Almost all of the nerve endings in the vagina are near the extensive network of the clitoris. The clitoris has 18 parts which accounts, also, for "G-spot orgasms." The cervix has no nerve endings per se but may be responding to pressure or dilation. When I orgasm and when female lovers of mine have orgasmed, there has been a fluttering in the cervix when it dilates due to clitoral stimulation (whether internal clitoral stimulation or external clitoral stimulation). Perhaps this is what you are describing is the repeated opening and closing spasms of the cervix that accompany a very strong orgasm caused by clitoral stimulation?
Any part of the body, when stretched to 10 times its normal size, would probably feel like a ring of fire.It would feel a whole lot worse if there were a lot of nerve endings there.
I am not saying that I doubt your experience or your wife's, but what I know is that women feel most intensely the stimulation to the clitoris that happens both inside and outside of the vagina. Too many women for far too long have felt like sexual inadequates due to the spread of misinformation that the clitoris and clitoral orgasms were "immature" or "inferior." I just would love to see that dark age ended now and for women to relax and orgasm the way they are most comfortable orgasming without it having to be a circus feat.
The truth is that only 30% of women ever orgasm during penetration, ever! So if you could report orgasming during in-out penetration as a woman, you would be in the minority even if it happened only once! For most women, orgasm simply does not happen during penetration. Yet most women will feel inadequate because of this and will feel like they have to practice, study, get surgery, whatever it takes to orgasm the way the porn movies tell us we're all supposed to. All that instead of simply loving the female body and letting it experience pleasure the way it wants to.
I know that this is probably turning off every man at Literotica for me to say these things. And I'm sorry. But I cannot lie, and will not perpetuate the myth that undermines clitoral importance in female orgasm any longer. Time, and orgasms, are precious.
blessings and good sex to all of you.
I read far more than the average human being does about sex and have had wonderful and exploratory experiences with others. But what worries me is that so many people believe things that are blatantly false about female sexuality . . . falsehoods that are perpetuated by pornography and the fact that people are embarrassed to discuss sex on a candid but factual level.
Oh I have certainly explored my sexuality and that of others.
Some women prefer men who have very large long penises, even though length doesn't really do much physiologically for women's orgasms. It may be the psychological factor that women find engaging in such circumstances.
I'm also a big believer in female ejaculation and male prostate stimulation. But to tell a woman that she must orgasm only from vaginal stimulation is the same as telling a man that he must orgasm from only prostate stimulation, without any touching of his penis. This is the message that most women get most of the time and it is frustrating.
