Popping Cherry - Taking Virginity

[rekha_john2000]

Hi I married few months ago and we both were virgins LOL. Though we did sex almost every night, it was only after 6 months her cherry was popped? has this happened to anyone else? Anyone who has similar experiences pls write.

 

[SweetErika]

Hi I married few months ago and we both were virgins LOL. Though we did sex almost every night, it was only after 6 months her cherry was popped? has this happened to anyone else? Anyone who has similar experiences pls write.

Do you mean her HYMEN didn't break until after you had been having sex daily for six months?

I'm sure that's possible, but it seems highly improbable. If a woman's hymen were that strong, she'd likely be in serious pain every time she had sex, and certainly wouldn't be eager to fuck daily. Most women would also visit their doctor if sex and their genitalia were hurting after the first several times. It could be a particularly flexible hymen, but then it's unlikely to break like that.

Anyway, what exactly do you mean?

 

[rekha_john2000]

No dear, dont laugh. I hadn't entered the correct place though i 'explored' her hole. This is true. I had had sex with another gal before but it was non penetrative. So i was a virgin when i did the second.

 

[SweetErika]

Still confused.

No dear, dont laugh. I hadn't entered the correct place

Where exactly were you putting your penis? In her ass? Were you having anal, instead of vaginal, sex for six months without knowing it?

though i 'explored' her hole.

Which hole did you explore? What does this have to do with virginity? What's your question?

I had had sex with another gal before but it was non penetrative. So i was a virgin when i did the second.

So, what, you had oral sex with the woman before your wife? How is this relevant to your virginity question?





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[rekha_john2000]

incorrect place,

with sheer inexperience, i must have entered just between thighs and not in the slit.not anal/ass. yes did something between thighs without knowing it. she was too shy to show the corect place. for six months!!!!

 

[rekha_john2000]

Where exactly were you putting your penis? ????? I put it betwenn thighs in wet area.

Which hole did you explore? What does this have to do with virginity? What's your question? - ?????

the front hole. But was not sucessful . since the area was lubicant i thought it was the right place.

oral sex girl not related, forget it. all i want to say is i was inexperienced. both gals were inexpereinced too.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Ooh you must cure your lady of this shyness. Whatever your personal religious beliefs, as you are married, sex is not dirty or wrong but a beautiful act of love. Remind her of this. You cannot be expected to know what you're doing because you're a man, it's unfair of her to wait this long for you to work it out without the slightest direction.

Does she actully enjoy sex and intimacy? If she's just lying there with her eyes shut you need to have a long chat with her.

I assume that when you did 'pop her cherry' it felt very different because you were inside her body. At least now you know that unless you get the same sensation, you're in the wrong place.

I hope you figure it all out honey. One of your parents should have told you the basics, I can't believe they'd watch you walk into marriage without discussing any of this with you. Maybe go and talk to a parent or married friend if you feel able to.

Talking to your wife is vitally important - if you don't get her over this ridiculous level of shyness soon, you'll be stuck with it.

Velvet

 

[rekha_john2000]

Shyness

you are very kind. Yes, as you said she didnt enjoy it at all but just lied there. To tell you she is the most beautiful creature I have seen on earth. But she didnt enjoy it at the beginning and she didnt know anything about sex. you won't belive this. She was very shy and she nevr told me if she enjoyed it.

But now she kind of like it. After taking virginity last week, we still coudln't do anything because she got mensus a day after.

She doesn't like sperm as well and always ensure i wear a condom!!!! Do you think we need to meet a doc?

 

[VelvetDarkness]

I think a chat with your doc would clear a few things up but just for starters...

Please forgive me if I'm telling you stuff you know already.

If you want to have a baby your sperm needs to be ejaculated into her vagina. So if you don't want a baby you should use condoms or take your wife to the doc for birth control pills. As you have only slept with each other there is absolutely no risk of passing an infection and if she is on birth control already, condoms are entirely unnecessary. It gets a little messy after sex if you don't use one but that's all supposed to be part of the fun. She can always go to the bathroom afterwards and wipe herself if she dislikes feeling sticky after sex.

You next mission is her clitoris, this is your best bet at getting her involved and enjoying you. It's the little nub of flesh that sticks up slightly right at the top of her pussy where the lips meet, above where she pees. Ask her if she ever masturbated and if so get her to show you. Otherwise, find it and rub a wet finger over it in light circles. She may squirm a bit and may say that she needs to pee but if she's never masturbated she'll need to get used to the sensation. Persevere with this, gradually moving faster on it and press slightly harder as she gets excited and you'll make her climax. You can, of course, do exactly the same thing with your tongue of even with the head of your penis. Touch her breasts with your free hand , tell her how gorgeous she is and get her to relax. She won't have an orgasm if she's lying there as stiff as an ironing board.

The Bible encourages you to "Rejoice with the wife of your youth" and this includes sex. Your wife needs to leave behind the shame and guilt she associates with pre-marital sex and promiscuity. You are neither of those things.

