Please help! I'm desperate!

[Emilio_di_Roccabruna]

This might sound pretty dumb but I really have a huge crush on a girl in one of my classes (we attend the same classes, I don't teach her), just that every time I so much as look at her my mind goes completely blank, you know when you get hit by a 105mm anti-tank round right in the chest? Exact same thing!

I have had other experiences before but this has never even remotely happened! How is that possible?

I apologize for sounding so lame and nerd-like but I really need help with this!
Please help me out of my miserable dark and lonesome state!
How the hell can I stop sounding like a complete and utter moron every time I even think of talking to her?

A huge THANK YOU chorus to whomever might aid me in my quest to seducing my damsel!

 

[glynndah]

Go with the KISS rule. Keep It Simple, Stupid. Start with eye contact, a sincere smile,a simple hello and go from there. No corny pickup lines. No suave comeons. Don't try to be someone you're not. Don't worry if you blush or are flustered. She may feel the same way. I would have been flattered to think I made a guy act like that.

A for courage from a good little witch.

In case it hasn't happened yet, welcome to Lit.

 

[EJFan]

Go with the KISS rule. Keep It Simple, Stupid. Start with eye contact, a sincere smile,a simple hello and go from there. No corny pickup lines. No suave comeons. Don't try to be someone you're not. Don't worry if you blush or are flustered. She may feel the same way. I would have been flattered to think I made a guy act like that.

A for courage from a good little witch.

In case it hasn't happened yet, welcome to Lit.

this is a wonderful point... do your best to just ignore the butterflies and know (yes, KNOW) that she's going to love the fact that she made you feel that way. i've never been in a relationship where the woman didn't adore the fact that i got nervous or tongue tied or what have you when interacting with her.

glynndah has likely given you the best advice you're going to get. this chick may not respond the way you want (she very well may and i hope she does, but she may not) but as long as you're yourself you'll get a real and natural response.

best of luck to you. you're not the first to feel this way and we've all survived it so go get 'em. it's gonna be fine.

 

[Seamus123]

you know when you get hit by a 105mm anti-tank round right in the chest? Exact same thing!

I've never experienced that, so I can't offer any advice.

Sorry

 

[KokopelliRises]

My only extra suggestion is to try writing her a note, something simple, and give it to her the next time you see her. All you have to say is "I wrote a note for you" or something of the like.