's in the mood (and her room mate isn't home) then I'm thinking of trying phone sex tonight. I'll let everyone know how it goes ^_~ hehehe....

-Zergplex

I need a phone sex fix soon, lol.

S.

It's heartwarming to see how inspirational Lit can be. [sniff]

 

[sheath]

Re: Re: Zergplex Says

It's heartwarming to see how inspirational Lit can be. [sniff]

We are all REALLY here for the inspiration. Didn't you know that?

S.

 

[Noor]

A case of auralerotic strangulation?

Be careful Noor, or you'll make the nightly news.

Unlikely, it usually just pulls out of my cell phone, and then I have to find the phone as well!

However, if i did strangle myself, I would be dead so it wouldn't matter to me, and if I was on with that certain guy, I would go extremely happy.

Noor

 

[JRaven]

Depends...

I like to combine things. I enjoy it, he would just as soon cyber. I think it has to do with the way I'm aurally aroused (they say most women are) and he's visually aroused (they say most men are)

So, when Hubby is away, I'll get online (dsl) when he calls me. He gets to watch me strip, I get to hear him, do as he asks. He always yells "I love you!" when he cums, he enjoys watching me cum. So, we both get the next best thing to actually doing it.

Jenny

 

[lovelylisa]

Re: Depends...

I like to combine things. I enjoy it, he would just as soon cyber. I think it has to do with the way I'm aurally aroused (they say most women are) and he's visually aroused (they say most men are)

So, when Hubby is away, I'll get online (dsl) when he calls me. He gets to watch me strip, I get to hear him, do as he asks. He always yells "I love you!" when he cums, he enjoys watching me cum. So, we both get the next best thing to actually doing it.

Jenny

See, that's so nice! Works out great for the two of you!

 

[Zen_Life]

Yeah no lie....that video with sound thing really does sound fun.

I mean...you're making a real live 'talkie'. The internet has finally cought up to 1930's Hollywood! hehe

 

[pogogirl]

I perfer to cyber with the person and get to know them a little bit before I ever have phone sex with them but I love phone sex so much. Its great.

 

[SlowGuy]

Re: Re: Re: Zergplex Says

We are all REALLY here for the inspiration. Didn't you know that?

S.

Yeah, that's why I was sniffing, I can just smell the inspiration from here.

Or maybe it was teen spirit?

-- Slo

 

[HoneyRyder62]

There's this woman in NY that teaches a class on how to have phone sex. It's suppose to be pretty cool and works I have a girlfriend that took it, but she won't let me hear

 

[LittleLonghorn]

Yeah, I'm stuck with the phone sex thing too. I live in Texas, and my boyfriend is actually in Toronto. It was very strange at first, but now it's working very well, except I keep waking up my roomate.

 

[horny_boi]

i love it too
i dont really like to masturbate but when it comes to phone sex i just cant stop
only one bad thing about it....PHONE BILL

 

[College_geek]

Since I'm too paranoid that my roommate will return during the middle of it, I haven't and probably won't have phone sex with my boyfriend. However, we were talking about it last night, and I came up with this silly idea. Since he's coming up to school tomorrow and we're renting a hotel room, I had the idea of one of us going into the bathroom with a cell phone and the other staying in the bedroom with the room phone. That way we can try out phone sex (sort of) without really having to worry about anyone coming in on us. 'Course it's not the real thing, I suppose, since we'll know that the other one is in the next room, but it's a start. That and I figured it could be like a type of foreplay, and then when we're done, we can actually do the stuff we said.

 

[paintergrl]

Good Phone Sex

There is a lot that goes into some good phone sex. Knowing a little about the person is always a plus. You can spice it up by talking about a particular fantasy, or a role play...do something that is suited to both of you... some of my partners enjoy really hot, hard, fast, rough sex...so I cater our fantasy's to something more along those lines. Language is a really big thing...your word choice, makes a difference in the mood, & taking them & you to that place that is going to make you hot, & desire to cum. If you are going to be doing something a little more soft, sweet, & loving you aren't going to say "shove your big cock in my cunt, & fuck me!" Another really big thing, is your tone of voice...your breathing...it always helps when I feel sexy. If I feel sexy, I know that it is going to come accross on the phone with my partner. If you ever start to run out of ideas or you think it is getting old...check out some of the erotica on here, that could spice it up, if not give you a few ideas. Hope this helps!

 

[Noor]

i love it too
i dont really like to masturbate but when it comes to phone sex i just cant stop
only one bad thing about it....PHONE BILL

Phone bill? are you in the us? I use my cell phone with free long distance nights and weekends for domestic calls and onesuite.com for international calls. A 3hr phone sex call to europe only costs $7.09, cheaper than a movie and much more fun, at least with my partner.

 

[horny_boi]

Im in Australia

and it costs ALOT for international calls ( even pre-paid international phone card cost about $30 and lasts only 7-9hours to U.S./Canada )
and we all know thats not long enough

 

[DevilishTexan]

I love phone sex. It's the next best thing when ya can't be there. I use 10-10-811+ the number. I have called Canada, Australia, etc. and it's just 5 cents a minute with no monthly fees and no time limit. It comes attached to your local bill.

I don't make phone sex a habit mind you, but sometimes it's a nice surprise. Not really into the cyber thing because #1 I can't type. Now I can hunt & peck like a fool but I mean c'mon, ya can't diddle and type! least I don't like to. But then I can get so into it I can almost cum without touching it!

 

[Shimmmer]

I loved it so much, I started doing it professionally

It's a great way to supplement my income, plus, it's an excellent sexual outlet.

I have learned so much about men, and about sexuality in general...

 

[herecomestherain]

I'm a talker from way back and this sounds like lots of fun. Never done it. Can see (hear) the appeal. Will investigate. Have done a little on line play, got me so excited I couldn't sleep for two days. I'm a sucker for novelty. Below is a collection of articles that may be worth scrolling through,I've had them bookmarked in my faves list for a while. I found them interesting. Don't be misled it's not one giant book review, there are some fun ideas especially towards the end of the collection.

http://www.sexuality.org/talk.html#stbook

 

[dirtracin24]

phone sex???
Thats as just like: being there when your not there

 

[Phoenix Stone]

I clicked on the 'ok when absolutely needed' choice on the poll because none of them were what I wanted, which was 'LOVE it but haven't done it forever.' Guess I clicked on the wrong thing. I no longer need to but certainly would again if available. Am trying to get my dh into it, though he is certainly available. In fact maybe I'll just ask him to take the extension into the other room....

My ex from Many years ago said we invented it. Sigh.

Cyber has its own appeal but there is nothing like a sexy man's voice speaking low and soft... intensely probing and caressing without a single touch.... ohhhhh

Reminds me of those incubus and ghost stories in the fantasy and non-human categories of the story boards.

 

[Phoenix Stone]

Thanks 'rain. Skimmed thru your bookmark. Very Detailed with lots of info. For someone looking more for something hot, there's a sample call to a phone sex worker who is good at it, about halfway down.

 

[lovelylisa]

I'm a talker from way back and this sounds like lots of fun. Never done it. Can see (hear) the appeal. Will investigate. Have done a little on line play, got me so excited I couldn't sleep for two days. I'm a sucker for novelty. Below is a collection of articles that may be worth scrolling through,I've had them bookmarked in my faves list for a while. I found them interesting. Don't be misled it's not one giant book review, there are some fun ideas especially towards the end of the collection.

http://www.sexuality.org/talk.html#stbook

That was a good article, thanks!

 

[herecomestherain]

My pleasure, I'm glad you enjoyed it, I think I may have been a closet librarian in another life, a hyperalert informationaholic!