Hope that helps a little

Velvet

 

[LadyJeanne]

Please read through the How To's on the linked site below, and ask your wife to do some reading as well. The section I've linked to has basics on female anatomy, first time sex, etc.,

http://www.clitical.com/sex-tutorials/basics.php

but there are other sections as well that might be useful.

http://www.clitical.com/sex-tutorials/index.php

 

[Flyin_Free]

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[Private_Label]

I would suggest reading this thread: Try This & Report Back.

It will help you learn a bit more about her anatomy and another way to help her enjoy the experience.

 

[rekha_john2000]

Velvet,
thanks a lot for te detailed info. I'm not joking. These things happen. I am 25 and she is 22. Both didnt have penetrative sex till we married. So the problms come.

Thanks for the links tooo.

 

[Spence99]

Actually, what you said is possible. My g/f, now wife, and I were having sex for months before her "cherry" actually popped. Believe me, we went through the earlier "can't get it in stage", but by this point we were a well oiled machine fucking like mad whenever we could. One weekend I was back home, I worked away all summer, and we rented a hotel room and went at it hot and heavy. I was shocked afterwards to see blood on the white sheets. I asked her if it was her period and she said no, it wasn't due for weeks. We were both speechless and figured her "cherry" had finally popped. I hadn't hurt her. She wasn't bleeding from a cut. We had always assumed her hyman had broken before we had sex, she never experienced pain or tearing. Our only conclusion was that it was her cherry that had broken that day.

 

[LadyJeanne]

Actually, what you said is possible. My g/f, now wife, and I were having sex for months before her "cherry" actually popped. Believe me, we went through the earlier "can't get it in stage", but by this point we were a well oiled machine fucking like mad whenever we could. One weekend I was back home, I worked away all summer, and we rented a hotel room and went at it hot and heavy. I was shocked afterwards to see blood on the white sheets. I asked her if it was her period and she said no, it wasn't due for weeks. We were both speechless and figured her "cherry" had finally popped. I hadn't hurt her. She wasn't bleeding from a cut. We had always assumed her hyman had broken before we had sex, she never experienced pain or tearing. Our only conclusion was that it was her cherry that had broken that day.

Nope.

You can't have full penetrative sex for months with an intact hymen.

There is sometimes breakthrough bleeding (bleeding in between periods) during sex. This happens to me at times, especially if I haven't had sex in a while, like during my LDR. I'm 38 and lost my virginity ages ago, so I know that's not it.

With vigorous sex and not quite enough lube, the friction can also cause microscopic tears in her vagina which will bleed a little. That's different from the breakthrough bleeding though, as it's usually just a tinge of blood rather than all over the sheets.

 

[Eroticmania]

Wrong hole

There are a few documented cases where the wrong hole is penetrated. Inexperienced/virgin males and virgin females have inadvertantly performed coitus between the penis and the female urethera (spelling).
I suspect that this would be extremely painful even with a very slender penis but possible. I sure wouldn't want to be the girl this happened to and certainly wouldn't want repeat performances. This might explain the mystery.

 

[abbey_kyle]

There are a few documented cases where the wrong hole is penetrated. Inexperienced/virgin males and virgin females have inadvertantly performed coitus between the penis and the female urethera (spelling).

this is not even medically possible with a penis, no matter how small it is. I would like to see these "documented cases".

This whole thread sounds suspicious to me.

 

[infinity706]

There are a few documented cases where the wrong hole is penetrated. Inexperienced/virgin males and virgin females have inadvertantly performed coitus between the penis and the female urethera (spelling).
I suspect that this would be extremely painful even with a very slender penis but possible. I sure wouldn't want to be the girl this happened to and certainly wouldn't want repeat performances. This might explain the mystery.

I think you might want to rethink this. It would have to be a cock smaller than your smallest finger to fit.

 

[RuReal]

There are a few documented cases where the wrong hole is penetrated. Inexperienced/virgin males and virgin females have inadvertantly performed coitus between the penis and the female urethera (spelling).
I suspect that this would be extremely painful even with a very slender penis but possible. I sure wouldn't want to be the girl this happened to and certainly wouldn't want repeat performances. This might explain the mystery.

Ok if the woman's wildly screaming in pain and yelling at you to stop, if that is not a clue that something is wrong then someone has some large issues.

I just cannot even imagine that, I can see someone missing, kind of I guess. The only other thing I can think of is anal penetration accidently in this case, but going up her urethra and both parties not knowing!

 

[umichan]

my experience...

well, i remember when i first started having sex, we would do it without a condom. and we did it like that several times (i lost track how many). the first time we did it with a condom, i bled for the first time. i found that pretty weird. and yeah, it hurt every time up until that point.

 

[Raidho]

Is it possible you were sliding between her lips vertically, maybe even hitting her clitoral hood and mistook it for penetration?

Now I'm curious.